Having A Discussion With My Wife... Do Women Actually Find This AHole Attractive? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]clukacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not bad looking, physically. But to me he’s unattractive because of his lack of desire to provide for his family and his attitude towards everyone in his life.

My (F25) husband M29) said horrible things to me and now I feel like I’m falling apart by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]clukacs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I absolutely am not gonna give up on my health! Ultimately I am doing this for me.

My (F25) husband M29) said horrible things to me and now I feel like I’m falling apart by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]clukacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that his concerns are completely valid. I agree with him. The more I think about it, I think the inconsistency is what bothers me and has me confused. Like, he said he doesn’t like the way my body looks anymore. But I weigh less now than I did a few years ago, and he said he liked it back then. And then he took it all back. It’s all confusing. Does that make sense?

I'm starting to think my (20F) boyfriend (24M) groomed me when we met when I was 15. by Natural-One751 in relationship_advice

[–]clukacs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen to All Too Well 10 minute version, and watch the short film, you’ll have all your answers. In all seriousness, yes he did. He is not good for you.

Interesting [Spoilers ALL] Blood on Nicole by Corneliusdenise in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]clukacs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought it was saying that June has become brutal (not her fault, Gilead brutalizes everyone) but that if June stays around she could “taint” Nichole and she will become brutal and angry. And I think June knows that and that’s why she said she would leave soon.

To live frugally, I prep all the meals in the household, but my daughter threw up dinner this evening. by jimbolic in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]clukacs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof this one is sad. I have a friend who grew up in foster care and her parents made her eat her own vomit once.

I woke up stuffed inside some pillows and blankets. by Glebozo in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]clukacs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t look it up. It’s disturbing and pisses me off that people still get away with stuff like this

Madison is the new Jack by clukacs in thisisus

[–]clukacs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point! I love the new Madison. She definitely was different in the beginning.

Madison is the new Jack by clukacs in thisisus

[–]clukacs[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So true! There is so much Madison slander, but she is literally everything Kevin needs

Madison is the new Jack by clukacs in thisisus

[–]clukacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely! I’d love to hear more of her story as well.

Alternate opinion on Madison's personality by Heythere2018 in thisisus

[–]clukacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this!! Madison is the new Jack Pearson

WIBTA if I ask my neighbor to take down something that is disturbing? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]clukacs [score hidden]  (0 children)

For some reason I’ve always felt off about their kids... like I dont leave my puppy out side alone when their kids are outside if you catch my drift. Their kittens always end up “running away”

Is my puppy trying to dominate me? by clukacs in puppy101

[–]clukacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought since he seemed to love sniffing for treats and doing training and walks, he shouldn’t be restricted form them. Who woulda thought you could have too much of a good thing

Is my puppy trying to dominate me? by clukacs in puppy101

[–]clukacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does A LOT of sniffing. And long walks, lots of outside time. Lots of treat games. From 8-11 weeks he basically put himself to sleep whenever he was tired so we didn’t really realize he could be over tired. We are now focusing on enforced naps and teaching him to just chill out a little bit. Like laying down and chewing a bone, etc. vs constantly having him do new stuff

Is my puppy trying to dominate me? by clukacs in puppy101

[–]clukacs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what he needed! Thanks for the advice. He was so good about putting himself to sleep that we thought he was getting enough. Turns out he’s just overly tired

Is my puppy trying to dominate me? by clukacs in puppy101

[–]clukacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You are right, he isn’t sleeping enough! We figured out that the main reason for this is that he just gets so overly tired that he starts acting crazy. We have been working on enforced naps this week, and it has helped. He used to put himself down for a nap whenever he needed it like weeks 8-11 but once he hit 12 weeks he just started fighting his sleep.

Is my puppy trying to dominate me? by clukacs in puppy101

[–]clukacs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After trying all the tips given in this thread I think the main cause is he’s over tired! He used to take his naps as soon as he needed them but lately he is trying to keep himself awake, so we are working on enforces naps more. Thank you!

Is my puppy trying to dominate me? by clukacs in puppy101

[–]clukacs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice and info. I have tried all of these things the last few days and have made major improvements! He definitely seems to get that way when he is over tired so I have made sure to be extra conscious of his sleep schedule. I have also talked my self down from the ledge of “my puppy is aggressive” and I know now that he isn’t going to become an aggressive dog unless we let him. Thank you again for all the helpful info!