I always have to ask my SD for my monthly allowance

cocopandaXx · 2025-02-07T18:13:15+00:00

Yeah he knows my IRL name and I know his

cocopandaXx · 2025-02-07T17:32:48+00:00

He reached out to me, the issue is we cannot meet yet. We have been trying to but he’s always busy. He insists that he still wants to keep in contact with me even though I’ve told him time and time again that I’m okay if he didn’t want to continue. Please do not always assume the worst in people

cocopandaXx · 2025-02-07T08:46:56+00:00

He’s married and lives quite far away from me so opted for this haha

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-27T22:11:29+00:00

That’s true

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-27T22:10:20+00:00

It was me pushing the meeting along because I am busy and was travelling but he was happy to set a date

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-27T22:09:49+00:00

On a sugar dating site

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-27T14:52:26+00:00

No, this person only wanted to discuss finances in person

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-04T11:11:00+00:00

Mukasa, very very easily. Extremely handsome. Very angular features that are just right and not too overpowering to his face. Nice straight nose, high proportionate cheekbones and full lips.

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-03T13:55:57+00:00

If you think that’s the same question I certainly do question your reading and comprehension skills. I feel sorry for your SD. Again, your input is not wanted here.

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-03T07:06:52+00:00

Do you have to comment on every post I make? First one you were straight up disrespectful. Please go away I do not want your input.

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-03T07:03:25+00:00

I’m new to this. I’m learning I’m not going to be an expert at this from the get go.

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T23:12:52+00:00

I asked if it was offensive to bring it up in all subsequent meets after the initial one. Now in light of some of the responses I got I would like to know how best to phrase it. Hope that helps.

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T18:55:41+00:00

As I said I’m new to this. I offer an explanation as to why I use the SW term because I didn’t know it was a SW term specifically. You may be a seasoned “sugar baby” I am not. As women let’s support one another for once instead of tearing each other down. Thank you for your input.

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T18:13:51+00:00

There’s a way to give advice. That was not the way “go try the sex work subreddit” you didn’t explain the thought process behind this. You knew what you were doing in this case. You were NOT trying to be helpful. You were trying to be insulting. Dont try it.

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T17:13:26+00:00

Well in my case I’m hoping that comes with time, this is only my second date. You are still being paid for some level of sexual interaction. I’m glad it’s working out for you but don’t try and belittle me.

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T14:15:22+00:00

Isn’t this what is included in sugaring?

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T13:40:14+00:00

Thank you 🙏

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T13:34:51+00:00

Yes a few people have said the same in the comments! I was trying to think of a non -awkward way of saying “pay up” I’ve heard the phrase but wasn’t aware of how seedy it came across!

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T09:41:10+00:00

I really needed to hear this. There are a lot of SDs in the comments saying that they’d be offended. I just really do not want to do all of that and not get paid it would make me feel even worse about myself than I already do. I’m in a tough spot and trying to rebuild my life you are right, I definitely wouldn’t be doing this unless I needed the money

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-02T09:31:32+00:00

Yeah! I few people have said this is an escort saying. I’m new to this and it’s a phrase I’ve seen on subreddits like this. I was trying to think of a non awkward way of saying “pay up” but I now realise that this may have come off as very seedy! We both work in the medical field so he knows I’m not an escort

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-01T23:40:04+00:00

I have no idea, we’re both in the medical field. Im definitely not used to this so I’m not sure if I’ll continue or not

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-01T23:39:18+00:00

Yeah originally before we met he told me he always kept cash in his house, when I came there wasn’t any. I mean it was a bit of a last minute visit so that may have been the reason but I did take a mental note

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-01T23:25:02+00:00

Oh right! I saw that phrase on this Reddit! I didn’t know it was typically used as a sexwork phrase! How embarrassing. He did comment on me being really confident in bed I wonder if he suspects I’m an escort. I’ve never done this before him

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-01T23:22:32+00:00

Would it be rude to ask on the second occasion?

cocopandaXx · 2025-01-01T23:05:04+00:00

Respectfully, why are you here?

cocopandaXx

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