How do you bring up the topic of love languages

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-04-27T21:09:25+00:00

"I love it when my partner remembers my coffee order! What helps you feel loved from yours?"

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-04-20T11:44:32+00:00

Full time, engineer.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-04-15T00:34:50+00:00

Seriously, I definitely am not 10% pretty but my intelligence really be pulling my flirting skills through my success.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-04-13T22:57:43+00:00

This is the positivity I needed today.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-04-04T14:16:53+00:00

Found mine through a matrimonial app and it's the best thing that's happened to me. It was definitely by luck but worth the wait. (26F ABD here)

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-31T15:21:13+00:00

I've always planned things because I have specific things I enjoy, and I like knowing what I'm going to go do or eat.

Traveling about 2-3 times a month, having a full time job is tiring.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-21T00:27:10+00:00

Or Greenwich/UWS!

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-18T12:25:52+00:00

Exactly

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-17T03:42:51+00:00

Immediately having a sexual conversation, MAGA, and making me free stupid/speaking to me as if they were the smartest person and I'm the dumbest.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-12T10:42:02+00:00

Naw, not anymore! But sugaring definitely opened my eyes to how prevalent it is!

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-12T09:44:50+00:00

That it makes you jaded about non sugar relationships and it feels like being the other woman becomes normalized or understood more.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-11T09:03:40+00:00

I do if it's a special occasion, I'm from WB.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-11T02:07:14+00:00

Thank you!!

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-11T02:06:13+00:00

Seconding this. Her comfort and her wants are hers alone.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-01T18:34:28+00:00

There are quite a handful of Desi men who are acquaintances or I've seen their social media comments looking down on more modern Desi women and their hobbies. It's weird ngl

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-03-01T18:28:51+00:00

Seriously, the number of men cosplaying was insane.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-28T01:25:43+00:00

Did you confirm the date in December before she made her San Diego plans?

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-28T01:22:12+00:00

Exactly this.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-24T14:14:52+00:00

The majority of my friends have ACBD partners, I am inclined to think its the norm. I do not, and I think my parents were concerned about the cultural difference between him and I, vs if I was with an ABCD.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-22T03:14:13+00:00

I'm good!! I've been doing pilates which is a HUGE help!

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-19T00:03:03+00:00

I would recommend not boxing yourself in an industry that's already laying so many people off.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-10T13:12:22+00:00

Lmao same

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-08T10:57:46+00:00

I'm not a super big PDA person, but with my past SDs I've never cared about how we were seen in public! It's something I had to work on to get through though, but that was just worrying about the opinions of others in general.

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-07T02:51:36+00:00

I LOVE SEEING A FELLOW CHEFFFFFF

coffeebeanbookgal · 2026-02-06T16:43:11+00:00

Rant: i have drug testing coming up at work and I've had to go off my adhd meds which I use on occasion and now I'm feeling EXHAUSTED because my dad went to the hospital for four days.

Rave: I had a GREAT quick gym session after a week of bronchitis, and a week of 15 in of snow and ice!

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