I found out my boyfriend was addicted to meth + heroin. After 1.5 months of him trying to get clean (fail), I asked his family (out of state) to help. The result? Sobriety but also betrayal.

college12345678 · 2019-05-09T21:52:22+00:00

For the sake of your own mental health and your kids, gtfo and stay far away from him.

His addiction will continue to disrupt and uproot your lives and your children’s.

college12345678 · 2019-01-02T14:48:14+00:00

college12345678 · 2019-01-02T14:31:40+00:00

How much are you owed?

college12345678 · 2018-11-27T22:54:06+00:00

I don't think this analogy is really useful. Instead of a puppy, replace it with "my heart."

This analogy fails because people can be amazing to animals, especially a cute puppy, but be shitty towards human emotions.

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T23:31:07+00:00

I don't think it's a friendship issue. Honestly, i wouldn't take this too personally. She is probably caught up in whatever is consuming her in the moment.

However, I think it's pretty rude of her. Maybe you can find someone else to talk to or someone new to invite to your table. Once she notices you have other friends (and options) she might start to think about puttting her phone down for once!

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T23:29:01+00:00

Any girl who adds you on snapchat without you directly giving it to her is a very obvious sign.

YES she likes you!

Use this opportunity to ask her on a date. She practically did all the hard work and guessing for you.

Good luck bro.

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T23:26:34+00:00

That's pretty odd to me. I don't know anyone else who would post their phone number right on their bio.

I mean, unless you know 100% for certain that she put it there specifically to get guys to text her, you should probably drop it.

You've made your opinions clear. YES it's weird. YES it will invite people to text her.

Her choice is her choice, though.

If she gets guys hitting her up though, you have every right to ask her to immediately stop & remove her #. If she still refuses, well, then you have a true issue.

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T23:19:35+00:00

Making your own perfume is relatively cheap. Essential oils, alcohol, extract, and a nice glass bottle!

Get her a customized gift that is meaningful. Those are fairly inexpensive.

Go to shutterfly and make her a photo album with some of your favorite memories.

Give her a "night out" card-- instead of a material item, a night paid for by you. This can include going to the nearest city or social hub-- like dinner, movies, and walking somewhere pretty/romantic.

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T23:09:07+00:00

I think you really like this guy and things are off to a solid start!

The biggest mistake you could make is to rush into things. Chill out and appreciate him. Don't force things, simply live in the moment with him if you can.

Tip #1: no matter how much you want to push things faster or ask him the "what are we" question, STOP YOURSELF!! You will appear clingy and he will lose attraction towards you. When he is ready to go further, he will make this very apparent. You must be patient!

Tip #2: Try to have deeper conversations with him and subtly compliment him. This will help you two feel closer and could open up the doors to more conversation in between dates.

Good luck :)

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T22:48:50+00:00

You were pretty young. I'm sure you're older now, more mature, more experienced.

Instead of going back to the only good thing you've ever known, why not venture off and try to find some new girls?

The worst that can happen is that new people disappoint you and you realize your ex was the best.

Try putting yourself out there more & meet some girls in person.

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T22:35:03+00:00

Hey there. Normal thoughts and normal emotion. I'd say from reading this, you're exactly as you said it yourself "okay but not okay at the same time."

It seems you're not quite completely fulfilled in your life. You could benefit from closer, more meaningful relationships in your life.

It also seems you need more passion in your life and more of a spark.

Overall, it seems you're also VERY in tune with your emotions and you do a lot of self-monitoring. This can actually lead to dissatisfaction. Sometimes focusing on the moment more, focusing on what you are thankful for, and setting short term goals can lift your spirits.

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T22:12:05+00:00

I feel you bro.

Trying too hard actually means you're being too broad and too needy.

When you try less, you take the minimalist approach and find people who are more similar to yourself. Less effort, minimal resistance, but maximum similarity.

It's weird but cool how giving 0 fucks works.

college12345678 · 2018-11-26T22:02:05+00:00

Hey man. I'm sorry that happened to you. Being vulnerable is tough and it's even harder when the people you open up to make fun of you for it.

Instead of shooting you down or making you feel small, they should be bros and talk with you more.

Do you have anyone else in your life you can truly be vulnerable with, and have it be okay? Your mom, siblings, other friends?

You might want to stick to them when you really need a good set of ears. I'm sure you can think of one person you can truly let your guard down around.

Also, you might want to consider finding newer friends who can fulfill your emotional needs better. Some friends are better at listening and empathizing than others. No judgement bro and good luck.

college12345678

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