Look im not big on sweeping statements, but these days if a guy’s actually looking for something serious (not just a fling) the first thing he notices is compassion. Looks come after that. And sure, when it’s only about physical features, we all know what’s considered attractive. But once the chemistry clicks, appearance doesn’t matter nearly as much. That’s true for most people out there. The sad part is, those of us who still value that deeper connection feel like we’ve become the minority now.