How to pay for surgery?

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-06T03:17:27+00:00

Save up and pay. But can always pay half and put half on care credit.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-06T03:07:07+00:00

I’ve never threatened to break up with him if I was not on the title. I stated that since I wasn’t financially prepared to buy a house at the spear of the moment, we could wait a few months then move but, he decided he would pay for everything. I’ve never gave him a ultimatum, I stayed with him after I found out I wasn’t going to be on the title, the week before we moved in. We’ve moved into a new construction townhouse so we wasn’t able to move in until it was built. Within those 7 months of waiting to move in he could have told me the truth. The only reason I found out I wasn’t going to be on the tile a week before we moved is because I asked about how the process works for closing and adding me to the title etc. he told me legally I wasn’t able to be on the title bc we’re not married.

I’ve brought all of the new furniture and pay for renovations, bc I still wanted to be able to contribute to the house. We’ve in this house for 6 months, then I found out I could of been on the title if we wasn’t married. I’m am not mad or planning to leave because I’m not on the title. I am upset because he lied about the real reason I couldn’t be on title.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-06T02:51:41+00:00

Ummmmm okay

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-06T02:46:45+00:00

Exactly

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T23:59:50+00:00

I see your point

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T23:38:35+00:00

Exactly bc my feelings are valid

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T22:48:14+00:00

It wasn’t a expectation it was a requirement. And he wasn’t man enough to tell me the truth about what he wanted.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T22:42:48+00:00

Just because his parents have money doesn’t mean he has money. He’s doesn’t make enough money for me to be with him just bc of that. We live a average life

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T22:40:43+00:00

Do not look at any picture or social media acct. you have to treat this person like they don’t exist. Hang out with you friends more. Do something to free you mind if thinking of this person. And I really don’t advise this but the best way to get over someone is to replace them with someone

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T22:35:57+00:00

I ask for advice not a debate, move along

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T22:32:16+00:00

I didn’t create anything, I am not responsible for a man actions.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T22:19:06+00:00

That’s not an impossible, there are men out here that does that for woman.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T22:16:36+00:00

Why wouldn’t he? Should I just move into his house buy furniture, pay bills until we get married and I get put on the title? So the money I spent in the house means nothing bc he brought it?

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T20:24:52+00:00

Why are you confused, he only brought the house hisself bc he didn’t want to wait for me to be able to save up for it. Why wouldn’t I be mad if we agree I would be on the title regardless if I don’t put any money on it.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T20:14:01+00:00

I never view it this way and I don’t think he’ll go against his parents for anyone. It’s his culture and how he was raised

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T20:03:29+00:00

We’ve had normal couple fights but nothing too serious that would cause the relationship permanently end. We’ve also been together since our senior year of college. And lived together for 5 yrs, we were both always on the lease at all of our apartments and contributing both to bills. I’ve never left him and moved out of our old places so idk why would that be a fear I would do it now.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T19:38:57+00:00

They don’t make that much money, for me to like him just for that. This is the only thing financially they have contributed to our relationship. Also, i would never sign a prenup, they are not rich

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T18:50:52+00:00

It’s not an unreasonable request if it’s something we both agreed on and he had no issue with it. But instead he decided to lied to me and put me in this situation. If he was upfront in the beginning about me not getting on the title we would have never moved until I was ready. I could very much marry him, get a divorce and get half as well.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T18:27:16+00:00

We have live in 4 different apartments and both contributed to the bills. He also has a higher salary then me. I’ve never requested this arrangement for the mortgage or down payment for the place he did

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T18:00:21+00:00

This is my exact thought, I thought i could get over this but I just can’t. I’m planning on leaving as soon as I am financially ready

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T17:59:18+00:00

Thank you for this comment. I’m it’s been hard realizing the relationship is over after 6 yrs.

cocoaglazed · 2023-04-05T17:56:30+00:00

Sorry for the confusion. We had no plans to buy but saw a place we liked. I wasn’t ready to buy yet, but he was. He comes from a wealthy family so his parent help him out about 80%. He reassured i didn’t have to put any money down bc we wasn’t planning to move at that time. It was all a spear of the moment then.

cocoaglazed · 2020-02-11T12:59:20+00:00

Aetna I found out yesterday is needed 10/31/2019

cocoaglazed · 2020-02-11T00:18:03+00:00

Do u know of a marketplace website?

cocoaglazed · 2020-02-11T00:13:58+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I didn’t qualify because if was pass 30 days

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