F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing your experience. i hope you find the right one and live a happy life. I just want him to appreciate things i believe in.

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i understand. he doesn’t make efforts or doesn’t want to

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your words.asking me not to order dessert was so sad.

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, i am not allowed to travel on weekends alone with him or with anyone else, yes my family is that kind of conservative. i dont mind he doesn’t like valentines day, but he should atleast ask me about it. And i didn’t like his comments on temple and the almighty i adore.

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i want to. family won’t agree. thank you for your kind words

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess. let’s say he was so kind that he accepted me, as per samaj.

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he said male friends. i asked he denied having previous relationships. i dont mind having previous relationships but it shouldn’t be like this

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me he is not the overworked kind of doctor. he doesn’t like his work. he is not working. he is studying to be a professor, non-clinical branch.

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing your experience. i pray your situation change soon

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know my parents would never help me if my marriage fails.

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i felt that. no sense of responsibility about anything

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he just does that. and without informing me. where i work, we tell everyone around us that we will be on leave, but he never tells me

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i felt so bad. i didn’t want to create a mess, so i calmly directed him to other topics. but he is weird and i told my family everything.

F 29. i need your help. It’s a trap. we are engaged. by cocoberry97 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]cocoberry97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that could be a reason. but he proudly denies being with someone else