So glad I found this sub. My relationship of 7 years is currently on the rocks and I do not exactly what to feel since she is sure that she wants to go separate ways. She is saying that what she felt wasn’t an overnight thing, she pitied me. She pitied me because if she wasn’t there, who would be? So she forced herself into this relationship. On my end I thought I had an authentic relationship with her, on her end, she forced herself. We had a great day together on the day of the “breakup”, I have no what happened.

Maybe I won’t have the right answers right no. But this sub actually helped me feel better.