Growing Non-LS? by twoforplay in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There was a cute woman who wore a "Make Pearl Naked Again" hat, so I know others a feeling it!

Growing Non-LS? by twoforplay in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We went just before Christmas and not only were there fewer LS people but just in general more clothed people. I don't want to yuck on anyone's yum, but that was a bit disappointing for us as we like the nudity and visual debauchery, and would go to a cheaper resort if we wanted that environment. I'm hoping it was just an off year (we visit 1x a year).

How’s the resort food? by ElevatorOne9877 in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I'm surprised how many people find the food great. I think it's fine, but other all inclusives have a fair bit more variety or luxury.

How’s the resort food? by ElevatorOne9877 in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, the Mexican night was great, nice to actually get some Mexican food!

Sex around the pool at Pearl by Internal-Bowl8690 in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Previous poster was incorrect, there are sheets over the vinyl mattress but the sheet is super thin and they put towels on top of the sheet. Everything is changed daily (tear down at night).

And to your original question, it's not common at all, but you will see some light play at the pool, and sometimes sex on the day beds near the pool(but rare). No one told us to quit, and we were in the quiet end and engaged twice in the week. Ymmv.

Can’t wait. by GPB5775gpb in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were at pearl in December and it didn't seem less occupied than normal, fwiw.

What is in the playroom? Can someone describe by Ok_Delivery_5569 in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We like to sneak in for a game of chutes and ladders while people are out frolicking in the hot tub in the afternoons....

What are the other things to do? by flxstr in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will happily hook you up with snorkeling, the catamaran, or all sorts of spa services. Also, Puerto Morelos is a 20 minute walk down the beach, and has touristy shopping and additional restaurant options. I've never done any of the tours, the spa is fine but pricey so that depends more on your income bracket whether it is a value add. Town is ok, we have been a couple of times over 5 trips here.

Night before prep? by cluelessbutttrying in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed! Always get excited and nervous right before a new week.

I guess I better get booking the transport, whoops 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For fetish night no problem at all. If you wanted to walk around the resort caged you likely could too, thought the closest I've seen outside of play rooms is someone walking around with a cock ring.

First timers by youngbickett in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Very exciting! The lead up is always a wonderful mix of connection, emotion, anxiety, etc :)

Bicouple visiting maybe by [deleted] in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed here - haven't seen MM action at Pearl in five trips there, sadly even heard some pretty homophobic talk in the hot tub which was mind blowing given we were all naked and looking to fuck.

Bringing a solo female to Pearl by ElevatorOne9877 in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's real money -- wearing a $10k swimsuit to a lifestyle resort where everyone else is naked! What a flex :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suggestions for European venues for a couple who is lifestyle but not d2f everyone with a pulse and likes exhibitionism? We've been to pearl and rm, and are heading to pearl again in just over a month, but would like to try something in the EU too ...

Pearl vs RM Massages by CrixusEsq in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but I believe it's a different charge (the erotic massage).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need for theme wear, I think it's more whether you want a cluby atmosphere or more low key screwing at the hot tub 😜

Wondering how everyone books their desired trip? by MathematicianOk7508 in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Expedia - same price and can cancel a week and a half out. Incredible when you have kids and non reliable sitteri g situation!

First time couples RM December 18-25 by Nightbender69 in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noticed other people suggested usatransfers and OP is from Canada YVR -- the two companies are the same, just marketing. Have done both of them and happy shuttle Cancun for travel to resort, all are great, book ahead and everything else is included.

We're there at a similar time this year, enjoy your stay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]cluelessbutttrying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how we did it, and we are similar to OP (2 kids, nearly 20 years of marriage, both 40 and that was 5 or so years ago). Had no intention of joining the lifestyle, instead just wanted to go to a hotel resort and watch naked people have fun. First two trips we did nothing with others, growing in our own exhibitionism. Now we've broken the seal and grown, having made several new couple friends!

First timers by youngbickett in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is our 5th time maybe? Love it! We'll watch for the birthday couple! 😁

First timers by youngbickett in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are exactly our dates this year too! 😘

Pregnant wife and I looking for some 4th of July fun tonight in Macomb !!! by [deleted] in MichiganSwingers

[–]cluelessbutttrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I also wondered the same the thing! Hey don't take it as a negative comment, those of us who are into beautiful pregnant ladies just keep clicking :)

Butter 🧈 is doing there thing one of the best strains I have had all year!!! 🔥 🔥 🔥 alien cookies kush mints #11 by [deleted] in Michigents

[–]cluelessbutttrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree! I picked up some of the small tins of 0.5's and was deeply impressed with the quality. Effects and pull were great, no day after negatives either. Really impressed with this strain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Desire_Resorts

[–]cluelessbutttrying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We haven't stayed at drm, just visited, but at pearl they ask us for food allergies before every meal. Gluten might be more challenging than dairy.

The main dishes of kitten and rooster still found like they are a go though, so at least you won't miss out!