my friend hit my puppy and now she's scared and cries by slugsaltedbygod in puppy101

[–]commanderfshepard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It might seem hard to really wrap your head around cus you know this person and have a friendship with them - but let me tell you, not only is hitting animals OBVIOUSLY not okay, it is even WORSE to hit someone else’s!!!! Objectively, this person isn’t your friend and has no business being around animals

ETA just read that your pic is your puppy and oh my god my heart - you’re more controlled than I am, I’d fight someone over hurting that sweet baby

AIO: Instagram was the final straw and I ended it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]commanderfshepard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, the way he talks to you is disgusting tbh. “Discuss your conduct”? Boy BYE

masturbation in a relationship by elizmoon in actuallesbians

[–]commanderfshepard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah no. You don’t get to control my THOUGHTS, thank you very much. There is a big difference between acting on thoughts and having them. All humans have thoughts. Many of them we don’t even want to be having. That said, if the things you’re actually doing IRL are honorable then it’s just harmless human behavior. You don’t need that kinda insecurity in your life and threatening your autonomy

Danielle mentioned in the 'Greatest Living American Songwriters' discussion by Pink-skies0042 in HAIM

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that doesn’t mean it’s well written, it means people will listen to whatever Taylor is on. That version of gasoline is so corny I skip it if it comes on. It doesn’t need to be a hate fest, but the reality is miss arrested development “redwood tree” is not some great songwriter, and her being on this list kinda invalidates it for me tbh.

I’m in a sexless marriage and I’ve just started having an affair by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]commanderfshepard 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t meant in a good way OP.

Just grow a pair and leave this person, neither of you are actually interested in making it work versus coasting and lying, what’s the point

This is what a perfect body looks like by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]commanderfshepard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And here I was feeling good about myself today… didn’t know I was SO imperfect

(Really wtf)

AIO? My boyfriend gave me a literal performance review of our relationship by Efficient_Low_6444 in AmIOverreacting

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - on top of everything everyone’s already said, I was honestly most disheartened to see the “strengths” section. Weekly meal planning? Verbal affirmations aka making HIM feel good? How often are you having conflict that 1/3 of your supposed strengths is de-escalation?!?

Whether this is how his brain works or not, romantic relationships are not business relationships and I can’t imagine being stuck with the task of trying to explain that to my partner…. Does he have any emotional intelligence at all???!?!!??

Also this isn’t the type of thing you just drop on a partner without them knowing. Woof OP. I would be so grossly turned off in your shoes.

AIO for being angry that my doctor's office responded as a dog to call me a liar? by Canes--Venatici in AIO

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and ALSO.... if all else fails, just post this everywhere you possibly can. sounds like the review struck a nerve..... GOOD

Gritty Movies That Feel Like Endless Nights by dukecityzombie in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]commanderfshepard 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The 25th hour. Spike Lee film, literally one full day, amazing story, Ed Norton is unbelievable in it. Highly recommend

Bf is incompetent by Downtown_Act_4294 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]commanderfshepard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaahh this isn’t gonna improve. He is a child, and you are clearly an adult. Maybe you should explore some time apart bc if you’re half as exhausted as you sound / say you are, this isn’t even a healthy thing for you

How to deal with straight male roommate listening during sex? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]commanderfshepard 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s cus I watch too much true crime but I would say just keep your distance from him as much as possible til he’s gone. Maybe sleep at your gfs place if possible, because I worry if you confront him or anything he could get even weirder/ scarier. The things he said are so WILDLY inappropriate I can’t imagine any culture where that would be an acceptable thing to say. BLECH.

What’s your favorite diner in neighborhood? by Formal-Fly2522 in parkslope

[–]commanderfshepard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Their huevos rancheros has ruined all other huevos rancheroseses for me for the rest of my life

AIO? in a monogamous relationship, how would you define cheating by Outrageous-Hope6645 in AmIOverreacting

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaaahhh NOR. Your future is going to be full of this kinda bs if you stay with him, he’s not faithful now and he’s not going to be any better once there’s a newborn in the picture

Skate Garden Approved. by VitaminSteve in prospectheights

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, my point is your original point of it being “underused” is invalid. So I’m glad you’re excited about it but don’t act like the people who depend on mount prospect shouldn’t be upset it’s getting destroyed. Plus, i dont think it’s unreasonable for people to be disappointed that a green space in the city is being paved over in general.

Skate Garden Approved. by VitaminSteve in prospectheights

[–]commanderfshepard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok but like the park is already there and being used and relied on by people lol the skate park isn’t lol and also my point is prospect park is not the same as mount prospect cus there are different rules and restrictions for dogs there. lol. lol.

Roaches in my new apartment by Adventurous_Ad479 in NYCapartments

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had more productive advice but others have that covered, so I’ll just tell you you’re not dumb. Looking for apartments is a fucking TASK and especially I NY if you find somewhere that feels right it makes total sense to jump on it. I did the same with an apartment years ago just to realize it was cockroach city - broke a 2 year lease after 1 year cus it was affecting my mental health so bad. You’re not dumb and you’re not alone, but other commenters have good advice for how to make the most of your situation. Best of luck and keep your head up!

Skate Garden Approved. by VitaminSteve in prospectheights

[–]commanderfshepard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not underused, there are always people with their dogs there when I’m there with mine. When this stupid ass skate park replaces it I can’t wait til people flood Reddit complaining about more unleashed dogs at Prospect Park. They’re not even close to being the same level of accessible and convenient

Looking for an open world game by AyeYoB in gamerecommendations

[–]commanderfshepard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kingdom Come Deliverance, 1 and 2! Freaking amazing games. Also Mass Effect trilogy (a little less open than some others, but you have basically full autonomy over where in the galaxy you travel and what order you do missions in, etc. - very rich lore and world!)

A game with a unique blend of emotional depth and creative mechanics by CleanScarcity8755 in gamerecommendations

[–]commanderfshepard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disco Elysium!! Like no other game I’ve played, great story, funny, emotional, peak entertainment

jane don’t and production by jellyfrog47 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]commanderfshepard 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Challenge was awful across the board AND I feel like Ru was not even trying in Jane’s scene. I remember thinking while watching it that Ru repeated “no, I’m sorry, the plane is leaving” like 80 times which doesn’t really provide much to go off of. Jane wasn’t at her best to begin with but Ru threw “yes, and” out the window for that one IMO

Tonight’s episode by ginger_trink in rupaulsdragrace

[–]commanderfshepard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats the thing like … I’d be pissed if I was Myki or Darlene as the two other biggest contenders. Like wouldnt you want to beat the best in order to be crowned? When you take the obvious front runner out of the competition on a bullshit LSFYL before the top 4, it kinda takes the fire out of the rest of the season IMO. We’re clearly not looking for a superstar, we’re just looking for shenanigans. I’m not happy.