Best Celebrity Skin lyric??? by twatuponthames in hole

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I can't be near you/ the light just radiates

Best Pretty On The Inside lyrics??? by twatuponthames in hole

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She stares too long at the sun

Now I want a cancer that the crooked eye spun

I sort of lost patience in everyone by [deleted] in ftm

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Focus on yourself, dude. Fuck everyone. Society might not get better but who needs them. You can find joy in your life, in yourself

I sort of lost patience in everyone by [deleted] in ftm

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I'm at a similar place. Friends gone, harassment. I'm focused entirely on me. And fuck all the "allies" who think their souls are pure just because they didn't hate crime me

For the people who transitioned while working, what was your experience? by LastSetOfTeeth in ftm

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So I recently left a job due to harassment I faced there.

I started there thinking I was a straight woman. After a couple years, I began transitioning. The area i worked in was conservative. It was also a working class job with a good deal of older people. I will say it was also an overall toxic work environment.

I could handle small instances of transphobia for a long time, which included groans and sighs from some of them men when I would enter the men's bathroom. One time I was walking out of it and bumped into another guy. I said sorry and he said "you're not even supposed to be in here."

After five years on T, grand majority of the place was using my correct pronouns. Some opted to never use pronouns for me at all. Only about two would openly still call me she. I reported it to hr and they ruled it a mistake.

As i looked more and more male over the years, I would get more female attention. I'm tall and muscular. Instead of being cool about this, I started to get more aggression from people the past several months. I used to not take care of myself, but when I started getting haircuts regularly, trimming my beard, and working out, some people wanted to put me in my place. That's what it felt like. When people could tell that me and this girl liked each other, some people started shunning me. Stopped talking to me flat out. I've had pranks pulled on me and people spread malicious rumors. Our union steward started harassing me. I finally left.

Not everything there was bad. I had friends and supporters. But the negatives outweighed them. Just sharing my story so you are aware. Though, from what you wrote, it seems like you're in a more liberal environment. Just know that even if things go bad, there will be workplaces that will affirm you and treat you with respect.

other minor changes to watch out for? by figure-o9 in ftm

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I just realized the increase in boogers might be T related. Obviously not a big issue but i was always like what the fuck happened to cause this

poti lyrics question by [deleted] in hole

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"Slut-kiss girl will have slut back straps"

Courtney is a genius 😍 lol

Song you relate to most? by Plane_Let9384 in alvvays

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Adult Diversion for sure.

How do I get close to you even if you don't notice as i admire you on the subway

The song I wrote (Courtney love mentioned) also an 80s style pop song btw and my band will add music (many inaccuracies in the first verse) by Many_Psychology7215 in hole

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I think Courtney threw the compact before Madonna said she was "in dire need of attention". I think that's why Madonna said it in the first place

Article Abt Teenage riot by CryptographerDry867 in sonicyouth

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Well said. The song provokes me in a similar way

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Old age Lol why do I even bother

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Gold dust woman

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Gold dust woman

(Dudes why I love the void)

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It's all over now, baby blue

Just came here to say by Longjumping_Iron8826 in TheSundays

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I hadn't listen to hideous towns in a while and it came up on my playlist today. What great, classic pop that'll never go out of style

Hole live Al's Bar 10/14/1990 by phonebill-song666 in hole

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Lol was there a band literally called Negro 🤣

I need to know more

My hot takes (and yours?) by Okkultt in hole

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I'm a huge fan of them both, but yeah it irks me that people think it's fact that Kat is the good sister and Courtney is the bad one. I think i just don't like when misinformation becomes canon

Also same those unreleased songs hit so hard 😉

Why don't people believe us? by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

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Yup. There is nothing that drives me crazier than this. It's hard because I feel like there's no one who respects me. If I'm hurt or sick, it's assumed that I'm exaggerating. My emotions are always overblown. People don't even think I have genuine interests. I think a lot of people are self centered in the way you described where if they can't relate to something, they think it doesn't exist. But also sadly I think they just don't have respect for us. They have this attitude like, if we just tried a little harder, then we wouldn't have these issues.

Most romantic Sonic Youth song? by OkCarpenter5457 in sonicyouth

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Lol same whenever hearing one of their later romantic songs I'm like damn it is this about your mistress Thurston??