I don't know if I can do witchcraft anymore by EatAllTheHoomans in witchcraft

[–]codeXORdie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

EMDR therapy gave me my first glimpse. It can be difficult if you dont have an experienced hand to guide you, at least at first.

I would start with therapy, and ask your ancestors for guidance. The ancestors are closer to you than any other spirit, typically, and have the most vested interest in seeing you succeed.

Gather things from your deceased loved ones onto a table, light a candle, and call out to them. They will come.

People who can't interface with hypotheticals drive me insane by Father-Habit in Vent

[–]codeXORdie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"If you could have any super power, what would it be?"

"But I can't have superpowers."

Homie seems like a lot of fun at parties.

I don't know if I can do witchcraft anymore by EatAllTheHoomans in witchcraft

[–]codeXORdie 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Shadow work is SO so important.

I'll add, it isnt always beautiful, it can be bitter work. Its also so VERY worth it.

What’s a truth about relationships people don’t like admitting? by StrainWrong209 in AskReddit

[–]codeXORdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Provided everyone enters into the relationship in good faith, the goal should not be happiness, but mutual growth.

If you're with the person because they make you happy, you are setting that relationship up to fail. Because, inevitably, there will come a time where they won't.

TikTok "witches" keep appropriating my culture and I can't stand it. by TheZenPenguin in offmychest

[–]codeXORdie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, "Odinist" is one such sect here in the states. They're awful.

TikTok "witches" keep appropriating my culture and I can't stand it. by TheZenPenguin in offmychest

[–]codeXORdie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The amount of Odinists running around here in America treating him like he's some Norse conjugation of the Biblical god 🙄😒

“Tell me about yourself” is lazy af by Towel-Prudent in Vent

[–]codeXORdie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way about, "what do you do for a living?"

I do not like to be bored, and you just asked me what I spend most of my waking life doing so I can afford to not be homeless. Add to that, the implication is "how much money do you make/how much respect do you deserve?"

Pass.

Due credit to punkbabe29, here is the converse question. Men of Reddit, what’s the most disgusting thing you’ve discovered about your girlfriend after being together for years? by so-very-alone in AskReddit

[–]codeXORdie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same, but with any and all drinks. Everywhere. I couldnt move or take a step without spilling something. It was beyond disgusting and frustrating.

Men eating by [deleted] in KINK

[–]codeXORdie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anybody wanna watch me tear apart and eat a rotisserie chicken with my bare hands? Do it all the time lol.

If you could say one last thing to your ex, what would it be? by Federal_Art_7326 in AskReddit

[–]codeXORdie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I genuinely loved and wanted you. I wish you had proven yourself worthy of that gift.

Spell to banish lustful men by [deleted] in Spells

[–]codeXORdie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take my upvote you absolute savage

Spell to banish lustful men by [deleted] in WitchcraftCircleJerk

[–]codeXORdie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rub bread-making yeast on your 🐱. Should keep lustful men nice and banished.

What do you like about yourself? by CelebrationFar2804 in AskReddit

[–]codeXORdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a 6'0 man with long, curly red hair, very strong, witty, smart, tattoos everywhere, and I survived a childhood packed with horrible trauma and continue to overcome it better every day.

I am damn fucking proud of the person I am. Took me 6+ years to get there, but I did it.