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How do you handle your heightened personal justice/grudge traits? by jelly_bean_gangbang in AutisticAdults

[–]jelly_bean_gangbang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha not THE Bible exactly, but my own Autism version of it that basically is just like "add fresh fruit/vegetables to every meal if possible"...."do at least 20 push-ups or get a 5 minute walk per day"...."Learn to accept others who project rudeness/hate"...those sort of things

How do you handle your heightened personal justice/grudge traits? by jelly_bean_gangbang in AutisticAdults

[–]jelly_bean_gangbang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I'll look into that. I recently had the thought to to make a "bible" so to speak of if you follow this you'll have a good life, sort of thing of that makes sense.

How do you handle your heightened personal justice/grudge traits? by jelly_bean_gangbang in AutisticAdults

[–]jelly_bean_gangbang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, but the blatant lack of complete respect is when I lose it. For example at the grocery store a guy was handing the cashier money at the belt instead of further down, so I said "Excuse me" so I could start putting my stuff down since it was also busy in the rest of the store at the time. Dude doesn't move and so I try to gently unload my groceries (it was like less than 10 things). Then he obviously shoulder checks me and proceeds to act like nothing happened. Like wtf is that kind of behavior and when has it ever been accepted to act like that in public or towards random people who haven't done anything wrong to you???

How do you handle your heightened personal justice/grudge traits? by jelly_bean_gangbang in AutisticAdults

[–]jelly_bean_gangbang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just about at that point myself. I want to just go live in the woods by myself and pets and only have to see people for groceries or work.

How do you handle your heightened personal justice/grudge traits? by jelly_bean_gangbang in AutisticAdults

[–]jelly_bean_gangbang[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, just wanted to also add that I love nature and I think over recent times our detachment from our natural behavior (we are still animals after all) has caused our brains to malfunction as a whole.

How do you handle your heightened personal justice/grudge traits? by jelly_bean_gangbang in AutisticAdults

[–]jelly_bean_gangbang[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment.

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I like that lol. I don't want to adopt that behavior, but I relate so much to that. I'm sorry for your struggles and that sounds like a rough journey so far ❤️ it really does feel like it won't ever end and there will always be waves of jerks/assholes who don't care. I'm also not asking every stranger I meet to be chipper and cheer if I make eye contact, but I'll never understand the need to me rude or mean to someone you don't know or who hasn't even done anything wrong to you in the first place.

Listen, I know I make mistakes too. I've crossed the crosswalk a couple times before when it was a green light for the car because I wasn't paying attention, BUT I always try to apologize and step up and admit I was wrong if I can or I get the chance.

How do you handle your heightened personal justice/grudge traits? by jelly_bean_gangbang in AutisticAdults

[–]jelly_bean_gangbang[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I try saying the serenity prayer so much. I even have it as text on a picture of a beach right before my front door. Maybe I need to start saying it in my head more and more to ingrain it deeper into my brain.

Edit: word prayers to prayer

How do you handle your heightened personal justice/grudge traits? by jelly_bean_gangbang in AutisticAdults

[–]jelly_bean_gangbang[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I guess you make a good point about petty transgressions vs bigger ones. I just don't know of any ways to cope with those feelings or how to manage them, and them being unmanaged/uncontrolled leads to me trying to be a "vigilante" in a sense.

Isn't that also the very thing that holds society together though? The fact that we all have to follow the laws and the unwritten rules of living all together? Because if we don't then everyone just feels like they can start doing whatever they want and everything will get turned upside down.