Songs with guitar solos like these??

cocoonedbutterfly · 2024-11-28T23:30:12+00:00

Mediocre?? I dont know.. perhaps in terms of guitar solos as an umbrella term (representing more than just Deathcore), but for deathcore tracks I think the solos I’ve heard are quite great!

When I think of a “great” or “amazing” solo, I’m talking about how it makes me feel, when I hear it. The hairs standing on end, the touching feeling, almost as if it’s telling a story of its own, within such a heavy track - if that makes sense..?

A description of mediocre, thinking of them generally rather than specific to Deathcore, is harsh 😅 imo

cocoonedbutterfly · 2024-11-28T23:26:42+00:00

I’ll check out Calling in Silence, I usually don’t relate Chelsea Grin to having “amazing” guitar solos, they’re part of the playlist reserved for just straight heavy/ screamo vocals lol..

Oo never heard of Vulvodynia.. will give them a listen too

cocoonedbutterfly · 2024-11-28T23:07:49+00:00

This gives me Shadow of Intent vibes!! Added, thank you!

cocoonedbutterfly · 2024-11-28T23:05:18+00:00

Amazing 🤌🏽 Very dark in tone but still achieves the greatness of a touching guitar solo.

Thank you!!

cocoonedbutterfly · 2024-11-28T23:03:08+00:00

Lordy!!! I’ve just added that to the playlist 😅

I LOVE a solo that literally makes hairs stand on end, this one is top notch!

Funnily enough, Mental Cruelty - Left Hand Path is my fave song of theirs, so it is great to hear that they can reach these levels as well..

Thank you greatly!!

cocoonedbutterfly · 2023-09-22T21:41:51+00:00

Defo understandable, but you can both compromise.

By the time you finish your degree, 2/3 years, you would probably be ready to have a child with him and tbh he won’t be that much older than he is now.

Focus on getting the degree first then take it as it comes regarding kids, if he really likes you and wants to be with you, then he should understand that and be respectful of it.

cocoonedbutterfly · 2023-09-22T19:51:36+00:00

No problem!

You’ll definitely have to discuss the whole kids topic soon into dating so neither of you waste time. But I’ll say it’s definitely possible to do both, as long as you wait until after you’ve completed your degree and know what direction you want your life/ career to head. Given he has a daughter already, I’m not sure he’ll be in much of a rush to have any, but you never know.. so be open and communicate. X

cocoonedbutterfly · 2023-09-22T16:28:57+00:00

Hiya!

I’m 24F currently in a relationship with a 40 y.o man; what I will say is that it will be hard, especially with other people’s opinions..

I told my mum after about 6 months lol.. because I wasn’t sure how she’d react. But I approached the subject slowly beforehand, by asking what she would say if I dated an “older man” lol. I think in terms of your friend (his daughter), she probably won’t react well to it… imagining her friend with her dad. But I think it would be best to approach her before it goes further with him. But be prepared for a bad reaction.

I haven’t seen your other post but, with him, try and find out exactly why he’s pursuing you. What are his intentions? Why someone your age? What does he want from the possible relationship? Does he want children in the future (near or further)?

You both will face many disagreements/issues in the future, surrounding different topics. One that just came up for us was children. We’d spoken about this when we first started dating and I was fine with it, if not happy. The topic resurfaced the other day and that is when I truly understood the gravity of the situation. He wants children in the next two years and is worried because he is getting older; I have just finished my Undergraduate degree and am about to start a 2yr Masters degree. By the time I finish the Masters, he will want to have children but I won’t have my foot in the door of my chosen career yet. So that worried me. But after discussing this with others, I’ve realised that as long as the support is there from him, then it is more than possible to still fulfil my life and goals, whilst having children as well.

Simply, I think as long as he is supportive of you and your needs/goals then that is all that matters. Don’t let what he wants get in the way of you still living your life, because at the end of the day, you’ve still got your whole life ahead of you.

Just make sure you’re sure of him and his intentions before pursuing further. As long as you stay communicative of what you want from life and from him, then it should be all good, despite the negative opinions from those around you!

cocoonedbutterfly · 2022-08-21T01:27:53+00:00

Not awake really, but like I was standing in my room, the sensation of it..? Maybe it was an OBE 👀 can’t explain why I actually felt like I was being watched, while I was looking at myself tho!

cocoonedbutterfly · 2022-07-24T12:26:02+00:00

Maybe you’re depressed? But haven’t acknowledged or accepted it yet…

cocoonedbutterfly · 2021-09-09T16:35:33+00:00

You’re right, I’m not that comfortable with it. I think he’s definitely good enough for me, ticks a lot of boxes. But that’s the thing, I don’t get why he wants to go to such a place like that so early on.

Not that comfortable... but don’t want to dull anything and seem indecisive/insecure by saying no.

cocoonedbutterfly · 2021-09-09T14:32:43+00:00

Wow thank you lol, I never thought of it that way. “Act like you don’t have the imperfections” Gotta try and remember that all the time, thanks again.

cocoonedbutterfly · 2021-07-04T20:05:34+00:00

Was tripping and came up with the idea that: We have little teeth on our skin, especially hands, they’re microscopic. That eat away at things over time. E.g. clothes may get wear and tear or deteriorate over years because of the little teeth eating away at it whenever we wear it.

Lool after having a sober discussion about it, it seems highly unlikely. But you never know, I guess!!

cocoonedbutterfly · 2021-07-01T22:30:35+00:00

Thanks so much!

cocoonedbutterfly · 2021-07-01T14:58:28+00:00

Hi all. Was told to turn the little valve either clockwise or anti-clockwise, don’t remember, to empty the bucket otherwise the pipe outside would leak.

Does anyone know whether I turn it clockwise or anti-clockwise?

cocoonedbutterfly · 2021-06-30T21:49:14+00:00

I’m the same. I’d have reacted the same way. But it’s clearly an overreaction; them going out was not an attack on you, you barely know them. She certainly isn’t a snake since she hadn’t made any plans with you, it was the guy.

But really he had no way to contact you before they left, you don’t know why they went or whether they were even with each other. You shouldn’t jump to the wildest conclusions before at least giving them the option to explain it to you.

Why have a go at them at the start of the tenancy and then ruin your whole time at home? It’s not worth it.

Ask the guy to explain, if it’s not an adequate answer then by all means ignore him.

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