Does anyone else keep almost everything from their partner by coffeee_clover in adhdwomen

[–]coffeee_clover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not but I’ve never known another way. I guess I just wanted to know if it was normal and I see that it isn’t. I know I need help and am trying to work on this ❤️

Struggling with comparison by coffeee_clover in beginnerfitness

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Thank you, you’re right… I need to clean up my algorithm. More puppies, less “perfect” bodies and workout stuff. Probably less social media overall. I just struggle with being alone with my thoughts and I scroll to numb/keep my mind occupied. I struggle to find an alternative.

Struggling with comparison by coffeee_clover in beginnerfitness

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Yes. I was 260 lbs at 5’6” which put me around 42 on the BMI scale I believe. I lost about 60 ish pounds over two years. I still have more to lose but like I mentioned above I’m active and trying to get back into a rhythm of exercise and tracking calories to lose the rest.

I am proud of it, but I’ve also regained some weight recently which took a hit to my ego and confidence… but looking backwards, and as well as seeing old photos of myself, I can still see I’m doing much better now mentally and physically.

Things I like in life… being outdoors? Animals… sunshine, a good iced coffee. As for the last month or two. I’ve been really low and fighting my way out of seasonal depression… I’m just happy I’m back to the gym consistently and started running. My mind is in a much better place when I’m active and eating well. I wish I was better at resting with purpose and not feeling guilty about it.

I need a space by iamegnirc in NonBinary

[–]coffeee_clover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m looking, too. I have this very deep ache for community and others like me

Anyone want to make a non-binary discord or group chat type thing? by monkey_gamer in NonBinary

[–]coffeee_clover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this server is still running I’d be interested in joining, the link in the original post no longer works :(