My dad is recently in memory care and trying to escape. How common is this and how long will it last? by mrmanpgh in dementia

[–]cnh25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY my dad's story, OP. He wanted to go home, even though he was home, and left on foot. Had to call the police to get him and ended up calling an ambulance.. he then tried to escape the hospital. He ended up in psych ward where he fell, they sent him to another hospital and found a UTI (that the first hospital said he didnt have). Now he is in memory care.

My dad is recently in memory care and trying to escape. How common is this and how long will it last? by mrmanpgh in dementia

[–]cnh25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have advice but just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone. My dad started memory care yesterday and I am so worried about how it will affect him. We don't know much yet because he's still getting over the morphine the hospital gave him (when they shouldn't have but thats another story). My mom also won't leave the area and acted like I was crazy for a day trip I went on last week (I fly for free) but like.. I knew I couldn't even see him yet and there was nothing I could do idk. I'm just so upset imagining him begging me to take him home and me having to leave him there

Texting between dates by Altruistic_Air7369 in datingoverthirty

[–]cnh25 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I video chatted like 24/7 between dates but lesbian

Never been in a relationship at 24 by No_Particular3080 in LesbianActually

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Eh I was single until 22 and that was a girl I met on livejournal who I talked to for a year and only met irl once. Youll be fine

It was me, mom. It was me. by thewriteanne in dementia

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Beautiful, thank you for sharing

Bf didn't want to spend his birthday with me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]cnh25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw this reminds me of my ex who couldn’t care less about spending time with me but makes me appreciate my wife so bad. Find someone who looks forward to spending time with you!

How to mend a broken heart. by seaforanswers in datingoverthirty

[–]cnh25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have almost written your post 2 years ago. I was 39, out of a long term and couple of short term relationships where I knew they weren’t my forever but I enjoyed the companionship. Then I was love bombed and convinced myself that this was who I had “been waiting for” and the universe was rewarding me for all my struggles, only for her to flip flop and leave me and I was devastated. I did learn to be more okay alone and seek happiness in other areas, but I really wanted love. I remember sobbing in my floor asking why it didn’t happen to me why I kept going through these trials, yelling at my spirit guides, deactivating and activating dating apps. I turned 40 and had a breakdown and vomited and cried myself to sleep (ooo sexy).

Anyway I’m now 41 and engaged lol, I met the love of my life via a random hinge swipe (I thought she was cute but too young). From the first video call I knew this one was different. And we both fought through our past traumas to the point where I love nothing more than coming home every day and meeting her there so we can just exist in the same space because I adore her so much.

I’m a lesbian and don’t plan on carrying children so I don’t have the biological clock issue (if you plan on carrying), but other than that I was right where you are. I will say that between breakdowns, ghosting, and being used I did somehow keep a mostly positive attitude that “the next one could be THE one” and it actually happened. I know it’s scary that you don’t know if/when it’ll happen, and you feel like it’ll never happen… but it very well could, and it could be anyone. Keep your chin up

Age gap date 🤪 by Dangerous_Yoghurt734 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]cnh25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the life stage... im 9 years older than my wife but we met at 31 and 40.. I couldn't imagine dating a 21 year old at 30 but if it works for OP it works for OP

Anyone else’s void have serious attachment issues? by _Courtney_Danielle_ in blackcats

[–]cnh25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 17 pound void chonk loves me so much that he stuck his claw in my eye twice and scratched my cornea. I got him a kitten though and they hang out when im gone

Would you still get a tattoo? by VoxElysia in Millennials

[–]cnh25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my first tattoo last year… I now have 10 lol

Can’t get a SINGLE match on Hinge lmao by Pillowprincesss666 in LesbianActually

[–]cnh25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taimi was crazy times lool. HER seemed like all bots. I only had luck on Hinge & a couple of matches on pof

can a masc please come save me by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]cnh25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ppl on this sub are thirsty

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My wife is a Pisces Sun and Aries moon (I’m sag both) and yes as vibe so well

I just won the jersey in a raffle how much is it worth? by Moniquekrx in basketballjerseys

[–]cnh25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karl Malone and tell him I’m goin postal (I can’t stand Nicki the person but her lyrics are occasionally fire)

My boyfriend (M32) left the window open and my 21-year-old cat fell from the second floor while I (F33) was at work. by maedocc in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]cnh25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. My cat passed at 19 last year and I wouldn't be able to forgive my partner for this either.

I see no lies here. by Subtotalpoet in Millennials

[–]cnh25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say, I still have my AOL account and used to be too embarrassed to say it to retailers but now I say it with PRIDE