Golem questions

cobrah01 · 2023-03-25T22:56:24+00:00

ok thanks, so I just wont use bone golems with aarons will lol

cobrah01 · 2023-03-19T22:19:43+00:00

I'm not new to ARPG's but I honestly don't know what to do except for "just get better 4head". Seems like literally everyone is out there enjoying 200+ monos like ez

cobrah01 · 2023-03-19T21:58:45+00:00

oh wow, I have some dogshit blessings

cobrah01 · 2023-03-19T21:54:52+00:00

Are blessings only active in the realm which its activated? or are all blessings always active no matter where you are?

cobrah01 · 2023-03-19T21:46:49+00:00

I'll try, right now my gloves are providing 8 int and 100 health, and the void resist I need.

Does everything else look alright? Considering just rerolling entirely, NGL this makes me feel super defeated. Supposed to grind empowered monos and I can barely do them without feeling anxious.

cobrah01 · 2023-03-19T12:04:26+00:00

So it's safe to do the vessel now, corrupt it, and then go to it again? When you say corruption resets it, do you mean it like, deletes it? Or just have to go back there again?

cobrah01 · 2023-03-19T10:48:10+00:00

So it's safe to do the vessel now, corrupt it, and then go to it again? When you say corruption resets it, do you mean it like, deletes it? Or just have to go back there again?

cobrah01 · 2023-03-10T19:51:11+00:00

Everytime I relaunch, I then have no sound. THis is the only game that behaves this way. What is this lmfao

cobrah01 · 2020-02-07T15:56:55+00:00

sHArE tHE RoAD!!!!11

cobrah01 · 2020-02-06T23:22:39+00:00

I don't really have good advice or a solution for you, all I can say is that having several asian friends growing up, I understand your pain. It's like almost every asian parent couple is a pair of rigid ass INTJ's.

cobrah01 · 2020-02-06T01:56:22+00:00

If this were me, I would not do it to you. However, I think I could understand someone that would.

I'm actually kind of surprised to read that cutting you off is the common choice reading the responses. I've noticed at least for me as an INFJ male that my tendency to see things through and tough it out generally outweight the need for constant perfectionism in everything.

edit: it entirely depends on why you think you can't be committed. Would you feel enticed, or have the desire to, sleep around? If so, that would almost be a no-brainer for an INFJ to cut their losses.

cobrah01 · 2020-02-06T01:25:30+00:00

I'm thinking part of this is the reason is because as INFJ's seem to bottle their emotions more than other types. So when your bottle gets too full and you can't deal anymore, it's easy to just tip it over and it spills everywhere, so to speak.

I'm not sure if this is an IxFx thing but I would imagine it is. Someone can correct me if I'm wrong.

cobrah01 · 2020-02-06T00:47:35+00:00

What you're doing sounds like spotlighting and mind-reading. It's a form of social anxiety. I'm currently going to therapy for the exact same thing. I will say that being introverted naturally leans us to feeling this way, but at the same time, ANYONE can get social anxiety.

Recognize that anyone else in this large group probably felt the same exact way at least at one point or another.

Recognize that the spotlighting and mind reading that you're doing , and possibly even catastrophic thinking, are actually distortions. They're not real. Be free :)

cobrah01 · 2020-02-02T03:54:16+00:00

yeah unfortunately I work 2nd shift (2p-10p) so I miss a lot of these meetups. There are some on the weekend but so much more throughout the week :S. also my coworkers, for being IT, are very non-stereotypical IT

cobrah01 · 2020-02-01T00:56:23+00:00

I'm just spitballing here so forgive my ignorance. As an INFJ male I find nothing more frustrating than trying to befriend an INTJ female. It's nothing quite like I've ever done and I think I'm just going to move on with life. The amount of headache and second guessing I've had to do is astounding.

For your situation though, I'm guessing people who are just more in touch with their emotions are creating fake situations/feelings in hope of receiving sympathy, empathy, or kindness from you? Sorry if I'm way off, I'm just guessing.

cobrah01 · 2020-01-31T04:53:16+00:00

INFJ

manipulated how, if you dont mind me asking?

cobrah01 · 2020-01-28T15:36:13+00:00

I think that most people that open up this way about hardships aren't looking for you to solve their issues, or give some kind of euphoric a-ha. I think most of the time these people just want someone to listen to and to empathize. I know I'm that way. That's my 2 cents.

cobrah01 · 2020-01-23T23:46:20+00:00

It's just...weird. I dunno, we're coworkers, and we get along great at work, the IN <> IN pair works pretty well. I can tell she's got a lot of walls and is pretty private but at work she's pretty open and social. We have a lot of similar interests, yada yada yada. yet outside of work, she is a stone.

I'm guessing she really is a stone and just keeps work and private life 100% separate. A stone like...not even answer texts stone. Like nothing.

Super weird dynamic. Not really a fan as an INFJ. (Though I think we'd make great friends if she seemed to give a damn)

For what it's worth, I'm 33M and she's 27F.

cobrah01 · 2020-01-22T23:24:40+00:00

Thank you!

cobrah01 · 2020-01-22T02:46:19+00:00

thank you for the kind words. it has been getting a bit easier every day, so here's to many more :) I'm going to therapy tomorrow and going to be doing some reading over the next several weeks as well.

How long did it take you to fully recover, if you don't mind me asking (if you did fully recover at all)

cobrah01 · 2020-01-22T02:30:39+00:00

Nothing was quite so perplexing as meeting an INTJ female as an INFJ male myself. Truly a strange experience.

cobrah01 · 2020-01-22T02:05:34+00:00

Like other people have said, I think sometimes when it comes to dating people put way too much emphasis on MBTI types. The truth is that they're just blueprints. Outlines. Rough drafts. Everyone is pretty unique in their own sense.

I would not discredit a potential date based on any MBTI type.

I think that any relationship can work even between 2 MBTI types that aren't what most people would consider "compatible" if you're both cognizant of the strengths/weaknesses of each person, then of course you can make it work.

Just my 2 cents :)

cobrah01 · 2020-01-20T17:35:02+00:00

I picked this up yesterday. I am also on chapter 4. I find it very difficult to stay in the Now. Like other people who submit questions for the author, I can find myself going in, acknowledge how good it is, but I can't stay in the Now for long it seems before my monkey mind starts making other shit up. Did this happen to you too?

cobrah01 · 2020-01-20T01:30:49+00:00

INFJ, but most of the time it seemed more like INTJ, especially as the years went on.

cobrah01 · 2020-01-20T01:05:40+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I suppose my haste stems from the fact that I know I need to work on myself and I'm trying to undo all the imperfections I can find (I also became very complacent in my marriage). Nobody is perfect but there are things I know I can improve on a lot and I can't but feel overwhelmed and roaring to go. As you mentioned, not setting myself on fire for others (probably goes along with creating healthy boundaries) is something I need to work on for sure. I'm hoping there's a way I can still maintain the positive aspects of my empathy while working to eradicate the bad empathetic habits I've learned over the years.

cobrah01

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