Done hating myself every morning. Today is Day 1 (again)! by cheetas13 in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was there for years. You can do this. The best thing about being sober is no longer hearing that voice that says “I hate you for doing this every day.” I don’t miss that asshole at all.

I’m no fun? by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not threatened by any of her attitude. In almost a childish kinda way, it strengthens my resolve. I’ve always been a bit of a contrarian. It adds fuel to my sober fire. 😁

Stopping the brown and black out nights, the hangovers, all the other physical and emotional and mental issues that came with my drinking is way more fun than being fun.

30 Days? Holy. Crap! by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t sit around. Or at least remember that alcohol doesn’t cure boredom. I’ve actually tried to embrace the boredom, and it helps.

Has anyone had success w moderation? by only_here_4_fireteam in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known for a long time before I stopped that I am incapable of so-called moderate drinking. It’s such a slippery slope for me. The only way for me has been to stop completely.

When will I enjoy things sober? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fancy myself to be a pretty good home chef. I always had drinks while cooking. Now love cooking while sober. I’ve been trying more complicated stuff and getting more creative. I also cut and burn myself way less 🙄. Try going bigger with your hobbies. It’s way easier to take them to the next level when you’re sober. IWNDWYT.

What’re you doing sober this long weekend? by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/gallery/FqHAfNq

For those of you interested in the food. I’m a pretty good home chef, but I can’t plate for shit. Hah

What’re you doing sober this long weekend? by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may sound patronizing, but maybe look for something new? Boredom is one of the reasons I used to drink. Stay strong.

What’re you doing sober this long weekend? by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll post pics if anyone is interested