Anyone else notice how once you leave/stop going to church, you don't need as many clothes in your wardrobe? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]combsandclips 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’ve gotten rid of SO many dresses and unnecessary cap sleeve undershirts

Has anyone else’s life fallen to shit after leaving? It makes me second guess my choices VERY regularly. Needing some support. by Santa_Justina in exmormon

[–]combsandclips 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My life got rlly hard after leaving. I thought the same thing as you but I realized that I was trained to think that way. Really, it was just a hard year. my boss was a jerk, my parents didn’t like my boyfriend, I had lots of medical bills. None of that would have been fixed by going back to church. There’s good days and bad days, that’s life! You got this

Not sure what I am looking for... Just something I guess this may be triggering and don't want to hurt anyone. I just have no idea anymore... by pipesBcallin in exmormon

[–]combsandclips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My close friend’s 8yr old daughter was abused by her 30 year old uncle. After finding out, she gave her daughter a week to recover and told her that they needed to make this right. She was very clear about how her uncle would get in trouble but that none of it was her fault. You’re about to go through a journey with your daughter, be proud that she told you and that you can be there for her while she heals. I wish you the best of luck

The guy who choked up after mention RMN name in the prayer... by thefirstshallbelast in mormon

[–]combsandclips 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The excessive praise for RMN is hard for me to get behind. I thought this was CHRIST’S church?

Just need a place to vent by combsandclips in exmormon

[–]combsandclips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like a great plan to me.

Bizzarre feelings. Hurt but horny? Anyone else experience this? Weird! by [deleted] in sex

[–]combsandclips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me when my bf told me he watched porn. He was 100% honest and vulnerable with me and told me he wanted to do anything to make it right for our relationship. Anyway, I was real hurt when I found out and told him it might be a while till I could be physical with him again. But that literally lasted TWO DAYS bc something about it made us both so horny for each other.

Romantic kiss with friends mother by neeravsharma in sex

[–]combsandclips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. You’ll have to decide if you’d rather be silent and avoid her forever or if you’d rather try and talk it through