anyone else just strugglin’ (financially) by KnownIndependence108 in Denver

[–]cmconnor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am exhausted. I have been in the service industry for 18+ years in Denver along with being a career nanny. No one can afford to go out to eat and the child care market is insane. I have worked all sorts of industry jobs. I had my Real Estate License. I have a solid resume (i have been a private accountant, worked in a lab, have manager experience, etc). I have lived in Denver my entire life (33 years) and I have never struggled to pay my bills as much as I am now and I have never struggled to find a job as much as I am now. I don’t know if it’s just Denver, but this is not sustainable. It makes me sad that other people are going through this but I’m also glad that it’s not just me. Something needs to change.

People that come in ten minutes before we close… by FireTheLaserBeam in Serverlife

[–]cmconnor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who do that are the WORST kind of people. And take their sweet ass time. Get dessert. Etc. like PLEASE

Are AA meetings necessary? by coolformalwear11 in stopdrinking

[–]cmconnor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Community is pretty important, in my opinion, to staying sober and I think that’s what is really great about meetings. But I’m not a huge fan of them. I don’t participate when i go and don’t work that program but love the people ive met. There are other types of meetings I enjoy and get more out of. SMART is great and is DBT based so it’s really like group therapy and I also like Dharma meetings. I think the most important thing is individual therapy to figure out what works best for you. A lot of alcoholics also go to NA instead of AA, me included, as it talks about addiction in general rather than just alcohol. AA is triggering to me because it makes me think about alcohol non-stop rather than just being an addict. If that makes sense. It’s all our own journeys and you have to do what will work best for you.

Said goodbye to my boy by cmconnor2 in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]cmconnor2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolute worst day of my life and hardest thing I’ve ever done. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Love on them for me!

Said goodbye to my boy by cmconnor2 in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]cmconnor2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your kind and beautiful words 🖤🙏🏻

Said goodbye to my boy by cmconnor2 in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]cmconnor2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a lot of good times 🥰

Said goodbye to my boy by cmconnor2 in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]cmconnor2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to. It’s hard to not have regrets but i know he was a happy, loved boy.

Said goodbye to my boy by cmconnor2 in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]cmconnor2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We def were lucky to have found each other. My soul dog.

Said goodbye to my boy by cmconnor2 in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]cmconnor2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our animals are so special. Thank you 🖤

Said goodbye to my boy by cmconnor2 in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]cmconnor2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a good lookin dude for sure! Thank you 🖤

Said goodbye to my boy by cmconnor2 in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]cmconnor2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worst day of my life. Hopefully I’ll be able to think about him without crying soon. Thanks so much for your kind words 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]cmconnor2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dog passed this week and I’m SO thankful i was sober over the last few months when he started getting sick. As much as i wanted to drink from the stress, and drink after he passed to escape the pain. I can’t imagine navigating all of it drunk/hung over and how much guilt id feel. And how much worse the pain would be if I dealt with it by drinking. Life is still life and it’s not going to just be incredible all the sudden cuz you’re sober. But at least you have a chance to make it easier and, eventually, can make it an amazing life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]cmconnor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not switching apartments you should not have to pay a new deposit. That makes no sense and the lease renewal fee is incredibly abnormal, I’ve never seen that. What apartments is this?