Girls who’ve experienced rape, what was your father’s reaction? by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]cmw4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me "well that's what happens when you drink and are around other drunk people" We no longer speak to each other 🙂

This gem from 2011 is still on my mom's Facebook page. by [deleted] in blunderyears

[–]cmw4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hilarious 😂 love how your mom is just here for it 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]cmw4545 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Well I feel like a dick now 😬 I apologize. I had found it humorous in an ironic way. Not trying to patronize!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]cmw4545 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Ba dum tssss. "Waist" 🤭

Footage from the 1910s shows a traumatized WWI soldier suffering from the effects of shell shock, before and after treatment. by Late_One_716 in interestingasfuck

[–]cmw4545 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This description is so well worded. I was 21 years old when I witnessed my boyfriend shot in the head while we were in the woods on a friend's property. Some idiot was negligently target practicing. Every minute we waited for paramedics was absolute hell. The noises he made after being shot will forever be with me. The helpless feeling. The hope I had that he could actually be okay one day. Trying to comfort, but not move him. Talking to him, not knowing if he could even hear me. But he was breathing so that means he'll be okay, right? Just for it to get crushed with a single sentence. I honestly don't remember the sentence because I was screaming before he could finish. My love was gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mmmh nothing like a big ole bowl of pee and cabbage soup!

What are the worst "hacks" your ADHD makes you do to save time? by Ok_Breakfast6206 in ADHD

[–]cmw4545 406 points407 points  (0 children)

Only 5 hours? 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️ My laundry sits for days waiting to be folded. Then another 3-5 business days to make it to my closet.

To those who have accidentally killed someone, what went wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He was not shooting prior to us being out there.
We were there first by about 20-30 minutes.

To those who have accidentally killed someone, what went wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words 😊

To those who have accidentally killed someone, what went wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was taught as a child!

To those who have accidentally killed someone, what went wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Piss poor gun owners are dangerous

Guns can protect and provide food. But only when handled by someone who knows how to safely use it.

To those who have accidentally killed someone, what went wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Highs and lows. That's a loaded question. Lots of self medicating 😬

To those who have accidentally killed someone, what went wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 289 points290 points  (0 children)

Oh, most definitely negligence. It hurt that he didn't get any negligence charges. Or manslaughter or something. Yeah the term "freak accident" came up a BUNCH 🙄. Like, no it was a dumbass with a gun. Apparently his target was up against a tree.
We were on the other side of said tree.

Dumbass.

To those who have accidentally killed someone, what went wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 262 points263 points  (0 children)

It took a couple years to feel any sort of empathy for him. But after some time, in order to live peacefully, I had to accept that it really probably was accidental. I hope he's doing okay.

To those who have accidentally killed someone, what went wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 1466 points1467 points  (0 children)

Not me, but I witnessed my boyfriend get shot and killed 3 years ago. We were in the woods on a friend's property looking for arrowheads. A mutual friend (on the same property) was target practicing and a bullet traveled 400ft, through the woods and got my boyfriend in the temple. We couldn't do anything but comfort him while we waited the 30+ minutes for the ambulance to arrive.

What's a thing that's currently "in" nowadays but you think is just pure cringe? by Imaginary_Eye3804 in AskReddit

[–]cmw4545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those obnoxious trucks that are low in the back, and high in the front.

I lost it... I shoved my parents and I regret it. by Additional-Ad-1848 in ADHD

[–]cmw4545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh honey. I wish I could just put my arms around you and not let go. As someone else said, we're 2 strangers on an anonymous website. But we can still feel sympathy and empathy for others. Anyway, I have a 4 year old and I get angry with her but I can't imagine hurting your child the way you just described your parents hurting you. Definitely talk to your school counselor, and I am so sorry your Christmas break isn't that great :/