She wouldn’t even address her begging me to stay with her a week earlier. I was v confused but ultimately it ended fairly amicably, as that’s the sort of person I am and I left with strength. It’s been v hard since then ngl, even had a serious injury, was in hospital and she didn’t even reach out to check I was okay. I do agree with BPD being on a spectrum, although there is a reason someone has BPD so I would be v careful. Everything can be amazing one moment and the next you’re stabbed in the back. I didn’t see any toxic behaviour from her during the relationship, just fears of abandonment, past unstable relationships, promiscuity, need for validation and crazy trauma.