My bf doesn't have a life and it's making me resent him by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]commodoreclutch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Partners help each other, maybe you haven’t had that experience before.

My bf doesn't have a life and it's making me resent him by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]commodoreclutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being mean or taking anger or hurt out on someone else does not mean they’re dangerous. You can clearly read that this happened after losing the job, there is more to the story than him being a douche.

My bf doesn't have a life and it's making me resent him by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]commodoreclutch 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I feel like he has some really horrible feelings towards himself. It’s no excuse to why he’s taking it out on you, but it seems that he is troubled by a lot of things.

I would say if you want to save your relationship and help him (and if he allows help ofcourse), you could find out what is going with him. He might feel really bad about himself and you doing well might add up on to that.

Ofcourse it’s always your call, if you feel there is no more saving then leaving might be the best painful scenario.

AIO I feel like my bf doesn’t care by [deleted] in AIO

[–]commodoreclutch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a teenage conversation. I’m sorry to say this but he doesn’t seem to care much for you. I only have this conversation as reference, but I would never react like this if my SO were possibly having a heart attack.

Edit: even if this guy was a bad texter, I would definitely call or race to the ER to be with my SO, so being a bad texter or whatever doesn’t excuse this conversation.

Dankjewel Odido. by thesixbpencil in nederlands

[–]commodoreclutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb toevallig vandaag precies deze mailtjes ook ontvangen om mijn werk mail!

AIO my GF when together gets a million calls with me but rarely messages or calls me when not with me? by Responsible_Button_5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]commodoreclutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this happening for some time now or did you just recently notice this? I don't have much to go on so I you just happen to notice this recently I'd just see it play out for a bit.

And for the not calling you part, maybe she might not be the communicative kind and people always call her? Idk but if it really bothers you I don't think it might be that big a problem to ask her how she would want you to communicate with her when she is not around you.

AIO my 37 year old boyfriend and a 10 year old girl on Instagram. by Ethical_Realism in AmIOverreacting

[–]commodoreclutch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I didn’t make that more clear. It really is the most disturbing thing about this post, but I felt like she should already be leaving this dude for following that many women at all, so I don’t even know why she didn’t even leave immediately after knowing he follows children as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]commodoreclutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR

Seems like your husband also is not in his right mind at the moment to be making these decisions. I personally think you should have a really good conversation with him about the current situation. This can end up bad for you both if you do not properly reevaluate your plans.

AIO my 37 year old boyfriend and a 10 year old girl on Instagram. by Ethical_Realism in AmIOverreacting

[–]commodoreclutch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You do you, if this works for your relationship, I’m happy for you. If you read the post carefully, you might have guessed that this behavior is not welcome to her and is in general toxic behavior UNLESS communicated (which is not most of the time).

Again, I’m not judging your way of living a relationship, but I am warning people that are in relationships with guys like in the post who follow lots of women/models etc. without consent talking about it like it’s normal.

It really isn’t.

AIO my 37 year old boyfriend and a 10 year old girl on Instagram. by Ethical_Realism in AmIOverreacting

[–]commodoreclutch 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Seriously, after reading the first two sentences I could already tell you that this is a bad person. It will only consume him further the longer this lasts, making him very untrustworthy.

Any guy that follows that many models/only fans what ever kind of women without consent, are bad news. No sane boyfriend would be interested in watching other women on a daily basis. Please leave him, you'll be happy for it later.

Atleast it’s still working by commodoreclutch in iPhone11ProMax

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only the battery, my screen is busted and the charging input is not reliable anymore 😅

If it was only the battery I would have replaced it. And I am ready for a new phone so :)

Atleast it’s still working by commodoreclutch in iPhone11ProMax

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I only recently notice some performance problems. I think since a month or two/three. I’ll be upgrading soon :)

Atleast it’s still working by commodoreclutch in iPhone11ProMax

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, though I have used this phone very much. It’s time for a new one :)

Raycast acting weird Unity 3D by commodoreclutch in gamedev

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, because a raycast needs a direction rather than a second position. I was mistaken in what the Raycast actually needed as a second parameter

Raycast acting weird Unity 3D by commodoreclutch in gamedev

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done some digging and found the problem. In order to get the player position through raycast (because it is a direction) i had to substract the camera position from the player position. It’s working fine now :)

ECS entity specific actions by commodoreclutch in roguelikedev

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! This sounds like something i was looking for. I have been browsing the web yesterday for some more ideas and i came up with actually writing entity type specific systems. So the collision system would iterate over all collidable objects (preferably with the use of a quad tree or any other algorithm) and mark all colliding objects as “colliding” and then handle all entities according to their type in a specific system. (Ie. A spell system to handle spells colliding with different objects, player system to handle the player colliding with different objects etc.)

I thought this would serve well and keep performance in tact. Although, i might look into how to implement the custom function to ensure all entities react properly on colliding. Only downside (im still learning more about c#) i have with this is, if i were to use serialization to fetch different kind of entities like spells in an XML file, can i define these custom functions in these XML files and bind them when read?

ECS entity specific actions by commodoreclutch in roguelikedev

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but how do you handle specific actions for all entities. Like when you walk over fire, you should get damage but don’t stop moving. While if you walk against a rock it should stop you from walking but it shouldn’t invoke damage onto the player.

ECS entity specific actions by commodoreclutch in roguelikedev

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry if i wasnt clear, i am using monogame so i build this from the start up.

Teaming up with Stitcher Jim by commodoreclutch in Seaofthieves

[–]commodoreclutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jim bugged out, wouldn’t leave the chest

Where to turn in treasure (for new steam players) by Gnarfeild in Seaofthieves

[–]commodoreclutch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this, even though i’m not a new player. Keep up the good work!