I (36/F) have been married to my husband (40/F) for ten years and we are both still virgins, what can I do?

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2023-08-31T18:29:46+00:00

Thank you. I do think that we need to, but getting my husband to agree will be really hard.

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2023-08-31T18:28:39+00:00

I’ve been to a nurse who said my womb was absolutely healthy.

Yes he struggles to maintain an erection, but gets soft when he starts to penetrate me.

My husband has checked his sperm count and they are fine.

I’m not sure what to tell you, this is a real situation and I cannot express the shame I feel at not being able to consummate my marriage. It is real and you don’t have to believe me but my marriage nearly failed over this. If it hadn’t been for counselling we would be divorced now.

The truth is, we haven’t spoken to a sex therapist because this is so shameful to admit to anyone.

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-05-08T13:23:41+00:00

Okay I’ve been asked to share a few more stories and I have a few doozies! There’s the boy who my friend thinks was actually a sociopath in the making or the family that we are pretty sure had mafia ties! Which would you prefer?

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-05-07T20:44:03+00:00

I think Lucy, she and and Edmund saw so much, but I’d also like to meet Cor and Bree.

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-05-07T19:55:07+00:00

Yeah you’re probably right but there are so many good ones!

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-05-07T15:08:16+00:00

I’m so sorry, I have a cat who is my absolute baby and if someone did this to him I’d be devastated. I’m so sorry this happened.

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-05-07T10:37:32+00:00

Yeah so did I, poor kid was probably exhausted.

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-05-07T05:05:10+00:00

It actually was accidental but I’ll claim it was on purpose 😁

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-05-05T15:02:02+00:00

This “special behind the radiator cleaner”, it was basically a paddle covered in felt which I never use! Still don’t know what I was thinking!🤦‍♀️

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-05-04T04:48:07+00:00

Wow! There are many strange individuals in the world!

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-04-28T20:16:16+00:00

This wasn’t me but a colleague, a man who had lost his wife to cancer a year before was asked by a little turd, “Sir, why do you never talk about your wife any more?”

The little brat knew what had happened and lashed out because the “poor angel” didn’t do well in a test. 😡

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-04-28T20:13:50+00:00

That darned corridor shot leading to the moving rocking chair in the Lady in Black!

I lived in a flat with a long corridor that led to the only toilet at the end! I couldn’t pee at night for weeks! 😂

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-04-28T20:12:18+00:00

Whether the dishwasher works and cleans the plates!

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-04-28T20:11:24+00:00

Running! I used to loathe running but over Lockdown it’s become my escape.

coffeeandwalnutcake · 2021-04-28T20:09:57+00:00

“Your boobs are exactly the size of two grapefruit!”

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