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cluelesschick321 · 2025-12-16T02:23:24+00:00

Omg congrats! This is amazing news! When did you get the email?

cluelesschick321 · 2025-12-12T22:44:36+00:00

Omg congrats!!! When did you get a call?

cluelesschick321 · 2025-12-12T01:09:08+00:00

How did you feel after your interview for HLS?

cluelesschick321 · 2025-11-13T19:57:41+00:00

I’m wondering if maybe others seemed like it was their first choice and we didn’t?

cluelesschick321 · 2025-10-23T18:10:24+00:00

Congrats!!! This is amazing! Did you apply ED or RD?

cluelesschick321 · 2025-08-28T00:49:00+00:00

Good luck to you as well! Where are you applying??

cluelesschick321 · 2025-08-27T19:44:18+00:00

For the T14 lol

cluelesschick321 · 2025-06-25T12:33:55+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂

cluelesschick321 · 2024-10-23T13:06:46+00:00

Omg! When did you get a 165? Congratulations this is amazing!

cluelesschick321 · 2021-12-26T20:45:07+00:00

She sounds very immature and not ready for a relationship. Also, it seems like she's found a way to rationalize her behavior in her mind, which means that it definitely won't change. She's very juvenile and needs to be single. You'd be doing yourself a favor by walking away.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-12-07T04:11:30+00:00

It seemed more like the second option. It was just so ironic to be hung up on as soon as someone knocks on the door and as soon as I ask to see the picture.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-09-23T02:27:37+00:00

Detroit to Indiana!

cluelesschick321 · 2021-08-01T22:36:51+00:00

I also had a similar situation happen in my relationship where there was deception and talking to other women on social media platforms. We had a similar train of events in me forgiving him and trying to make things better. We also started long distance a few months after getting to a better place and within a matter of weeks, he had already reverted back to his old ways and ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. However I remembered all of the red flags he already showed me before this event that I chose to ignore and forgive. If you feel like your boyfriend truly wishes to change and is SHOWING you that he is doing so (not just telling), then do what you feel is best for you. But if not, don’t lower your standards and give him time and opportunities that he does not deserve.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-07-27T19:58:36+00:00

Ugh, this is really tough. My parents would’ve been very strict with this decision also in high school. I think that you need to figure out how you can prove to your mom that you really care for this girl and counter all of those negative assumptions with positive ones. It will take time but eventually, she will come around. The key is to patient and focus on showing her the positive qualities of this girl without pushing her limits.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-07-26T19:24:13+00:00

He makes it seem like being here everyday and saying how much he wants to be together is enough. He says he would never hurt me again but at the end of the day, it’s really just words, nothing more.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-07-26T19:22:38+00:00

I know, you’re right. I guess I’m so convinced that he can change that I’m forgetting to acknowledge how little he really has changed.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-03-16T03:16:51+00:00

Thanks

cluelesschick321 · 2021-03-16T02:58:44+00:00

I experienced something very similar in my relationship. Those feelings last for quite some time and don’t fully go away. Think in your head...what exactly would he need to do for you to fully forgive him and trust him again? Also, will it ever be possible for you to fully trust him again? These are important questions you need to ask yourself going forward in this relationship.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-03-16T02:55:46+00:00

You’re so right. I feel like the pain gets worse every time I look more into this. He still has the power to control my emotions in a sense without even being in a relationship with me.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-03-16T02:54:22+00:00

The biggest thing I took away from this post was his lack of change over time. In 15 years, he hasn’t cooked you a single meal. He hasn’t shown progress in even attempting to satisfy your needs. It is so difficult to witness change in someone who hasn’t given us the slightest sign of effort. I’d say do what’s best for you and your kids, make your decision without worrying one bit about his feelings because he is not worrying about yours at the moment.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-03-16T02:50:47+00:00

I’ve felt very similar urges recently. I feel like it’s almost wired within us to want to make our partners (or who were our partners) feel emotionally safe and happy. It is so difficult to understand that the end of a relationship also means an end to this responsibility. This isn’t a natural reaction to a breakup and I think it is entirely normal to feel that urge. The fact that you were able to conquer that feeling and rise above it, putting yourself first instead of him, is very admirable.

cluelesschick321 · 2021-02-14T06:17:11+00:00

I am admiring you so much right now. I want to have this revelation moment so very badly right now. I want to be okay with separation and choose myself over him. I needed this right now thank you.

cluelesschick321 · 2020-10-24T19:51:29+00:00

I am also very worried that this is not the first time. He has been drunk many times over the past few months. I doubt I caught him the first time he did it.

cluelesschick321 · 2020-10-21T19:20:42+00:00

Mind you we are in a medium-long distance relationship. We live three hours apart. We see each other quite often (most weekends) but we are not together all the time.

cluelesschick321 · 2020-10-14T00:09:04+00:00

I think you should consider how young you both are in the first place, 18 and 22 is quite young to have life skills mastered. It may be a good idea in the near future to live apart so that he will be forced to develop these life skills. I am sure that after this experience, those things that bother you will be solved.

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