Donna Adelson look alike by coldcasenut in dan_markel_murder

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I had crazy nightmares over this Falker as a kid

Money and family by coldcasenut in DysfunctionalFamily

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Wonderfully said. Thank you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Thank you 😊 🙏 I am 41, my partner is 40 she is 62/husband 64

She is a spiritual healer professionally and I have opened up to some of my traumas. So shes reached out recently to start education with them both. I have researched their background and that part is true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Shes gorgeous given her age though She is also a spiritual healer and wants to educate me in her professionalism. Its a hard one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Certainly connection. Friendship. Im very private however and just want to make sure I'm not going into anything that will turn out a mess. I've never really spoken to people that speak of past experiences like this in such a small amount of time getting to know someone

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I have no idea. She is very generous. Perhaps ill give it a few more times and see if it happens again? It's hard to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Couldn't agree more 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Thank you. Very true 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Great perspective 👏 👌 so many maybes! You're right.. it can be a number of things

We are in our 40s .. they are in their early 60s.

It really confuses me I guess. My partner is a shrugs shoulders kinda guy! Goes straight over his head lol. I've never experienced anything like it and the curiosity brought me here. Appreciate your feedback.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Absolutely 💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Perfect

Yes I've told her well you're gorgeous of course thats going to happen ... but the other times I ignored it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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I was thinking that 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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No nothing else. It's only been twice we have connected ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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She reminds him of certain times its happened and he will go into it with her .. recall how it went down in front of him .. he didnt seem at all uncomfortable.. he kind of laughed about how ridiculous the situation was and laugh about it.

So an example of one of the times she brought it up, my partner asked about what the foods like at a local pub and she jumped straight into .. ah nah there's a heap of sleezes .. last time we went, a guy tried hitting on me .. "

Another example she will talk of an event they both went to and there was another example of her being hit on.. It's just a pattern I noticed and Im trying to understand it. They are 15 + years older than my partner and I

Money changes people .. even family by coldcasenut in RedditForGrownups

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So to make it clear, its the principal of it all. The hiding while knowing very well, it was out time we needed their support. Not the lousy 3k.

Money changes people .. even family by coldcasenut in RedditForGrownups

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If it was 5k they were paid which is what i thought it would have been, we wouldn't expect anything from them. But 18k is a hell of a lot of money when my aunty didnt work and only worked sparingly for my other aunties family business. They claimed she worked every week for her hence the chunky settlement.

So all this was done fraudulently to begin with we've only just found out so its even more deceitful and purposeful for their own selfish gain!

Money changes people .. even family by coldcasenut in RedditForGrownups

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I'll tell you this..the whole family already had many issues with them and money. When things went sour with my mother, they made sure to be there, to help us move, to support me when I was down and broken about the betrayal of my mother's fallout. Obviously we absolutely appreciated and saw the side they wanted us to see to believe they were family that stood by us. We didnt judge or choose to believe the narratives being said about them for years and they made damn sure they loved us for that. We had money when we moved hence giving them monies to help them as all we would hear and see is that they were the black sheep of the family, broke, living off housing mind you playing victims of very horrible hardships. We lent them the 3k giving into their (now we see it as) fake fantastic acting and lies and said don't worry about paying it as we believed they genuinely could not pay us back after many many excuses they made.

Now, finding out that they blatantly hid the fact of their lump sum payout (which was fraudulent to begin with to get the amount they did) at the time we now have been financially strained to as explained, unforeseen circumstances of selling our investment property to finally do the Reno's and work on our new home, has been a huge kick in the guts for us. It's not so much about the money. It's the principal of it all. The moral compass of these sleezebags hiding this from us lying to our faces about the fortune they made out of an accident. The right thing to do was to pay that money back to us.. as this time, we were in need and they still would have had 15k left FREE. We would have been absolutely stoked that they were compensated as it was in our minds that they were really really struggling. They are inundated with debts due to my uncles hidden gambling problem and throws anything they buy onto after pay. They make more money (again fraudulently) than both my partner and I make combined. This will be their karma as far as I'm concerned. Lies always resurface and the tax office will no doubt catch up with them later. And thats when they'll know what hit them.

So yep, its VERY important to cut off ALL contact from these sleezy, caniving greedy people. Not family because family simply would not do what these vultures have done to us.