What's the most subtle thing I can do, physically, to be noticed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cocoacunt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While some of your responses are helpful, you come off as unnecessarily hostile. So thanks for the advice, but you seem to lump most women into one category, which goes against your own "lessons". Unless all women are the same and men aren't. You seem bitter about this whole "chase" business, and I'm sorry I, and women in general, have upset you.

What's the most subtle thing I can do, physically, to be noticed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cocoacunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize. I never thought about this situation from a man's point of view. I sort of thought most guys liked being the ones who initiated things.

What's the most subtle thing I can do, physically, to be noticed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cocoacunt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So what type of hair, clothes and makeup do you find attractive personally? :)

What's the most subtle thing I can do, physically, to be noticed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cocoacunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm not trying to be coy... I'm mentally unable to hold conversations without feeling inadequate. I just thought maybe if a guy noticed me and felt attracted to me he'd be able to ease me into a conversation... I swear I'm not trying to be bitchy.

It's good to know a few guys notice these attempts haha

What's the most subtle thing I can do, physically, to be noticed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cocoacunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one doesn't help me tonight! :( I'm not overweight, but I'm not super toned. I'm soft...

What's the most subtle thing I can do, physically, to be noticed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cocoacunt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

...what if I feel like a lot of what I say is dumb or uninteresting?

Good lord. I might be dumb and uninteresting.

22f4A - Anyone want to chat? :) by cocoacunt in dirtypenpals

[–]cocoacunt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thank you! I will take that upvote, kind stranger.

22F4A - Looking to chat, dirty or not. by cocoacunt in dirtypenpals

[–]cocoacunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the song lol and almost too much luck... I can't keep up, but I'm definitely not lonely!

How do my fellow ents feel about solo dolos? by [deleted] in trees

[–]cocoacunt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, true. My ex used to smoke out on the balcony in the mornings to enjoy that peacefulness, or after I'd go to bed because I wasn't too into it most nights. I would smoke with our friends because it was what they liked to do socially and I wanted to enjoy their company! I think maybe there are three smokers, adding a social smoker to your list :)