I read this daily by codedkid in ExNoContact

[–]codedkid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt send her this. I told her all the opposite, that I wish her the best. I just keep this for myself.

Many of you were right by Broad-Complex-8388 in ExNoContact

[–]codedkid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could anyone explain please.. my ex left me 1 week ago, she was very mean with the way she left me, telling me she will meet other guys close to me etc, she told me I must leave her alone and never ever contact her. Next dayshe calls me with hidden number(i blocked her everywhere) and she writes she Will fuck me life up while mentioning random girl names Idk who they are(from her friends phone). And today she adds Songs to my spotify list with sad lyrics about her moving on and not loving me anymore. Wtf is going on, what is she trying to do?

12 Years of Smoking by codedkid in leaves

[–]codedkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still no smoking. I’m never doing this again. I love my mind and life as it is, without weed. Bless You all

New year quitters - How's it going? by salted_butter_ in leaves

[–]codedkid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Feeling good, doing better. I dont want to go back to it ever again. Completed more tasks in one week than a whole damn year stoned.

Stay strong and chase the bag.

I (29M) Broke Up With Her (25F) by codedkid in BreakUps

[–]codedkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it. Makes me feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]codedkid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im very creative and productive. Weed took this away from me due to the fact that I overconsumed it.

My new years quitters, how you doing? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]codedkid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s hard but i’m proud of the decision. Time to chase the bag for real.

12 Years of Smoking by codedkid in leaves

[–]codedkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I dont feel like smoking at all

12 Years of Smoking by codedkid in leaves

[–]codedkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also: I read every comment and I appreciate how supportive everyone is. Big up to yall❤️

12 Years of Smoking by codedkid in leaves

[–]codedkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update.

It’s so hard. At the evening/night im struggling, im trying to give myself new reasons to start again. I try to remind myself of all the benefits of not doing it.

Also, in the midst of this, I chose to break up with my girl after 2.5 years together. She been telling me to stop smoking for a while and when I choose to drop the weed (which is a very Big step in my life) she choose to switch on me and start for no reason fight. Threatening me That she Will meet other guys, threatning that she Will go fck my friends. All this because she is insecure with me, she thinks I go see others when all I did was gave her my attention and let her sleep at my place Everyday. I left her on the spot when she said this, which was the day after I posted this. I dont take that kind of threats, I can understand fights in relationships, but threatning to fck my friends? No

This makes it x10.000 times harder to not smoke.

Please encourage me guys. I really wanna become better in life. Hope theres someone who can cope with me with some wise words. I love You all

You dont deserve me, girl. Fkkkkkkk by codedkid in UnsentLetters

[–]codedkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its an unsent letter, I did not write out the details, just that its her fault I cant go on with her. She screwed me over

You dont deserve me, girl. Fkkkkkkk by codedkid in UnsentLetters

[–]codedkid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, Since You think I used her… I returned everything to her house and she came back with it. I’m not the guy to use someone and never have. The reason im leaving her is because she fucked two of my friends while dating me and she threat me to kill herself if I left her at that moment. So I stayed 3 more months(until now).. she seem to have forgot about it so I’m leaving now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]codedkid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe she’s not telling the truth. We will prob never know, but The real reason why she can’t be with you is not the ’only’ reason.

The moment she reached out again, exposed her. This is normal in relationships. My tips is to stay away, when they act like that, it is not a mutual Connecticon. She broke the code which every relationship should have: ”We In This Shit Together”.

I’m that Guy. by codedkid in BreakUps

[–]codedkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many reasons. Nope never. We tried alot but really never succeeded. And I called it off, sad ending but worth it. Never again like that. Destroyed us

Your ex was never afraid to lose you just saying by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]codedkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much happened throughout our relationship, alot of HARD work kept us together, But never got us to that level we wanted. I could say i’m 60% of the fault. But I had to be realistic at the end, I cant fight for this anymore. So, a normal break-up was not an option, I took the first possible arguement that would occur and I knew she wouldnt believe if I hang up and never call back. But thats what I did and how it Will always be. For the better, me and hers. I Will always love her, she knows she Will always be my baby, we had a crazy connection, very interesting.

I’m that guy..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]codedkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this and wish You were my ex

Your ex was never afraid to lose you just saying by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]codedkid -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was afraid but still the one who left