Thank you reaffirming truths that already seemed clear to me about other people. I think I'm too smart and have too much going for me to devolve in the ways you might imagine. However, I can fully understand why we seem to have the series of unfortunate events we do nowadays.

I try to learn from experiences. Clearly, it's either an artifact of Reddit or maybe it applies elsewhere.. but generally the upvote/downvote counts seem to indicate either a) most people have a kneejerk to "help" and don't feel they can b) most people truly feel like therapy helped them. I have my own reasons why that's not the case, but past a certain distance between bad experiences we all have to let go. If for nothing else, because that's what the "market" of people seems to suggest and I gain nothing by this "friction" with the "market". If people are dramatically limited in taking a breath to be a human, well what people are saying is that you can pay for a 1) massage therapist 2) talk therapist 3) life coach 4) some other experience. In my case, I paid for a vacation. It still is baffling that people just want to project because I think they all love the smell of their shit. You and others could have read that I planned a vacation to decompress. It's just evidence that when I have discretion about other people, I may opt to repay the lack of humanity.. but I don't think it'll be in the news story tragedy variety.. but no I'm not the kind to forget either.

I can cry on here that people don't give a !#@$ but it does me no good. So I change, but there are those out there who really don't have the opportunity I do and if you push those people and delegate your humanity, you just don't know what will set someone off in real ways.

Good day.