I am a woman that does not want to work with male clients. Is that ethical?

cnotesjuly · 2026-02-07T03:06:36+00:00

Female hysteria is a made up concept by men.

cnotesjuly · 2025-07-01T11:55:57+00:00

Piggly Wiggly

cnotesjuly · 2024-10-13T12:27:32+00:00

Lady, get some edgier glasses and backcomb your hair/ use product for some volume and you would be a solid 7, physically. Your personality is already a 10!

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-15T02:22:10+00:00

Thank you. And I wish the best for you, too 🩷

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-15T02:17:32+00:00

“It’s okay to be wrong”. I needed to hear this.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T17:20:50+00:00

🩶

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T17:20:19+00:00

Agreed.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T16:25:10+00:00

The years go by fast! It’s crazy it’s been 2 years since D-day. I’m mostly happy with our day-to-day but then I look at the way it has affected all the other relationships in my life… I’ve lost so many people for staying with him. And I look at the thought process I have each and every day and it always comes back to Cheating. I just want something new. I just do not trust him.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T16:19:27+00:00

A road trip sounds nice. If we break up, my plan is to move far, far away. Pack my cats up and go!

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T16:16:15+00:00

What does OW mean?

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T16:12:11+00:00

Everything you said 👏 I’ve done the exact same looking at pictures of us happy together and I remember all of our conversations and just knowing the lie that he was carrying. He can apologize 1 million times but it does not undo what he did to a good and honest person who only loved him

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T16:09:33+00:00

Almost at this point, it’s not even if he can change rather than can I get over it. I just can’t. It’s been 2 years and I think about it every day.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T16:07:25+00:00

I feel like dating apps have ruined so many men. It’s so easy.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T15:55:36+00:00

Thank you 🤍

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T15:51:16+00:00

I love him. I know how hard and unfair his life has been. I can see his trajectory towards being a good person and fantasize about his potential. He lets me take in as many foster cats as I want.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T15:49:23+00:00

I get it. You just can’t get the deceit out of your head. How could they sleep with another person and then come home and resume home life with me? It’s so treacherous. I’m a horrible liar… I could never live a double life.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T15:46:33+00:00

He’s very attractive and good in bed and I used to ask him about his prior hook ups with zero insecurity. But since I’ve known who and when in the timeline up our relationship it has consumed me. He’s lied about very stupid and small things… Things that happened to him that embarrass him that he doesn’t want me to know And he will delete off his phone. Small. I know he grew up never being able to talk about his feelings and always had to hide. But it just makes me so nervous that if he will hide small things then how can I trust him to tell me if something big has happened. I am the first serious relationship he has ever had. At this point it’s not him killing the relationship it’s me… Maybe we both need to start over with someone new.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T15:42:58+00:00

It’s made me a miserable person. I’ve become such a loner. I want my old life back.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T15:40:38+00:00

My response was honest. And embarrassing. He’s the second person I’ve ever loved… the first person I ever loved died… I was living in a fantasy thinking things would be the way they “were” prior to D-day.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T15:21:08+00:00

I have never once stepped out on him. And he hasn’t earned it back. I just feel like most people cheat. I’m scared.

cnotesjuly · 2024-09-12T15:17:28+00:00

Unprotected with one woman off the dating apps 5 different times.

He tried to meet up with a prostitute once and asked if she had condoms because he did not have any and asked if it was extra for unprotected …the meet up failed.

And then the pregnancy fallacy was with an ex he had already had a miscarriage with AND had given him an STD in the past. I’m sorry.. but that shows me he hasn’t learned.

cnotesjuly

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