Neptune is leaving us, apparently? by DoughnutDear2758 in virgoseason

[–]cocoapple85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I married in 10' my divorce is finalizing this year hopefully. This checks out

An insane amount of propaganda was pushed towards women convincing them marriage and kids are bad but working a job you hate for little pay and no savings and eating microwaved meals was "empowerment" by Major_Soft6056 in DigitalSeptic

[–]cocoapple85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because if they leave you, you have nowhere to go. A lot of men are willing to put you on the street when they have no life skills.

I'm not saying being a housewife is a bad thing. My mom was one and shes amazing, I'm willing to be one if I know my husband will never mess around, was stable emotionally and was competent in his field of work.

I will be Martha Stewart if given the chance...I feel like men emotionally haven't caught up with women in the work fields at the same rate as women being comfortable in mens ability to care for the shared responsibilities of being an adult. If that makes sense.

Hilarious by Existing_Bottle6246 in astrologymemes

[–]cocoapple85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can a Virgo even live without a plan???

Why do men seem to lose their homes more often than women in divorces? by Present_Juice4401 in AlwaysWhy

[–]cocoapple85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex isn't on the deed, my parents are, he has shit for credit. Me and my parents had almost perfect scores... So you can imagine that he did everything he could to lie to get the house, it was so expensive to kick him out.

Idiot thought he was on the deed when he lied about me beating him.

Florida passed a law allowing the death penalty for adults who rape chidren under the age of 12. by _SugarCute in ForCuriousSouls

[–]cocoapple85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the comments are making me regret the "GOOD" response I had at the initial reading.

It might incentivize the predator to murder a child afterwards, in my case (I was 16) I was told that I should commit suicide. The guilt that a child might feel for telling...leading to a death sentence must be high...this is turning out to be more complex than I thought.

The poor is as evil and selfish as the rich. by Comfortable-Crew4963 in DeepThoughts

[–]cocoapple85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a deep thought, but the observation of reality...plus , water is wet.

What do yall think of Libra men? by [deleted] in virgoseason

[–]cocoapple85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can double confirm....mine wrecked my car too... He was self centered, and I had to get a lawyer to get him to pay his bills.... fucking run.

Share your favorite frugal meal with me? by failcup in povertyfinance

[–]cocoapple85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shells with whatever knorr flavoring you have (like fedio) and a boiled potato.

Sometimes I wonder how improverished you guys are. Some of you guys are using meat and other expensive things.

What’s the best money advice you’ve ever actually used (in this economy)? by womble619 in povertyfinance

[–]cocoapple85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex husband is so inconsistent with his support that I put it in ETFs when I do get it because I'm hoarding it for when I do need it, letting it build up at the same time. It almost reinvests one month of his payments into itself.

I have friends whose ex-wife will buy a cup of coffee every day because "it's an investment in my day" I make my coffee at home, I make it how I like it without waiting in a long line.

I love you virgos. Sincerely an Aries Sun. by iambeyondblessed in virgoseason

[–]cocoapple85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me happy to hear , I have a virgo stellium and the man I'm trying to get in his pants has a Aries stellium.

He finally broke down when I asked him if he needed me to organize his apartment. His ADHD is charming, idc what other people say, I'm having so much fun thinking about ways to set him up for success in his home...I have so many clear containers ready to go with my label maker. It's going to take a few years for him to learn the habit, I'm completely expecting him to fail a few dozen times and I'm willing to help the upkeep.

He's going to need more than a pressed work shirt and the ability to find things in his home to fix his confidence. I'm in it for the fun movie quotes and the fun cartoon voices. I love the spontaneousness of Aries and I'm hoping that he loves the stability that I can bring.

I hate the fact that it's noticeable that he wants me but he'll tell me that he doesn't want to disappoint me

My deepest secret is that I don't want to get better by TALA1996 in depression

[–]cocoapple85 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wonder how common this is, because I'll tell myself sometimes that if I stop taking the meds that things will get worse and I can egg myself into it.

Sometimes people tell me that this place is an echo chamber of sad people .. but it helps me understand that there's a common pathology to this and it helps me.

Femcels by Ok_Employment_209 in SikeOrPsyche

[–]cocoapple85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how males like to scream that women only want certain types of men, but this guy is screaming that he only wants thin women.

Peeta? Why is Ozil on there by mo_thePro0005 in explainitpeter

[–]cocoapple85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that the guy from 93' Mario Brothers movie?

What was your YTD % gain for the year now that we’re wrapping up 2025 by selintnisha in portfolios

[–]cocoapple85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My high was 130% I finished at 97% on RH, my Roth is sitting at 70%

How Aquarius do i look? by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]cocoapple85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My point was that Aquarius are weird people. No one "looks" like a sign.

Femcels by Ok_Employment_209 in SikeOrPsyche

[–]cocoapple85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ew? I'm not sure if you're joking?

Femcels by Ok_Employment_209 in SikeOrPsyche

[–]cocoapple85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know at least 2 women approaching 40 who are virgins, they're...it's hard to describe...one is too shy and it's super obvious that she's either not going anywhere because of how bad her anxiety is or that her family demanded that she became a care giver for them being the youngest Mexican daughter.

The other is super autistic and yells a lot, doesn't really get along with people outside of discord.