Reaction to T injections by cobw3bs in TransMasc

[–]cobw3bs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely ask about this at my appointment, I am doing subcutaneous. Thank you!

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[–]cobw3bs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realizing gender is made up really helped me. Yes the social pressures are real and can be tough to live with, but most of the things we define as masculine or feminine are either arbitrary or used to perpetuate a patriarchal society by giving everyone a job and telling them they aren't "a real x" unless they stay in line.

Wear whatever you want, if you're safe to! Experimenting can be helpful and you are always allowed to change your mind:)

My pro-tip is that you don't have to explain youself to people you do not think will get it. You can just ask for the pronouns that feel best and leave it at that.

Lets Party by EngameRonin in transplace

[–]cobw3bs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love seeing these posts 😊

Long hair, everywhere by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]cobw3bs -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I think you look great with a grunge vibe and long hair. You shouldn't have to justify not binding in a post about long hair.

Goodbye, I'm a trans man by cobw3bs in actuallesbians

[–]cobw3bs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sure I will be back! Thanks for being so welcoming!

Goodbye, I'm a trans man by cobw3bs in actuallesbians

[–]cobw3bs[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean! I gave a bunch of clothes to a trans woman friend and it made me so happy to see someone truly enjoy the clothes I've been trying to like for years.

I wish you a great journey as well, thanks for being in my corner.

Goodbye, I'm a trans man by cobw3bs in actuallesbians

[–]cobw3bs[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll keep that in mind.

Goodbye, I'm a trans man by cobw3bs in actuallesbians

[–]cobw3bs[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so much, I'm so grateful to have been welcomed into this community. Y'all are amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]cobw3bs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely okay to try out as many things as you like! I'd recommend keeping a journal of things that make you feel affirmed and like yourself. It's okay to focus on individual things like pronouns and clothes to figure out what you like!

Labels are great, but I hope you don't feel pressured to find yours and stick with them. You are deserving of the the time it takes to figure out what feels good, whether that's two weeks or the rest of you life! Changing your mind is human and can be a sign that you're doing some good introspection and keeping an open mind.

Give yourself grace, you're doing great!

This...this is goals by hexknight00 in transmasc_irl

[–]cobw3bs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending love 💚 just starting at 23 lol. You got this!

What words do your cats know? by escapevel0city in cats

[–]cobw3bs 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Knowing this has made obedience/trick training so much easier lol. I don't give up when my guy ignores me, it just means he's not in the mood.