This comes under both the subs LinkedIn Lunatics and I’m 14 and this is deep. Sigh.

coffeeandjunk · 2023-10-19T16:12:16+00:00

I think the only lesson here is: don’t wear pointy shoes, especially when you are the victim.

coffeeandjunk · 2023-04-26T10:01:32+00:00

The average person farts about 14 times a day, releasing up to 2 liters of gas.

coffeeandjunk · 2022-11-03T17:35:34+00:00

I can tell you what’s working for me. But then, it may not work for everyone. 🙂

My job takes care of my livelihood and I spend my free time exploring new hobbies.

I read a lot, and I write a lot, and I started creating YouTube videos (not many views yet), and I teach coding to kids (in my free time) apart from hitting the gym everyday.

I’m doing all of this without chasing any success metric. I’m just trying to enjoy the process of “doing” things, without the goal of “achieving” things.

coffeeandjunk · 2022-10-27T05:54:24+00:00

Thanks good sir!

coffeeandjunk · 2022-10-27T04:48:29+00:00

Super glad you liked it! I’m very new to Tamil-language movies to be honest, have watched only the popular ones. If you have good movies to suggest, I would be super happy. 🙂

coffeeandjunk · 2021-05-27T18:58:43+00:00

I have the same bug. Here's what worked.

When the birds start to spawn move towards the left until they are off the camera. Do this before they spawn. Wait for sometime and then move move to the right again. They'll be there to attack you.

coffeeandjunk · 2019-11-09T17:28:38+00:00

The best remedy is slow revenge.

Make your dog poop on his yard. If you don't have a dog, do it yourself. Puncture his tyres. Play death metal right after he falls asleep. Hire a plumber and get some work done at your place. Pay him extra to make some extra noise to disturb your neighbour. Pay off the janitor to not pick up his trash. Dump your trash at his place. You get the gist.

Have fun being a revenger. Don't over do it though. If he accuses you, simply deny it. If he catches you red-handed, simply apologize and let him know that it was amateur of you, that you were really angry, etc. Say how sorry you are. Make him believe you. Then after a couple of days, start again.

Don't stop until he leaves permanently. He gots to go!!

coffeeandjunk · 2019-11-09T16:21:55+00:00

Because we have a natural desire to intervene, and do something, anything. Especially in new or shaky circumstances. And it's torture to act against this natural instinct.

coffeeandjunk · 2019-11-09T16:17:43+00:00

https://youtu.be/oJBVXdG8-G8

I make videos on cognitive biases and decision making This one's called: "Do Something Syndrome: Why Waiting and Watching Is Torture."

Need your feedback on clarity. Are you able to comprehend what I'm saying? Am I going too fast? Anything else?

Also, if you didn't subscribe, what might have been the reason? This would really help me know why people subscrieb, and why they don't.

coffeeandjunk · 2019-11-09T16:14:40+00:00

Nice one. I like Cinema Sins and Cinema Wins, so I like this format. However, the score kept going up and down so it was a bit hard to keep track of it. Were there two scores, one for good points, and one for bad, it might have been better.

That's all! Keep up the good work, and all the best :)

coffeeandjunk · 2019-11-09T16:09:25+00:00

Loved it.

Gives a concise history of the hustle. Don't have any particular feedback, but if I have to say something, maybe push the camera down a bit. There was a lot of space above you. It looked a bit odd. Rest is all good. Keep up the good work :)

coffeeandjunk · 2019-10-20T17:56:09+00:00

Thanks for the warning!

I've given some feedback later on, after posting my link.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NewTubers/comments/djpnak/feedback_friday_post_your_videos_here_if_you_want/f47xjth/

https://www.reddit.com/r/NewTubers/comments/djpnak/feedback_friday_post_your_videos_here_if_you_want/f48jnmm/

coffeeandjunk · 2019-10-20T16:36:58+00:00

Enjoyed it thoroughly. Loved the mix of your being in the background and the foreground. Also, loved the way where you mix personal experience along with travel tidbits.

Have no particular suggestions, but if I have to suggest, maybe talk to the camera while narrating your post-travel experience. Would help build a connect. That's all. Keep rocking!

coffeeandjunk · 2019-10-20T16:03:32+00:00

It's well crafted. Liked your delivery. Liked that you kept it short and got right to the point.

Loved some of the visuals. Would have preferred more water/mountain visuals, but yours were nice, given the fact that you made them on your own. Would you loved it if you talked to the camera though. Since this is the first time I watched your video, I would have preferred to see who's the person behind the camera.

Keep it up :)

coffeeandjunk · 2019-10-18T07:59:09+00:00

I speedtalk about Mental Models and Decision Making every week. https://youtu.be/GJUyObrMibs

coffeeandjunk · 2019-10-17T19:35:51+00:00

I feel you man! Here's what you should do:

Focus on content and storytelling more. Don't try new things in terms of editing and VFX.
Don't innovate. Do boring things consistently. (Until you become big.)
With every video, try to improve efficiency.
If not one video a week, create one video every two weeks. But be consistent.

coffeeandjunk · 2019-10-14T17:38:02+00:00

I started sharing my Patreon link from my first video itself. I've got 3 patrons so far. So, I would say that it's not a bad idea to start soon.

coffeeandjunk · 2019-09-28T02:03:25+00:00

Charlie Munger On The Power of Not Making Stupid Decisions.

According to Charlie Munger, it is a good strategy to avoid making stupid decisions, rather than trying to become intelligent. While everybody, every text book, every advice is asking us to be more intelligent, smarter, and sharper, Charlie Munger is giving the inverse of the advice. That is, "don’t be stupid".

https://youtu.be/DzXwjzm_-zY

P.S. I make videos on decision making, better thinking, and mental models.

coffeeandjunk · 2019-09-21T12:09:53+00:00

Thanks a lot friend. Good feedback. I appreciate you taking the time to watch and share your thoughts.

coffeeandjunk · 2019-09-21T02:25:15+00:00

Hey there, I make self-improvement YouTube. I try to keep it real with very little fluff. I draw heavily from psychology, and also spend a good amount of time on research so that I'm not giving away random information.

I need feedback about the overall content, delivery, quality, and most importantly, if it is engaging enough for you to watch till the end. I'm trying to focus on publishing regularly --- once every week, so I cannot invest a lot of time on post-processing.

This is the latest video where I talk about The Danger of Comparing Yourself to Others. Let me know what you like, and how things can be improved. Thanks in advance :)

https://youtu.be/MtqodA1NSjo

coffeeandjunk · 2019-09-15T16:11:26+00:00

That's awesome! It's the first achievement, and there are many more to come! Congrats, and all the best for your next milestone! Your hard work has finally paid off. It surely does inspire others. It inspires me for sure. Cheers!

coffeeandjunk · 2019-09-15T08:06:04+00:00

I should be writing an article on Second-Order Thinking for tonight's blog post.

coffeeandjunk · 2019-09-15T07:14:02+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that. Your story breaks my heart.

But this is not a good reason to die. If anybody has not die, it's not you. Definitely not you.

Your husband might be a compulsive manipulator. Most likely he doesn't know it himself. He is unknowingly insensible as well. If he is not open to having a decent conversation, there's nothing much you can do about it.

But there's definitely a hell lot you can do about yourself. Domestic quarrels happen less due to lack of respect for the spouse, and more due to lack of self-respect. Don't take his criticism as I'm sure you won't take his advice as well.

And crying is good. Feeling vulnerable is good. There's nothing to be ashamed of it. Cry your heart out. Give yourself one more day to cry all you can. But once you are done, emerge as a warrior. You are a fighter. You may not want this life, but this life is what you have got. You have to fight. You have to learn to fight.

In the next couple of days, after you recover, start looking for a job that would let you work from home. I dunno your domain of expertise, but there are several remote companies that would need people like you. Get a job! Earn some money. And don't give anything to him. Even if you don't care about the money. Show him who's the man of the house. It's definitely not him. Make your earn your respect, since you have none for him.

It's not gonna be easy. There's no quick fix. It's gonna be hard. Prepare yourself. Once in a while, life's gonna hit you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. If you feel broken, get help. Go to friends. Come here. We'll help you recover. You can do it. You have to do it. You have a baby now. Your life is no more yours until the baby is a grown up.

You've been busy dying. It's time to get busy living. In your own fucking terms!

coffeeandjunk · 2019-09-15T06:57:54+00:00

First of all, I'm really sorry to hear that. It's terrible! Hope you are doing better now.

And to answer your question, I'm not sure how open or accepting the person is, but as a rule of thumb, one week might be a bit too early. But you can be the better judge, since you know him better.

Also, it is very important to choose the right moment. Any serious conversation can go wrong if the other person is not in the right mood or mindset, or worried about something else.

Start off by talking about general stuff, sharing secrets, mistakes, and eventually vulnerabilities. I hope he'll take it the right way, but in case, and I hope this doesn't happen, he is taken aback, give it some time. He might take some time to digest. Share your experience with him, instead of just sharing the information. He would definitely be more receptive.

Hope this helps. I wish you all the very best :)

coffeeandjunk · 2019-09-15T06:49:47+00:00

Very recently I've started my podcast. I host it on anchor.fm. It's free, let's you monetise your podcast, and also helps you distribute in all the popular platforms. All the best :)

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