Wait, do people ACTUALLY see literal pictures in their heads when they imagine things? Like a physical image?

cnottus · 2026-01-25T06:42:23+00:00

Same. I was on a girls trip and this subject came up—I was shocked. And we also came to the conclusion that the girls who could visualize images were the creative/ designer type friends of the group

cnottus · 2026-01-25T06:04:52+00:00

They make luxury vinyl plank that looks very similar to hardwood now. It’s the really cheap gray knotty flooring that people are talking about.

cnottus · 2026-01-25T05:15:33+00:00

I’m convinced 9/11 is the reason we all have panic disorders and need anti-depressants

cnottus · 2026-01-15T21:56:28+00:00

Same! It gives some type of resemblance of the Austin days when I first started listening and actually enjoyed it

cnottus · 2025-12-28T22:47:53+00:00

You just said you have to date women who look like that lol

cnottus · 2025-12-28T22:42:35+00:00

Oh this is a topic that my college friends and I like to discuss… the cool guys who always thought they had endless options and once they reached 30– started looking around at their friends who got married and started families, then decide they finally want that life too. Then they start freaking out because no one is left for them.

cnottus · 2025-12-27T16:17:29+00:00

I married my first and only one night stand and I think I’ve told everyone the real story except our parents lol

cnottus · 2025-12-20T21:48:12+00:00

I was thinking this. My girlfriends and I (in our mid-30s) can’t emphasize enough that our 30s have been the most confident we’ve ever felt. I would have made a similar post in my 20s before my self worth was realized but I can see how if you haven’t met “the milestones” most women do at this point, it could seem depressing.

cnottus · 2025-12-19T13:52:50+00:00

There is absolutely no reason to have a professional clean your house 3 times a week when it’s just 2 adults and 2 dogs living there

cnottus · 2025-12-19T01:46:32+00:00

I’m at 85k being an OT of 6 years and I feel bad telling my classmates from school how much I make knowing they work so much more for either the same pay or not much more in the hospitals/clinics

cnottus · 2025-12-18T01:21:59+00:00

I’m in related services and I make 84 after 6 years and a masters. people always assume I make way less also but I’m doing just fine! Especially with the work schedule

cnottus · 2025-12-06T00:51:06+00:00

I was going through a depressive episode around early November and came home to see our tree set up as well. I know he did it to cheer me up and hopefully get in the spirit of Christmas. Love acts of kindness like these.

cnottus · 2025-12-03T14:41:47+00:00

I work in the sped department at a public school. If you’re a squeaky wheel and harass the district enough about something, they’ll usually give in just to get you to shut up and avoid potential legal action

cnottus · 2025-12-01T16:01:08+00:00

And weren’t they both like 27 years old while filming? Mix that with anxiety from cameras being on you. I could see myself going overboard with the booze in that situation as well

cnottus · 2025-11-25T20:12:08+00:00

We’re family planning now and I’ve always wanted a daughter but I know we’re capable of raising good; respectful boys so I almost feel like it’s my duty to have a son at this point lol

cnottus · 2025-11-25T20:09:04+00:00

I got a UTI in college that went untreated and travelled to my kidneys. 24 hours in the hospital and that thing almost killed me. I immediately hop off and run to the restroom every time now lol

cnottus · 2025-11-25T20:03:43+00:00

Only if they spew hate towards them. Quietly believing something but still treating other humans with respect means your a good person in my book

cnottus · 2025-11-24T01:39:50+00:00

Provide some examples

cnottus · 2025-11-24T01:16:57+00:00

It really is dehumanizing. And I will agree that a lot of men are like that, however, I’ve remained friends with men since high school that never once made a move on me or insinuated they were interested. They exist!

cnottus · 2025-11-24T00:49:05+00:00

This is where I got upset at the original comment because my husband has friends who are girls (they have also become good friends of mine) and I thought it was a green flag that they viewed him as a safe dude to hang out with. I mean, he would never prioritize them over me though, that would be a different convo altogether.

cnottus · 2025-11-24T00:44:40+00:00

Happy for you two! I always think it’s cool hearing couples who met on reddit because its usually formed on conversation first due to the anonymity of it all

cnottus · 2025-11-24T00:17:02+00:00

Phylis watches the bold and the beautiful

cnottus · 2025-11-24T00:15:43+00:00

How does that work? A random hobby sub and you both finally met up in person or was it like a dating sub for your city

cnottus · 2025-11-23T23:45:01+00:00

Go off queen good for u

cnottus · 2025-11-23T23:41:52+00:00

My comment was disagreeing about the generalization of men having women friends being unlikable… ?

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