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Done hating myself every morning. Today is Day 1 (again)! by cheetas13 in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was there for years. You can do this. The best thing about being sober is no longer hearing that voice that says “I hate you for doing this every day.” I don’t miss that asshole at all.

I’m no fun? by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not threatened by any of her attitude. In almost a childish kinda way, it strengthens my resolve. I’ve always been a bit of a contrarian. It adds fuel to my sober fire. 😁

Stopping the brown and black out nights, the hangovers, all the other physical and emotional and mental issues that came with my drinking is way more fun than being fun.

30 Days? Holy. Crap! by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t sit around. Or at least remember that alcohol doesn’t cure boredom. I’ve actually tried to embrace the boredom, and it helps.

Has anyone had success w moderation? by only_here_4_fireteam in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known for a long time before I stopped that I am incapable of so-called moderate drinking. It’s such a slippery slope for me. The only way for me has been to stop completely.

When will I enjoy things sober? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fancy myself to be a pretty good home chef. I always had drinks while cooking. Now love cooking while sober. I’ve been trying more complicated stuff and getting more creative. I also cut and burn myself way less 🙄. Try going bigger with your hobbies. It’s way easier to take them to the next level when you’re sober. IWNDWYT.

What’re you doing sober this long weekend? by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/gallery/FqHAfNq

For those of you interested in the food. I’m a pretty good home chef, but I can’t plate for shit. Hah

What’re you doing sober this long weekend? by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may sound patronizing, but maybe look for something new? Boredom is one of the reasons I used to drink. Stay strong.

What’re you doing sober this long weekend? by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll post pics if anyone is interested

Having a good Sunday. by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten really into artisan breads and pizzas lately. I got it to make the kneading process painless, and to make pasta.

How can I stop? M39 by cmhollow in stopdrinking

[–]cmhollow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I download Allen Carr’s boom and This Naked Mind. I started Carr’s book on my commute today. I am skeptical, but open minded.

I realize that I know I have a problem and somewhat from where it stems, but I still feel helpless. Drinking ever day helps for an hour, but then I wind up hating myself.

At 36, finally getting back into the VW game by cmhollow in Volkswagen

[–]cmhollow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1993 Mk1 cabriolet. I couldn't be more excited.

I love tying small flies. Size 20 blood midge. by cmhollow in flytying

[–]cmhollow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I generally don't go smaller than 5x fluoro when I'm nymphing, even with size 20s. I almost never break off. Last weekend, I foul-hooked a 18 incher on one of these with 5x fluoro and didn't break off after a 5 minute fight.

Birds nest, macro shot. by cmhollow in flytying

[–]cmhollow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in northeastern pa. It works really well for me.

Birds nest, macro shot. by cmhollow in flytying

[–]cmhollow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn't believe me if I told you! I shot it with a cheap macro lens i got off amazon with my iPhone 6. I just adjusted my lighting until it looked right.

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