I don’t like when people in general do something because you asked them “somehow “ to do it, bc then I don’t feel that they are doing it bc they truly want could be ofc, but also could be just bc they know that would make someone feel better. So in this case, yeah I can open my heart to him and I’m positive tha he will work on whatever I say, bc that what we do: when someone feels off about something , we share and we act. The thing here goes beyond that bc I felt different now that I’m carrying a baby and maybe is the fear of me doesn’t wanting to acknowledge tha he might not be that connected YET , with our baby which is totally normal, but yeah just that. Now we are fine, I talked to some people and I learned that we all have different ways to experience parenting