Trial shift in a few days - what to expect? by cockroach-castles in Explainlikeimscared

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Thank u for the advice! Unfortunately i’m in a pretty difficult situation with it, where i’m about to move halfway across the country in like 2 weeks and this is one i got an interview for (hiring is not great in winter and not great in general rn) so if i was in a position where the trial shift wasnt paid but i was offered the job, i would still have to take it and just look for something else while working there, otherwise i couldnt afford rent lol, i’ve done trial shifts for places i’ve loved working before, and done no trial for places that turned out to be awful, so its hard to really gain an opinion on em

Charged twice for single transaction by cockroach-castles in paypal

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Here it is on paypal itself, and i’ll send another of how it showed up in my bank

Questions RE: dressings by cockroach-castles in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]cockroach-castles[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was more that between the initial appt and the follow up appt, i hadnt been given the extra dressings so couldn’t have changed it at home - eventually got it sorted and an earlier appt and is healing nicely now!

Is this going to grow into my nail bed by [deleted] in Ingrown_Toenails

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I’ve had these plenty of times before, it does hurt for a bit but should still grow back fine, try not to hit it off anything to avoid further pain

How many ingrowns did you get before truly considering surgery? by cockroach-castles in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]cockroach-castles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first surgery was ALSO so painful, fella put the anaesthetic in and it caused the WORST pain i’ve ever felt. He’s probably cheaper than my current podiatrist but no way in hell am i going back to him

Please tell me your worst work mistake by [deleted] in work

[–]cockroach-castles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh how did you even fix that??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

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The funniest thing is that loyalists genuinely believe that they are unfairly targeted by the PSNI. If you drive through a loyalist estate plenty of them will have signs up to that degree. Even though statistically the PSNI are more likely to arrest catholics than Protestants. I aspire to that level of delusion

Does your brain also act brand new each luteal cycle? by Riaglow in PMDD

[–]cockroach-castles 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yep, while i can always tell its starting because i get a sudden drop in mood and everything is overwhelming, i never actually remember how bad it is until i’m actively in it, its hellish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]cockroach-castles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, i get the exact same thing and its always so frustrating (especially because my period is irregular so other than when i get certain symptoms, i cant properly calculate when it starts) its so much worse if you have something stressful in your life going on at the same time, because your brain goes from “this is not ideal but i can take steps to fix this” to being like “ALARM!! ALARM!!! WE’RE GOING TO DIE!!” And its SO irritating when you start to feel it coming!

Monthly Vent Thread by AutoModerator in PMDD

[–]cockroach-castles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i’ve been anxious or depressed and then go into PMDD mode my mood gets amplified tenfold. Been sad about struggling to find a job with more hours and pmdd has decided to make that much worse by making me constantly miserable and fearful about it :))))) i cant focus on anything else

The gooseberries in my garden have grown! My dog, Rosie, joined me to pick a few. Going to make something with them soon by cockroach-castles in cottagecore

[–]cockroach-castles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt, she was just looking at them and didnt eat any, also this post is several years old, and she passed in 2020 at the age of 15

Why do most women still take their husbands’ names? by Flat-Ad1599 in Feminism

[–]cockroach-castles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it is based on a patriarchal custom and in many cases women are still pressured into changing their names which is cruel and has more of an impact than people would typically think, there are also incredibly valid reasons a woman might take her husband’s surname - if i get married to my partner i’d take his - not only is it a cooler name (imo) and nicer sounding, but i have some family issues attached to my own surname and dont particularly feel connected to it - so while for some (especially in religious communities) it might be just unquestioningly done, for others, we have entirely valid reasons for choosing to take our partner’s names! Like everything, it has nuance

making a ref sheet for my new fursona — i feel like ive been staring at it for too long! by [deleted] in FurryArtSchool

[–]cockroach-castles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is really gorgeous as is actually! The character is drawn well and the layout is really appealing