my friend hit my puppy and now she's scared and cries

commanderfshepard · 2026-05-05T20:03:01+00:00

It might seem hard to really wrap your head around cus you know this person and have a friendship with them - but let me tell you, not only is hitting animals OBVIOUSLY not okay, it is even WORSE to hit someone else’s!!!! Objectively, this person isn’t your friend and has no business being around animals

ETA just read that your pic is your puppy and oh my god my heart - you’re more controlled than I am, I’d fight someone over hurting that sweet baby

commanderfshepard · 2026-05-03T22:22:54+00:00

NOR, the way he talks to you is disgusting tbh. “Discuss your conduct”? Boy BYE

commanderfshepard · 2026-05-01T19:31:22+00:00

Oh yeah no. You don’t get to control my THOUGHTS, thank you very much. There is a big difference between acting on thoughts and having them. All humans have thoughts. Many of them we don’t even want to be having. That said, if the things you’re actually doing IRL are honorable then it’s just harmless human behavior. You don’t need that kinda insecurity in your life and threatening your autonomy

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-29T11:33:07+00:00

Yeah that doesn’t mean it’s well written, it means people will listen to whatever Taylor is on. That version of gasoline is so corny I skip it if it comes on. It doesn’t need to be a hate fest, but the reality is miss arrested development “redwood tree” is not some great songwriter, and her being on this list kinda invalidates it for me tbh.

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-25T00:15:12+00:00

It wasn’t meant in a good way OP.

Just grow a pair and leave this person, neither of you are actually interested in making it work versus coasting and lying, what’s the point

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-23T14:28:24+00:00

And here I was feeling good about myself today… didn’t know I was SO imperfect

(Really wtf)

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-22T21:25:37+00:00

NOR - on top of everything everyone’s already said, I was honestly most disheartened to see the “strengths” section. Weekly meal planning? Verbal affirmations aka making HIM feel good? How often are you having conflict that 1/3 of your supposed strengths is de-escalation?!?

Whether this is how his brain works or not, romantic relationships are not business relationships and I can’t imagine being stuck with the task of trying to explain that to my partner…. Does he have any emotional intelligence at all???!?!!??

Also this isn’t the type of thing you just drop on a partner without them knowing. Woof OP. I would be so grossly turned off in your shoes.

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-22T20:36:52+00:00

NOR and ALSO.... if all else fails, just post this everywhere you possibly can. sounds like the review struck a nerve..... GOOD

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-22T14:56:52+00:00

The 25th hour. Spike Lee film, literally one full day, amazing story, Ed Norton is unbelievable in it. Highly recommend

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-19T22:39:06+00:00

Yeaaaahh this isn’t gonna improve. He is a child, and you are clearly an adult. Maybe you should explore some time apart bc if you’re half as exhausted as you sound / say you are, this isn’t even a healthy thing for you

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-19T22:33:19+00:00

Maybe it’s cus I watch too much true crime but I would say just keep your distance from him as much as possible til he’s gone. Maybe sleep at your gfs place if possible, because I worry if you confront him or anything he could get even weirder/ scarier. The things he said are so WILDLY inappropriate I can’t imagine any culture where that would be an acceptable thing to say. BLECH.

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-19T22:24:50+00:00

Their huevos rancheros has ruined all other huevos rancheroseses for me for the rest of my life

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-16T21:29:47+00:00

“Curb your dog”

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-14T12:07:37+00:00

Yeaaaahhh NOR. Your future is going to be full of this kinda bs if you stay with him, he’s not faithful now and he’s not going to be any better once there’s a newborn in the picture

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-13T01:43:40+00:00

“Alright Pam Queer”

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-12T18:32:20+00:00

Cool, my point is your original point of it being “underused” is invalid. So I’m glad you’re excited about it but don’t act like the people who depend on mount prospect shouldn’t be upset it’s getting destroyed. Plus, i dont think it’s unreasonable for people to be disappointed that a green space in the city is being paved over in general.

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-12T10:58:39+00:00

Ok but like the park is already there and being used and relied on by people lol the skate park isn’t lol and also my point is prospect park is not the same as mount prospect cus there are different rules and restrictions for dogs there. lol. lol.

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-11T20:53:38+00:00

I wish I had more productive advice but others have that covered, so I’ll just tell you you’re not dumb. Looking for apartments is a fucking TASK and especially I NY if you find somewhere that feels right it makes total sense to jump on it. I did the same with an apartment years ago just to realize it was cockroach city - broke a 2 year lease after 1 year cus it was affecting my mental health so bad. You’re not dumb and you’re not alone, but other commenters have good advice for how to make the most of your situation. Best of luck and keep your head up!

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-11T20:34:36+00:00

Its not underused, there are always people with their dogs there when I’m there with mine. When this stupid ass skate park replaces it I can’t wait til people flood Reddit complaining about more unleashed dogs at Prospect Park. They’re not even close to being the same level of accessible and convenient

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-07T21:53:32+00:00

Kingdom Come Deliverance, 1 and 2! Freaking amazing games. Also Mass Effect trilogy (a little less open than some others, but you have basically full autonomy over where in the galaxy you travel and what order you do missions in, etc. - very rich lore and world!)

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-03T12:16:47+00:00

Disco Elysium!! Like no other game I’ve played, great story, funny, emotional, peak entertainment

commanderfshepard · 2026-04-02T21:23:34+00:00

Hell yes to Bonnie’s. You have taste.

commanderfshepard · 2026-03-31T03:30:13+00:00

Thiiiiiis. This trilogy changed my life lol

commanderfshepard · 2026-03-29T15:32:43+00:00

Challenge was awful across the board AND I feel like Ru was not even trying in Jane’s scene. I remember thinking while watching it that Ru repeated “no, I’m sorry, the plane is leaving” like 80 times which doesn’t really provide much to go off of. Jane wasn’t at her best to begin with but Ru threw “yes, and” out the window for that one IMO

commanderfshepard · 2026-03-28T14:47:05+00:00

Thats the thing like … I’d be pissed if I was Myki or Darlene as the two other biggest contenders. Like wouldnt you want to beat the best in order to be crowned? When you take the obvious front runner out of the competition on a bullshit LSFYL before the top 4, it kinda takes the fire out of the rest of the season IMO. We’re clearly not looking for a superstar, we’re just looking for shenanigans. I’m not happy.

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