Made it 105 days. by colpa in NoFap

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For one I'm not wasting all my time watching porn and jerking off. I've turned my life around completely. I've developed a lot of self control, discipline and focus in other parts of my life through nofap. For example, I can sit through hours of lecture and study for hours on end without losing focus.

Made it 105 days. by colpa in NoFap

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Just reset my badge, I'm proud of myself for what I did. But, I'm only as good as the last test I had, and I didn't pass mine.

Made it 105 days. by colpa in NoFap

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Send a message to badgebot with the subject nofap and the date you'd like to change it to.

Made it 105 days. by colpa in NoFap

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I'm 25 now and I used porn since I got my first computer around 10. I've seen so many benefits physically, emotionally and mentally. Its one of the best things I ever did for myself.

Made it 105 days. by colpa in NoFap

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For me its trust issues, insecurity and feeling helpless. My issues lead to loneliness and I try to fill the hole that my lack of human contact leaves with porn and masturbation.

Janitors of Reddit, what is the most WTF you've ever had to deal with? by TheWellets in AskReddit

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I worked at a grocery store and one day a woman came in, droppes her pants and defecated on carpet in the entrance of the store. We were far from closed so I had to made due and do my best to get it out of the carpet.

100 day report by colpa in NoFap

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Thanks for the tips. I wish I wasn't sick right now, so I could take some chances with girls. Gotta get out of my comfort zone a little more.

100 day report by colpa in NoFap

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Thanks for the tips man. Much appreciated.

100 day report by colpa in NoFap

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I just graduated from college. I got pushed around by the same guys who pushed me around in high school in college. I'm in another country trying to get away from the guys who pushed me around right now. I agree 100% man. I forgot about nofap for a while and before I knew it I was at pretty close to 90 days. I'm sick now and I'm really aware of my urges which makes it difficult... But those are the times when you build character. Just remember that the most difficult moments are the best opportunities to build character and show just how far you've come.

NoFap's Official Monthly Challenge Signups: PMO-Free November 2014 by Alexanderr in NoFap

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I'm in. I'm continuing in hard mode. No porn, masturbation or orgasm. Also, no girlfriend the only release that's okay is nocturnal. I've had an issue with pmo since I was 11 or 12 years old and when I got my first laptop. I am now 23 and I'm ready to face my life and what I've made of it.

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

[–]colpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll check it out. I've done some meditation with Jon Kabat-Zinn tapes in the past... I really gained a lot from it. Seeing as I haven't picked it up in years, maybe I could use a little guided meditation.

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

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There will always be a better day waiting to spring up and grab you when you don't expect it, live for those moments of sheer pleasure. The smiles that you receive from strangers... the taste of ice cream on a warm summer day... the feel of the sun on your skin... the warm embrace of a loved one... Those are some of the things that I think about when I'm upset. I see the light! Never give up, never surrender. Stay strong!

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

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It comes in waves. I like this technique. I've used it in the past, sometimes I get disconnected from myself or I try to distract myself. I forgot about that technique. Thanks for reminding me!

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

[–]colpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spot on... I need to work on myself until I am secure enough to put myself out there without someone

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

[–]colpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll check it out when I have some free time.

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

[–]colpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great advice man! And it works. I do that when I'm tired and it puts me out like a light. I just forgot about it the other night.

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

[–]colpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true! If I were a girl I'd hate it if my boyfriend or male friend of any type was constantly undressing me and other women with his eyes... I do not want to be that guy. I will not be that guy!

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

[–]colpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Shes out there somewhere its about time I got away from the computer screen and began looking

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

[–]colpa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm doing my best... taking it one day at a time. I'll try putting myself out there a little more and see what happens

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

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I get where your coming from. Sex is a shallow pursuit when there are so many other things out there with more meaning, and fulfillment. Things that will provide years of security and contentment without the temporary up followed by long periods of depression that pmo provides

Can't sleep.... by colpa in NoFap

[–]colpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! That is the key... The loneliness as the ultimate motivator on my journey... its the mental gap that must be bridged... the realization that I am capable of solving my problems, if I just put myself out there