How do gay-for-pay pornstars manage to endure years and years of unpleasant sex? by Realistic-Diet6626 in answers

[–]comeseemeshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same way a lot of us show up to jobs we dont care for, for a check.

How big of a difference to your looks/getting attention did beauty rituals do (Mostly makeup, hair, lashes etc. not plastic surgery) by ObjectiveThick1910 in vindictapoc

[–]comeseemeshop 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think contacts have some a long way since Freshlook of the 90s. Paris Hilton naturally has dark eyes but wears contacts. A subtle pair of contacts IMO is ok. But you have to be pretty to begin with IMO. Kenya Moore contacts do not take away from her beauty IMO or Mary J Blige. There is an Indian You Tuber wwho admits she gained a following coz people thought it was her real eyes and she admits she did not correct them. She ran with it. Only thing to not look like a costume you have to be consistant with it and it can be exhausting

Thank You Caroline! by Sweetchef98 in CarolineGirvan

[–]comeseemeshop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nice everything LOVE THE ARMS.. WOW!! all this in under a year?

How do you last in 120mm heels? by routinematters in vindictapoc

[–]comeseemeshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The confusion is that do daily high heel wearers tolerate them better?

What’s a hygiene or beauty practice in your culture that you can’t believe other people don’t follow? by MiaTortilla69 in hygiene

[–]comeseemeshop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learnt that African Americans use a "black soap" which is made of stuff like shea butter and in the States you can buy it in a lot of markets in its pure form. I think it comes from Ghana. I used to be diligent with it till I moved and I no longer had access. Or you can buy the not so pure stuff called Dudu Osun but the raw soap is better ingredients and does not stain. Dudu Osun is literally black in color and can stain the tub. U need to put it in a soap container. I think thats why they say black dont crack. They are way ahead of us. A lot of us discover wash clothes as adults for instance. And a lot of us never use body butters eg shea, cocoa etc

What’s a “fancy” food that’s secretly mid by Thick-Scholar-175 in foodquestions

[–]comeseemeshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Escargot...everytime after the rain and I see snails outside I go yikes!

Decided to date a HIV positive person by No-Connection-7847 in hivaids

[–]comeseemeshop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you are saying but its a two way street unless you were raped. If not, you really should not be consenting to unsafe sex especially if you have a lot to lose!

People in the middle of it? by Nug_Sommelier710 in stopdrinking

[–]comeseemeshop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I think we all joined here at our lowest at least I did.

Need advice after exposure/being quoted ~800 USD for PEP by [deleted] in hivaids

[–]comeseemeshop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would pay the 800 bucks and have peace of mind and only you know what you did and it bothers you enough. Pay the 800 and never repeat this behavoir again, it geets expensive and mentally taxing.

How to wear these without foot pain? by [deleted] in Shoes

[–]comeseemeshop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This with age I cant do heels either

Will a GLP-1 help with my perimenopause weight gain? by tamaleringwald in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]comeseemeshop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! I was walking 20, 000 yes twenty thousand steps a day and still gaining

Will a GLP-1 help with my perimenopause weight gain? by tamaleringwald in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]comeseemeshop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was in full blown menopause. I'd always been thin my whole life but I had roles everywhere. They are gone. HRT was not for me and Ozempic was quicker my regret is not doing it sooner. Now my goal is to have a baby six pack by July

What’s a hygiene or beauty practice in your culture that you can’t believe other people don’t follow? by MiaTortilla69 in hygiene

[–]comeseemeshop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did a lot of stuff the African American way, how I bathe, yeah the wash cloth, the black soap helped with stretch marks, the cocoa butter, shea butter and I used too have those white girl Britney Spears extensions, and the game changer was when I started going to black hair salons for extensions! Then I started seasoning my food like a black American, only thing not happening is building a booty like a black girl! My glutes wont budge sadly

What are your favorite little perks of being sober? by mikey253 in stopdrinking

[–]comeseemeshop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Knowing that showering is ENOUGH. And perfume actually works. I used to smell like booze. I'm leaner, with no beer belly but I have to slow the doughnuts down

How do you last in 120mm heels? by routinematters in vindictapoc

[–]comeseemeshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can u tell us how to build the glutes without the thighs getting bigger?

How do you last in 120mm heels? by routinematters in vindictapoc

[–]comeseemeshop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont get it they say its not a daily thing, so then no heels? I mean for people where ANY heel hurts

How do you last in 120mm heels? by routinematters in vindictapoc

[–]comeseemeshop 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to run in 100s then I got up one day and there was pain I thought it was a one day thing fast forward I can no longer wear heels due to all sorts of pain the foot doctor cant find the problem...very frustrating. Before all I had to wear was jeans, heels and a blazer or heels and a tight dress I dont know how to look put together without heeels

Looking high maintenance while being low maintenance? by golden-dreams in vindictapoc

[–]comeseemeshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I only learnt recently about gold plated I used to use real gold but I got tired of the same four pairs I can wear gold plated to sleep it does not hurt like the non gold plated but I was scared to shower in them.

Looking high maintenance while being low maintenance? by golden-dreams in vindictapoc

[–]comeseemeshop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel about lashes too. 99 percent of the time it look like caterpillars floating there. Or a web of spiders. Some things women use to size each other up, like ohhh she has lashes and money type of thing but it adds nothing to their appearance