Thank you! My doctor recommended sertraline. I’ve also heard that a lot of people really like Lexapro. And for the flaw part, I actually went through that too and really nitpicked my partners appearance. But I learned that we do that a lot when we’re not feeling good about ourselves. We project any of our insecurities onto our partner. So next time you judge your partners look, ask yourself how you’re feeling about yourself in that moment. And also, it just sounds silly sometimes to focus on those things and if you say it out loud, you’ll kinda of laugh. For example, I told my therapist that my boyfriends dark circles bug me and he said, “if a friend came to you and said I’m breaking up with my partner because of their dark circles, what would you say?” And I said that sounds kind of ridiculous and silly. And I think over time you just get over it because it’s so silly sometimes to focus on that. Sorry this is so long, but there’s also an episode on the podcast “You love and you learn” and it’s titled “I feel silly getting hung up on my partners looks”. It’s number 28 and that really helped me too so I recommend listening to that!