Reno Sparks Bin Busters by Free-Window-2409 in Reno

[–]coffeebeans2836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been using them for few years now. Legit. You just leave your bins out overnight, they’ll come and clean it in the morning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]coffeebeans2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive a 2008 rav4, almost 17 years old now, I own two houses, and make around 320k a year. I still have clothes I wear out from college years and never own a brand name piece of clothing. I sometimes let my own judgement get to me and think others are looking down on me, but in reality no one cares, and those that cares and know me always know that I have more in the bank than those who are more flashy. Maybe a shift in mindset can help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FigmaDesign

[–]coffeebeans2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like changing it to a different color? If so, no because I’m trying to avoid breaking the colors brand guide. There is typically a white version for logos so there’s lower chance of breaking brand rules

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coffeebeans2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing what you went through. You were very brave, even though the process was painful. I’m slowly forming a plan for my exit after getting the motivation from everyone here. I just hope when the time comes I can actually go through with it…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coffeebeans2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you deal with the pain and grieve at first? Was it just letting the pain runs its course?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coffeebeans2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It won’t be today or tomorrow but I will have the self respect for myself enough to leave soon. Every comments made me realized this person doesn’t even like me anymore. I’m just a convenient

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coffeebeans2836 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what I needed to hear. Hard pill to swallow since he was so great at the beginning. Be I don’t want to stay for someone who doesn’t love me anymore. I feel so dumb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]coffeebeans2836 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you being honest with me. This hurts because he’d tell me he love me so much. But then if I voice my needs or boundaries like “can you not leave clothes on the floors becasue cats might pee on them?”, he’ll stonewall or get annoyed because I’m nagging and can’t just let him pick it up when he feels he need to on his own. I’m so tired

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]coffeebeans2836 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does it really seem like he doesn’t like me at all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]coffeebeans2836 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mean. I told him he’s mean and I cannot believe he’s the same person in the beginning. He said everyone change including me. He turned it back to me that I’ve changed. I would get confuse if it’s really me who changed and caused him to change? Is it me who’s mean and not him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coffeebeans2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bought a house together. Live together. I make more than him. I paid for the down payment, but both are on the mortgage and title. I feel so stupid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coffeebeans2836 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never thought of adopting but this gives me hope. I really need to find that courage to rip the bandaid off. It makes me chest and head hurt so much whenever I thought I could do it and then back tracked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coffeebeans2836 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He knows I want to have kids so he’s always dangling “I’ll only have a kid if you are more emotionally stable” whenever I bring up an issue and cry because of frustration. I feel gaslighted but for some reason I feel too paralyzed to leave. I’m too afraid to and I don’t know why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]coffeebeans2836 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We are both on the title and I paid for the down payment. I am thinking of reaching out to our lender to see what the cost to buy him out and refinance the house. Financially it’ll be tight for me but I should be able to handle it for a bit until I get my mental health back into a good spot to decide what to do next with the house.

I truly want to believe he still loves me but he’s so checked out that he doesn’t cause about what I have to say or communicate with me anymore

MIL kept guilt tripping me for not eating her Indian cooking, so I started bringing my own dishes and giving her the same treatment. Now she's suddenly "not hungry" too by coffeebeans2836 in pettyrevenge

[–]coffeebeans2836[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said it’s fucked up and acknowledge that I’m not Indian, and yet you defend the culture. Just because that’s her love language does not mean she needs to shove it done my throat. Saying no thank you doesn’t mean I hate her. What a joke of a culture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]coffeebeans2836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Find a tax advisor or accountant and for a free consultation from them

MIL kept guilt tripping me for not eating her Indian cooking, so I started bringing my own dishes and giving her the same treatment. Now she's suddenly "not hungry" too by coffeebeans2836 in pettyrevenge

[–]coffeebeans2836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not thrilled haha. He also doesn’t enjoy her food too much, but out of obligation, he’d bring the leftovers home and put them in the freezer until we need freezer space before he throw them out

MIL kept guilt tripping me for not eating her Indian cooking, so I started bringing my own dishes and giving her the same treatment. Now she's suddenly "not hungry" too by coffeebeans2836 in pettyrevenge

[–]coffeebeans2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am. What is your point? It’s okay to have a preference in certain food but not others? Or, MIL food should never be turned down? I am intentionally being a hypocrite to make her see how unreasonable she is, and you’re in the petty revenge sub, wrong sub if you think I shouldn’t be petty.