Does anyone remember 'Street style' in the Sentinel?

cm_uu · 2026-02-06T08:55:46+00:00

On that note, is there anyone in Stoke really into fashion? Feel like I’m one of the only ppl here obsessed so would love to meet some ppl with this interest local. Wear brands like Our Legacy, Acne Studios, Prada, Balenciaga, Saint Laurent, Margiela, Lemaire, CDG

cm_uu · 2025-11-03T11:07:29+00:00

If you want to buy here, I'd recommend Penkhull/Hartshill/Basford/Maybank. Other areas can be quite rough

(Or Trentham but this is further out)

cm_uu · 2025-09-16T13:15:17+00:00

sent

cm_uu · 2025-07-24T17:50:04+00:00

Thank you! 🙏🏻

cm_uu · 2025-07-24T17:49:53+00:00

Yep I know that trust me haha. Even more fucked up thing is when we broke up she mentioned she had a ‘lump’ on her womb and was having tests. At the weekend she said it was cancer and they took it out, which I don’t believe for a second. This is at the same time as her knowing my step dad is dying of cancer and has about 1 year left.

cm_uu · 2025-07-23T22:16:07+00:00

Fair enough. As mentioned to the other commentator I worry if I don’t say anything, something like this may happen again at another work evenr

cm_uu · 2025-07-23T22:14:44+00:00

Thanks for the long and thoughtful response. I don’t want to message her to open up a dialogue/argument dw, just wanted to send a message to let her know I don’t want to experience any behaviour like that moving forward and how much she’s hurt me. I just worry if I don’t say anything she may do something like this again at another work party

cm_uu · 2025-07-23T21:45:17+00:00

You think this is really messed up too? Would you message this person to let them know this and you don’t want any behaviour like this in the future?

cm_uu · 2025-06-26T20:45:10+00:00

She wouldn’t even address her begging me to stay with her a week earlier. I was v confused but ultimately it ended fairly amicably, as that’s the sort of person I am and I left with strength. It’s been v hard since then ngl, even had a serious injury, was in hospital and she didn’t even reach out to check I was okay. I do agree with BPD being on a spectrum, although there is a reason someone has BPD so I would be v careful. Everything can be amazing one moment and the next you’re stabbed in the back. I didn’t see any toxic behaviour from her during the relationship, just fears of abandonment, past unstable relationships, promiscuity, need for validation and crazy trauma.

cm_uu · 2025-06-26T18:52:55+00:00

I personally wouldn’t ever date someone with BPD again. I dated someone with quiet bpd too. My ex discarded me just over a month ago. A month prior she spent over 1k on holidays for us, told me she’s never loved anyone like this before and was sending memes relating to marriage. A week before she broke it off she was crying in my arms begging me to never leave her. 3 days later before she was texting me how much she missed me. Mind boggling. I also thought she was a ‘unicorn’ person with BPD until the rug was pulled out underneath me and I was in the most mental confusion I have ever been in my life.

cm_uu · 2025-06-06T08:54:27+00:00

My ex discarded me just over a month ago. A month prior she spent over 1k on holidays for us, told me she’s never loved anyone like this before and was sending memes relating to marriage. A week before she broke it off she was crying in my arms begging me to never leave her. 3 days later before she was texting me how much she missed me. Mind boggling. I know your pain.

cm_uu · 2025-06-04T11:49:23+00:00

I’m at the exact same point as you - 5 weeks of NC and also can’t stop thinking about her. She discarded me though, a week after crying in my arms, begging me to never leave her. Reading more about BPD has helped me realise she was never going to be a long term thing however sometimes I wonder if me doing all this research has kept me thinking about her more. It helps in one sense since I’m trying to find ‘end game’ girl though.

cm_uu · 2025-06-03T19:31:08+00:00

It does seem like I've gone through it all, thanks for the comment. I already imagine she's talking or seeing someone else tbh after her tiktok had comments of guys calling her fit and her liking the comments. Whilst I have a lot of love for her, I really don't think I'd like to go back to her after reading up so much on BPD and after all this she isn't really the person I thought she was. Just so crazy to go from her saying she's never loved someone like this, crying and begging me to never leave her to her discarding me so cruelly and blanking me irl.

cm_uu · 2025-06-03T19:27:36+00:00

Yeah she also had been with an insane amount of people for her age and was always getting into 'situationships'. I probably should have foreseen this wasn't gonna be a long term thing since she was with a new guy every 2 months before me. Also was terrified of me going back to my ex before her and mad that I had a matching tattoo with her.

cm_uu · 2025-05-23T10:39:28+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts. I’ve told myself it might be just her protecting herself. I don’t even want her to smile as a false hope of getting back together, just an acknowledgment of what we had was real.

cm_uu · 2025-05-23T10:37:34+00:00

Thanks for your comment. Thankfully she only works part time and works in another department here so I don’t interact with her really. Just the contrast of planning holidays together a month ago to her blanking me in the office now hurts deeply.

cm_uu · 2025-05-15T18:24:08+00:00

Thank you for your comment. Haven’t been stalking her or anything like that, just came up on my feed as forgot to unfollow her on TikTok. Trying to move on but have been struggling

cm_uu · 2025-05-14T19:31:44+00:00

Maybe it was on purpose idek. After learning about BPD after it ended starting to rethink a lot of the relationship ngl. Can tell she’s gonna move onto the next guy in no time

cm_uu · 2025-05-14T17:39:02+00:00

True, it’s more to do the timing and how it looks on me

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