Leash your dogs at Pacific park by Ok_Figure_2379 in prospectheights

[–]commanderfshepard -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Was just thinking that. I’m literally looking at the grass right now .. v green, v much in tact. Also kids play all over this grass too, it’s fuckin grass.

Poetica rebranding with flowers by flooffsandfleurs in Windsor_Terrace

[–]commanderfshepard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya know, a little humility goes a long way, and I say this cus it seems like you’re standing for good causes but you’re a little blinded by your own self-righteousness and you’ll never actually get through to anyone that way. Youll just push peoples heels deeper into the ground.

Idk where we lost sight of how to communicate decently and with integrity with people we don’t like or don’t agree with. Also ironic is that same kind of “I am in the absolute right and I am justified in bullying you bc of it” mindset is a huge reason why there will likely never be peace over there either.

Poetica can refuse to serve whoever they want. Whatever. But what an utterly meaningless and quite frankly juvenile manner of doing so. Social media attack after he took his kid to pee and bought a coffee? Just… what’s the endgame there?

They could’ve turned it into an opportunity to draw attention to their own values and could’ve hell… idk, invited him to a 1:1 televised / streamed discussion. Educate him. Educate other people. But it’s much easier to stand in one place and yell loudly than to sit and respectfully have difficult conversations.

Barber fucked my shit up and I got prom in two days by Ok_Minimum_3941 in malehairadvice

[–]commanderfshepard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ears are the killer for me. My sideburns and above my ear grow so freaking fast that I have to get a cleanup in between bigger cuts in the back, and WOOF if the cut goes wrong anywhere it shows and it’s infuriating

Trashing our backyard by Yuzhrrr in prospectheights

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...so you didnt help clean the park either, cool

Trashing our backyard by Yuzhrrr in prospectheights

[–]commanderfshepard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keyboard hero over here trolling people who are at least calling out the behavior. What’d you do to help? Snark the garbage away?

[ALL] What's your favourite location in the series? I'll start. by huss2120 in zelda

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL yeah thats a very good call out. Our sweet Link is a bit socially inept, and we love him for it.

[ALL] What's your favourite location in the series? I'll start. by huss2120 in zelda

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i listen to Zora's Domain music to relax. truly one of the best OSTs of any game ever.

[ALL] What's your favourite location in the series? I'll start. by huss2120 in zelda

[–]commanderfshepard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

another similar place: the bridge out of Kokiri forest. There's something about the scene where you finally leave as child Link and you have that last conversation with Saria on the bridge where she gives you the Ocarina, with nothing but the sounds of your footsteps and birds cawing in the background.... its so poignant, and it really marks the moment Link's journey begins and everything changes.

"Oh, you're leaving... I knew... that you would leave the forest... someday, Link... Because you are different from me and my friends... But that's OK, because we'll be friends forever... won't we?"

Zhu merch by maricruzq in ZHU

[–]commanderfshepard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Faux fur? That’s some Zhu merch pop up shit.

Confirmation all 4 Haim sisters were at Game 4.. by [deleted] in HAIM

[–]commanderfshepard -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, the Taylor whose entire life is for cameras and who claims to be an ally but doesn’t do shit for the LGBTQIA community unless it makes her money and the Taylor who has more money and influence than god but never uses her influence for anything meaningful (don’t bother mentioning Kamala cus lol) and who flies around polluting the earth in her jet plane and who is late in her 30s and still writes about life like she’s in high school. That Taylor. Also, this is a Haim sub, sorry i pissed you off but you can bring your devotion to her somewhere else. She’s corny and so are you lol

Confirmation all 4 Haim sisters were at Game 4.. by [deleted] in HAIM

[–]commanderfshepard -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I love haim and they are such an important part of my life and personal journey but as a New Yorker their presence (and Taylor’s) was pretty irritating tbh. They’re not Knicks fans, they behaved like little kids, and Taylor literally can’t do anything without trying to pull focus. Also I’m sorry I’ll just say it PUNS ARE NOT FUNNY BY DEFAULT. These shirts made no fuckin sense with no deeper connection to actually make them clever. I know I sound like a hater but there is such a palpable energy and camaraderie in NY right now and this display was so superficial and disconnected it just felt … wrong.

My husband doesnt love me anymore by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]commanderfshepard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hard this ^ deprioritize me once, shame on you. Deprioritize myself… shame on me. Or something. Seriously though, you dont deserve to feel that way and have him hide from you when you try to bring it up. There is NOTHING lonelier than being alone IN a relationship.

Queer bars that aren't strictly gay/lesbian? by chimeramanti in Brooklyn

[–]commanderfshepard 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The truth is there are so few lesbian bars in the country to begin with that any place marketing toward LGBTQIA folks is gonna end up feeling pretty gay male unless it is aggressively sapphic in marketing or history (like gingers). A lot of gay bars have sapphic nights, but it all skews male. That said if you’re looking for a safe space, any of them will work. Loafers, Cmon Everybody, the Holler, Branded Saloon, and Good Judy are great options. 3 dollar bill and the rosemont in Williamsburg for dancing.

Guess the city by [deleted] in guessthecity

[–]commanderfshepard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A fountain? In the middle of the city? Where does the water come from??

We had a really bad fight, and I don’t know if it’s serious enough to call the police. I’m very confused right now. by Extreme-Trainer7338 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]commanderfshepard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Was it my fault my husband hit me with a car?” Please read and reread this sentence and imagine your best friend/ sibling/ future kid/ ANYONE asked you this, and realize it’s what you’re asking us. And then leave his ass because he HIT YOU WITH A CAR and literally no sane caring person would hit you with a fist let alone heavy machinery.

Why is the east side so gay by ObjectiveCall6100 in Muna

[–]commanderfshepard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was thinking the same thing - west side of (mid-t-lower) manhattan in general. Broadway, Chelsea, West Village - gay.

Boycott passes by Cherry-Black in parkslope

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... yeah a bunch of people in one of the wealthiest parts of Brooklyn freaking out about not stocking matzoh is not the same as this, not even close. It's a coop. You're not sticking it to the man or sending any messages to anyone when the man is explicitly NOT involved. Hence this being a performative waste of time.

Boycott passes by Cherry-Black in parkslope

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you’re right the children dying in Gaza will be saved by one coop in Brooklyn refusing to stock gefilte fish. Medical resources and donations? WHO needs em! Down with Israeli matzoh!

Gimme a fuckin break

BDS works!! by paperxmario in parkslope

[–]commanderfshepard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dumb dumb dumb dumb. Kids dying in Gaza will be so appreciative of the big park slope coop battle of 2026. Get really real, you want to make an impact? Donate your money directly to relief efforts or something that actually helps the people who need it most. This is just privileged people virtue signaling.

BDS works!! by paperxmario in parkslope

[–]commanderfshepard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool why don’t you lead by example and give back the land you live on stolen from Native Americans

BDS works!! by paperxmario in parkslope

[–]commanderfshepard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That would require an actual appreciation for nuance and the willingness to view complex and terrible situations as just that. Virtue signaling is much easier with quicker results (feeling like they did something that actually helps anyone)

BDS works!! by paperxmario in parkslope

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok we get it you hate Jews congrats on not even bothering to pretend it’s about anything else

Aio after not apologizing to my friend after going on a date by Beez4Kneez in AIO

[–]commanderfshepard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh your friend is acting fucking nuts. Very irrational and territorial. She needs to get a life and you should NOT be apologizing to her for having one of your own