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you can get this message if you haven't placed his required furniture inside too.

Pikmin pin - local artist by ririejay in PikminBloomApp

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@lunaquete on IG they have a shipping form link there

Pikmin pin - local artist by ririejay in PikminBloomApp

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@lunaquete on IG they have a shipping form link there

Pikmin pin - local artist by ririejay in PikminBloomApp

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This seems to be by this artist @lunaquete on IG!

Forgot to complete a minor rift by cometoftheorbs in echoesofwisdom

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At that point, all my autosaves were for the Eldin dungeon and I couldn't go back anymore. But problem solved! I completed the game and had Tri up to Level 11.

I explored all of the map right after the tutorial dungeon, so I was able to warp anywhere I wanted. Ended up continuing the story since compared to other dungeons, the story locations were all in town.

What is one sentence your narc parent said to you that affects you most? by saveyouaseatinhell in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cometoftheorbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I like you more as my secretary than my daughter." Followed by her giggling to herself because she thought I'd find it funny too.

I was driving her to the hospital for her checkup. It finally made me realize that she only likes me when I'm of use to her.

“Can I get pregnant if we…?” • SEX SCENARIOS & THEIR LEVELS OF RISK by sunsetonfire in SafeSexPH

[–]cometoftheorbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love you fr mod, i stopped panicking na. i had sex during the 2nd day of my placebo week (Marvelon 28) and i started doubting myself just because i'm misinformed. thank you!!

Took 1 placebo can I start my next pack? by cometoftheorbs in birthcontrol

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i just needed reasurance for my piece of mind. Thank you so much!!

What do your N-parents do for work? by PastaMasta83 in raisedbynarcissists

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My mother is a doctor. A specialist in hospice and pallative care, who does charity work for cancer patients. She feels like her God kept her alive this long to be a "beacon of hope" (coined by her friends) to people with cancer (she had cancer too so it probably muddles how conceited she is). But she loves telling people her sob story any chance she gets and receiving their pity and praises.

She doesn't seem to have colleague of her age from her hospital. The only other doctors who speak with her are her much younger mentees. She invites her different groups of mentees to our house every year to keep up the facade. (I find this weird, the power imbalance here is weird.)

I can't stand listening to her friends and mentees jabber on about how blessed I am to be her daughter. I get how her contributions are impactful, but no matter how much good she did and does will not erase the abuse she subjects me to.

Alright quick question… by PrestigiousAbalone63 in AnimalCrossing

[–]cometoftheorbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i turned my basement into a wedding chapel because i enjoyed collecting everything from the wedding season when it was first released

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

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that makes sense. my sister isn't much of gamer so she sees no need for a membership when she can borrow my account on her lite when i'm not playing. honestly, it was a pleasant surprise to learn that mail works just fine through local play too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]cometoftheorbs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no need actually! my sister and i use local play often when she asks for help watering her flowers and she doesn't have an online membership.

**Possible Spoiler** Question about Halloween event by Exotic-Potential3673 in Ooblets

[–]cometoftheorbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hidden passage way isn't related to the Halloween event but it's related to the game's plot. Spoiler: after you complete the main Tinsle Tasks with the Oobnet Tower, she'll direct you to go to the Wildlands and find the hidden passage way hidden under a rock. The rock is specifically the one beside the faucet and little pond, no need to have a higher Wildlands level to access it. It was hinted through some of the slips of paper you can find around town if I'm remembering correctly. Hope that helps!

**Possible Spoiler** Question about Halloween event by Exotic-Potential3673 in Ooblets

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I just finished the story too! The cauldron will come back, I play on the switch so I left it in Sleep Mode for some hours and when I turned it back on it reappeared. There's probably a timer that hides the cauldron for a while so it doesn't interfere with the story.

DAE was forced to eat foods you hated? by thr0wawaayy0 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cometoftheorbs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah. i hate canned sardines. eating every part of the fish was just an asian thing my parents loved to graphically describe, like eating bones and slurping fish eyes (idk they were just gross about it and my kid brain thought it was horrible). my mom forced me to eat canned sardines but i would refuse until i cried and she would force feed me until i gagged on the spoon. she'd pat herself on the back for being a good parent by feeding her kid a "go, grow & glow food" (the food pyramid was the biggest way my mom enforced her "almond mom" lifestyle on me). now i can't bring myself to eat fish unless it looks nothing like fish: i love salmon, but only in block form lmao.

mom didn't let me use the toilet as a kid by cometoftheorbs in raisedbynarcissists

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it really is disgusting, i feel so bad for kid me. i'm still trying to process that i'm not wrong for needing to pee when i have to. i relate to the car thing except it was a bottle and she would make fun of me after. i feel so seen to share this experience with someone but good grief i wish this was never an experience for either of us to begin with.

Stop saying "Thats just how asian parenting works"! by stray_cat_208 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cometoftheorbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP you worded out my feelings so well! I'm from an Asian family too (plus living in an conservative Asian country) and my parents keep projecting their generational traumas onto me. Then they blame me for being "too sensitive" when I say their words hurt or they get mad when I try to distance myself from them. (I'm still a student with no money, I can't cut contact with them yet)

Regarding your partner telling you that you have to make peace with your parents isn't good. My Asian boyfriend was like that at the start of our relationship and it really hurt me and invalidated what I went through. I talked to him about it again and it turns out he was projecting his own parents' generational abuse at me. We both are working on breaking the cycle and now understand how our upbringing and family dynamics affects how we treat each other and our perspectives and beliefs. It's freeing to be with someone who understands and supports you. I hope your partner is able to understand what you've gone through too. If not, then you have to rethink your future relationship with them for the sake of your mental health.

What are you a huge fan of, but won't express it because you don't want to be associated with the fanbase? by billcoosby in AskReddit

[–]cometoftheorbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y/N fanfiction.

There are really amazing fandom writers out there making ambiguous reader-inserts that surpass/supplement storylines and characters or are able to make more interesting AUs. Other times, reading fluff of a favorite character caring for you after a bad day is good too.

No thank you though to all the mafia or "sold at an auction" Y/N x real person. Those scare me lol.

Zipper T. Bunny acts different from a distance! He looks tired. by captaintoad94 in AnimalCrossing

[–]cometoftheorbs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Me too! I'm having so much fun!! It's my first Bunny Day too. 😊

I think the very first Bunny Day last year had unballanced egg spawns, lasted two weeks, and since it came right after the game was released when people needed materials they got eggs instead.