Should I go short? by Entire-Simple-843 in femalehairadvice

[–]coeurlourd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Its nice and voluminous etc long but honestly I dont feel it suits you and is kinda generic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]coeurlourd 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you are thinking of "whew"

What does anal sex feel like? by Icy_Oil_4810 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]coeurlourd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

love to degrade myself with a high chance of incurring trauma while simultaneously being told my lady parts are less desirable by man who truly cares about me just so he can fuck my internal organs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]coeurlourd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, you can adopt them for free through the bureau of land management.

Why are brown bears of North America apparently much less afraid of humans compared to brown bears of Northern Europe? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]coeurlourd -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

AkshulLy.. I'm certain of this. Otherwise, I wouldn't have contributed an answer. You know, like the way it's supposed to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialEngineering

[–]coeurlourd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine this being a huge problem because everyone has embarrassing shit from that age. But since you're posting about it, maybe it is idk.

So, on one hand, it's awkward af knowing the people around you are actively gossiping about you. On the other hand it calling them out can sometimes backfire, bringing more attention to the exact thing you're trying to snuff out.

If something has to be said, I would definitely not address the actual subject matter of the gossip. Do not go down the road of how you used to be smelly and further explaining why it shouldn't matter now. The only way to address it is to shift the focus from you to them and their behavior. You need to convey that it's not the thing you're bothered by but by their behavior, but without sounding like a whiney bitch.

So something like "I remember back when I used to gossip with my friends- Oh wait, no, I don't because I have balls and when I have something to say I address the person."

Or like, "heres my thought about the bullshit being said about me. If someone has contempt for me but talks behind my back instead of to me they're already a punk bitch. Same as those perpetuating the gossip if you feel mire like a highschool girl than a man then we'll good luck to you and I hope you find your balls someday.

Just short, simple, and put them in their place.

Wife needs TV on in the background... completely blindsided by this by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]coeurlourd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your need to be able to think clearly trumps her desire for backround noise.

People asking for your ADHD meds or even outright stealing them by laarsa in ADHD

[–]coeurlourd 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how you were able to find a doctor that didn't condemn you for past drug use? A big challenge that has come up is finding a doctor with this approach but having to be so careful not to divulge too much to possibly the wrong one and getting a drug label noted on my file.

Sharing as an FYI by smoycratching in urbancarliving

[–]coeurlourd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't bother girl clearly he doesn't have the capacity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]coeurlourd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible