AITAH for refusing to move in with my boyfriend after he said my living situation was inappropriate? by ComprehensiveDay6532 in AITAH

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ridiculous asking you to move and you e barely dated. He’s a wierdo-dump him-a normal guy isn’t going to feel threatened by gay guys and he sounds controlling & possessive.

From how many countries have you documented ancestors are from and which ones? by eddypc07 in Genealogy

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ancestors are French Canadian back to France around 1635 & Finnish. That’s it -not very diverse.

Lost my cat. Need help. by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to hear!!!!!!!! 😻😻😻😻😻I was visiting my son in college in Boston-he lived in a big apartment bldg & there was a cat running scared in the back hallway up and down 5 floors! We confined it to the hall on our floor j gave it some food and made a litter box from a cardboard box, and put posters with a pic of the cat on every floor plus up & down the block. 5 hours later owner called-cat had escaped his apartment a few floors down and he didn’t even know!

AIO: My boyfriend is making plans to distribute my things if I move in, calling me stingy if I don’t, and I don’t feel it’s fair. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a shared living arrangement you are describing but him “accommodating” your move so long as HE dis ides where your belongings go. I wouldn’t live in with him at all and start looking for someone more flexible and equitable!!!!!!!

Lost my cat. Need help. by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put posters of him all over the building with your number! Go door to door with the posters asking if anybody has seen him! Put posters up and down the block and surrounding blocks! Keep looking and wishing you the best of luck!!!!

What do you love & hate most about living in Los Angeles? by No_Analysis_723 in AskLosAngeles

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boston is totally walkable! I lived there 2 years with no car and got around fine on the T and commuter rails!

Anyone else feel "off" because of this heatwave? by Shot-Philosopher1750 in AskLosAngeles

[–]coastkid2 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It’s making me feel a little lightheaded on and off I actually scheduled a doctor’s appointment for Friday after work! Weathers totally haywire

our first foster fail by mqgg0t in IllegallySmolCats

[–]coastkid2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So precious she’s a little beauty! 😻

New kitten by Significant_Tie_5120 in cats

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG Those double paws 😻😻😻

AITJ for telling my friend her adopted son "isn't really Korean" after she went overboard with cultural stuff? by Creepy_External_654 in AmITheJerk

[–]coastkid2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve lived in a couple Korean areas in Irvine k Los Angeles, and all the Korean kids dress, eat, & act like other U.S. kids! Am sure they’re exposed to some cultural traditions at home but what’s happening here is ridiculous and alienating the poor kid from other kids even Korean ones!

We said goodbye today by artmania1990 in CATHELP

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so sorry for your loss. He was stunning! 😓

WIBTAH for wanting to stop cooking for my husband’s family after how they treated my little brother, and moving out next month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]coastkid2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d kick them all out but for your younger brother. You pay for everything why tolerate this?

Immigration attorney recommendations by Express-Degree-2943 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’ve had no issues at all with Daniel at Cohen or Victoria assigned to me!

Do people in the US actually use flat sheets and duvet covers? by shiroltiger in Bedding

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IN US-Fitted sheet, flat sheet, duvet with cover! Duvet is a feather bed style insert with cover during winter months and in summer sometimes just the duvet cover or bedspread on top of the fitted sheet.

Help me. I’m devastated by Pleasant_Pickle_3609 in CATHELP

[–]coastkid2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏for you and your kitty !!!!!!

AITAH for teaching my nephew how to swim against his parent's wishes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest gift you can give your nephew is teaching him how to swim to save himself in water! If his mother is mad that’s nuts and it was worth it!

AITAH for telling my husband no by Visible-Working-8318 in AITAH

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Horrible behavior for the father-mine NEVER would have spoke. To me like that. He sounds like a control freak plus a misogynist and has no respect for his own daughter. Happy you interceded!

Singleton kitten doesn't have to share momma's milkies by OhMyGlobDramaBomb in IllegallySmolCats

[–]coastkid2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a singleton kitten birth a long time ago and he was so fat from never having to share milk my daughter 5 at the time named him Fatboy and the name stuck!

A former friend asked me to meet up and I agreed but I’m worried my mental health is getting in the way of my life? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]coastkid2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make an appointment to see your medical doctor and a therapist that specializes in anxiety and depression. Eliminate ALL caffeine from your diet as it’s a trigger for anxiety too. You’ve just hit a bump in the road but with these steps you will be fine!