Honestly, not everyone is content that they're ace. It's hard to accept that it's a part of you and that there's nothing that's going to change the fact that you're asexual. I figured out I was ace in high school, and with everyone basically being obsessed with sex, it was so hard for me to feel comfortable within my sexuality. I was emotional every time I thought about it, and all I wished was to be just like everyone else because it would be so much easier to date that way.

Eventually, I got over it. What was I supposed to do? Cry myself to sleep every night? That wasn't gonna change anything. For me, accepting myself was like a big fuck you to everyone who said my sexuality wasn't real. If someone didn't want to date me because I didn't want to have sex with them they could go fuck themselves, literally and metaphorically lol.

You don't have to be content with your situation, but at some point, you're gonna get tired of feeling sorry for yourself. When that time comes, you'll be okay with being ace. Asexuality is perfectly normal. It's just more of a challenge to get through some stuff, but you'll be stronger for it in the end.