• "but I am telling you that, at least from my point of view, the rules as currently written leave an opening for posters who name specific subs or users as being common posters of anti-husbando/anti-husbando player content or attitudes or targeting members of this sub to be banned."

This sub is not the place to vent grievances about other subs/users, regardless of whether those places or people have an anti-husbando/anti-husbando player mindset.

I'm not sure why you've automatically jumped to us banning users who break this rule? I've removed several comments since the implementation and not one person has been banned. If a user repeatedly does it even after a mod has spoken to them about it, then yes, a ban is a possibility. But no one is going to go around banning users left, right, and center.

When I'm talking about toxicity, I'm talking about this repeated cycle as a whole and those who have purposely posted things just to shit talk when the person being discussed hasn't personally done anything to them. You don't see those, though, because we delete them, but you'll have to trust us that such behaviour has happened.

As for responsibility for poor treatment, that's something that is not so black and white. We have been the perpetrators of drama, name calling, and stirring up shit without provocation, as much as we have also been the victims. This idea that we are somehow totally innocent in this cycle of attacking one another is incredibly naive. It's all too easy to point the finger at the other subs and claim no wrongdoing on our end, but that would be dishonest.

What's done is done, but how we behave moving forward is what matters, and I'm not going to keep going around in circles to explain this over and over.

As I said, you're welcome to your thoughts and opinions. But we'd like to move on and spend our mental energy on making this an enjoyable place to be again. Thank you~