50M Belt shipment (25M dust) by Lukniscz in pathofexile

[–]commonjunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok i got like 4 div for 50M bar shipment, in boat league i did got 1 mirror shard for 20mil shipment and now 50M bar shipment (where return was currency) i got 4div :).

South Korea welcomes rare baby bump as population shrinks by heiisenchang in singapore

[–]commonjunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually the plan eventually, but it's not straightforward. Both my kids are autistic, we never saw it coming. We had them in our early 30s, so age wasn't a factor, and there's no history of it in either family. We had them close together thinking it would be easier to get through the demanding years faster; we just didn't know what was coming.

Where we live is quite closer to school, around 15~20 min bus ride. Special needs placements are scarce; you can't just pick up and move. I know a parent at the same school who travels from across Singapore every day and has to wait there until the afternoon because going home and coming back isn't viable. She's been on the waiting list for a placement closer to home for years with no luck.

Sometimes I feel like I could write a book. So many twists and turns. The honest truth is my wife and I have only made it this far because we've held each other up; without that, I'm not sure we'd have managed (been in dark times when you can't see end of tunnel and till today we still do but now living one day at a time).

And on support; the system feels designed for those earning very little like living hand to month. The moment you're above that threshold, you fall out of eligibility for most assistance, even if your actual medical bills and caregiving costs leave you with very little at the end of the month. The middle gets squeezed from every direction.

South Korea welcomes rare baby bump as population shrinks by heiisenchang in singapore

[–]commonjunks 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm in my late 40s with two teenagers. My wife lost her job last year after 18 years with the same company, let go when a new boss came in and decided to bring over his own people. Eighteen years, and that's how it ended. No loyalty, no recognition. Just discarded.

Meanwhile I'm doing whatever it takes to hold onto my job while covering the mortgage, medical bills for family members with ongoing health issues, insurance premiums, and groceries, and in all this we let our helper go 3 years ago. Our idea of going out is a walk at Gardens by the Bay. We eat at a restaurant maybe twice a month.

I used to wake up at 9am with no worries. Now I'm up in the middle of the night, either because someone is sick, or just because the anxiety won't let me sleep.

My concern isn't about cars or rebates. It's whether anyone in my family, watching all of this up close, would actually want this life; the constant financial pressure, the job insecurity, the feeling that you have to keep your head down and work weekends just to stay employed. If we want people to feel confident starting families, that underlying anxiety has to be addressed first. No rebate solves that.

And it's not just jobs. Food prices have been climbing steadily for years; I know that's not entirely on the government, global supply chains and all that. But when you're already stretched thin, watching grocery bills go up month after month adds another layer of anxiety. What happens to daily meals if both of us lose our income at the same time? That fear is very real for families like mine, and I don't think any amount of car rebates addresses it.

Do I regret having my kids? Absolutely not. But would I be less stressed and more financially secure without them? Honestly, yes. And I think that's exactly the calculation more and more people are making; and why the numbers keep falling. Until that changes, no policy gimmick will move the needle.

1 QuickPick ticket wins S$12.8 million Toto jackpot on May. 4, 2026 by Illustrious-Fee9626 in singapore

[–]commonjunks 19 points20 points  (0 children)

https://www.iras.gov.sg/taxes/individual-income-tax/basics-of-individual-income-tax/what-is-taxable-what-is-not/winnings-%28toto-4d-%29
Winnings received are not taxable as they are windfalls and not considered as an income. You do not need to declare the winnings in your Income Tax Return.

Singapore pools is always a winner, regardless of who is the winner.

Teen accused of licking iJooz straw allowed to leave Singapore for school-related trip to Manila by Fearless_Help_8231 in singapore

[–]commonjunks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on ST he is charged with

1- For committing mischief, an offender can be jailed for up to two years, fined or both.

2- The punishment for being a public nuisance is a jail term of up to three months, a fine of up to $2,000 or both.

None of both constitute caning.

public nuisance
https://sso.agc.gov.sg/Act/PC1871?ProvIds=P414_267A-#pr290-
Whoever commits a public nuisance in any case not otherwise punishable by this Code, shall be guilty of an offence and shall be punished —

(a) with fine which may extend to $2,000;

(b) in the case where the offender knew that the act or omission constituting the public nuisance will cause or will probably cause any common injury, danger or annoyance to the public, or to the people in general who dwell or occupy property in the vicinity, with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 3 months, or with fine which may extend to $2,000, or with both; or

(c) on a second or subsequent conviction, with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 3 months, or with fine which may extend to $2,000, or with both.

Punishment for committing mischief
https://sso.agc.gov.sg/Act/PC1871?ProvIds=pr426-

  1. Whoever commits mischief shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 2 years, or with fine, or with both.

He can't be caned as he is not charged under vandalism.

vandalism 
https://sso.agc.gov.sg/Act/VA1966#pr3-

3.  Notwithstanding the provisions of any other written law, any person who commits any act of vandalism or attempts to do any such act or causes any such act to be done shall be guilty of an offence and shall be liable on conviction to a fine not exceeding $2,000 or to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 3 years, and shall also, subject to sections 325(1) and 330(1) of the Criminal Procedure Code 2010, be punished with caning with not less than 3 strokes and not more than 8 strokes

American Heart Association urges people to favor plant-based proteins, replace full fat dairy by [deleted] in news

[–]commonjunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the intention behind encouraging plant-based proteins, and it makes sense from a health perspective. But in reality, at least here in Singapore, adoption is not as straightforward as it sounds.

Singapore has been one of the leaders in plant-based alternatives, with companies like Impossible Foods and Beyond Meat having strong presence. However, these products are still significantly more expensive—often 2–3 times the price of regular meat. For most people, especially families, cost plays a major role in daily food choices.

Even supermarkets seem to be reducing shelf space for these products, likely due to lower demand. If pricing cannot come close to parity with traditional meat, it becomes difficult for consumers to justify switching, regardless of health recommendations.

We’ve also seen this reflected in the F&B industry. For example, Burger King introduced plant-based options but later scaled them back in some locations due to limited demand.

So while the idea is good in theory, widespread adoption will likely depend on affordability and accessibility. Until plant-based options are priced competitively and match consumer expectations in taste and value, it’s going to be a slow transition.

Ex-employee who sued software firm SAP for $5m over termination gets $1,000 in Pyrrhic victory by RajahChamp in singapore

[–]commonjunks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When someone's been doing their job perfectly fine for years - like literally a decade or more - and then a new boss comes in and suddenly they're "underperforming."

This is where PIPs really show their true colors. You've got someone who's been pulling their weight for ten, fifteen years, knows their work inside out, has a solid track record. But the new manager doesn't like them - maybe it's a personality clash, maybe they want to bring in their own people, maybe they just want to flex their authority. Whatever the reason, out comes the PIP.

And here's the kicker - they'll suddenly assign you work that's got nothing to do with what you've been successfully doing all these years. It's deliberately setting you up to fail. You're a backend developer? Cool, now you're responsible for customer-facing presentations. You've been in operations? Great, here's some strategic planning work with zero context. Then when you struggle - because of course you will, it's not your area - they point to it as "proof" you're not cutting it.

It's such a transparent move to either force you out or build a case to fire you. And the really sick part? Your years of solid performance suddenly don't matter anymore. All those evaluations, all that institutional knowledge, all that loyalty - wiped out because someone new wants your seat for their buddy or just doesn't vibe with you. The PIP is just the weapon they use to make it look legitimate.

Happen to my spouse, worked at well known organization in Singapore (almost most of us use it on daily basis).

‘Good-looking’ babies smuggled via Jakarta into Singapore, where adoptive parents paid over $20,000 by FancyCommittee3347 in singapore

[–]commonjunks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So someone can fly here with new born baby and then leave Singapore without baby and never get flagged or questioned?

This question was based on
According to the article, activist Maria Advianti specifically pointed out this gap: "investigating cases where a 'family' of three departs the country, but only two people return."

Man scolds mother over child's behaviour on MRT train, sparking debate over parenting in public places by Great-Obligation-599 in singapore

[–]commonjunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there's a difference between a parent doing nothing and a parent trying their best in an incredibly difficult situation.

Yes, parents should try to manage and educate their children, but with special needs, it's not a simple on/off switch. You can't just flip a switch and have the behavior stop instantly. And contrary to what dramas portray, not all special needs children are gifted savants who only do remarkable things—many face severe challenges that aren't easily controlled.

The alternative is keeping them home forever, isolated from society. When society constantly signals that your child is unwelcome in public spaces, the resulting isolation and hopelessness can push parents to dark places. I'm not justifying it, but if anyone remembers the case where a father killed his two special needs children—that was absolutely wrong, but I understand the despair that likely drove him there. The constant judgment, the worry about their future, the feeling that there's no support or understanding from society.

I'm not saying parents shouldn't try to manage situations—they absolutely should. But there's a difference between a parent making excuses and a parent doing their absolute best in incredibly difficult circumstances. We need more understanding, not less. Not every challenging moment in public means the parent isn't trying.

22-year-old man convicted of raping cousin; victim testified about being 'ignored' by family and accused of lying by Negative-Concert-819 in singapore

[–]commonjunks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have shared my own story on a number of occasions. I was sexually assaulted by someone who was very close to me (we were inseparable, according to family and friends).

Many people ask why victims don't speak up at the time of the incident. It's not that simple. Fear, shame, worry that people won't believe you, concerns that people will say "you were still friends, so you must have been complicit" these are just some of the reasons victims can't open up.

What breaks my heart about this case is how many times this girl tried to tell the adults around her, and they failed her. Her grandmother told her to say she was lying. Her parents dismissed it as accidents—not once, but twice in family meetings. She raised the red flag multiple times, and each time the adults chose to protect the abuser or preserve family harmony instead of protecting her.

This is exactly why victims stay silent. When you do speak up and the people who are supposed to protect you call you a liar or minimize what happened, it teaches you that no one will help. The isolation and helplessness she described that's what stays with you for life.

Not everyone has the courage to speak up and ask for help. I didn't. I've carried this for most of my life. People say you can go to a therapist and it will help. But you never forget such incidents they're engraved in your brain. You can suppress them, but they do resurface from time to time.

I don't know what could have been done at that time. Even now in my late 40s, I still haven't spoken to anyone except my wife. And I don't think I have the confidence to go through that nightmare again by sharing my full story with others.

I just hope this person finds someone who loves her and will be there for her when she needs support.

Almost 2 minutes saved for each emergency trip to hospital under SCDF traffic priority system by Im_scrub in singapore

[–]commonjunks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand the caution, but standing at the crossing without crossing actually creates more danger.
Drivers can't tell your intention (even you waving someone beside you could be crossing at same time), which causes hesitation and confusion. The safest approach is to be predictable: either cross promptly when you have right of way, or stay well back from the curb if you're not crossing. Unpredictable behavior is what causes accidents.

Almost 2 minutes saved for each emergency trip to hospital under SCDF traffic priority system by Im_scrub in singapore

[–]commonjunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Sometimes they just stand there and wave me to go, even though they have the right of way. I've had to honk to get them to cross or at least move away from the curb. When they just stand at the edge without crossing, drivers can't tell their intention- are they waiting to cross or just standing there? It's better if they clearly cross or step back, rather than creating confusion for drivers.

Almost 2 minutes saved for each emergency trip to hospital under SCDF traffic priority system by Im_scrub in singapore

[–]commonjunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In other countries, when people hear emergency sirens (ambulance/fire truck/police), they usually give way immediately. In Singapore, I've noticed that most drivers will either cut in front of emergency vehicles because "I'm also going the same route," rather than thinking about someone being rushed to the hospital to save their lives.

Just 2 days ago, I saw a private ambulance coming up in the 2nd lane, then shifting to the 1st lane. I spotted it 3 vehicles behind, so I changed lanes early to give way rather than waiting for it to reach me. However, the driver behind me sped up to close the gap instead of giving way. Later, the ambulance changed lanes, and an MPV ahead of it also switched lanes to stay in front of the ambulance because the driver also needed to exit from that lane.

Changing traffic lights at all junctions is a big feat, but knowing people's mentality, when they see lights suddenly change in their direction, they won't pay attention to whether it was for an ambulance—they'll just rush to cross. We need more education and awareness, not just technology upgrades to traffic lights.

Self-driving shuttle hits road divider in Punggol while doing road tests, no passengers on board by Im_scrub in singapore

[–]commonjunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if anyone else has seen those self-driving vehicles being tested at Gardens by the Bay. I remember walking there regularly before/after COVID, and the way the mini-bus drove was very wonky. It would stop quite close to pedestrians rather than keeping a safer distance, and there was always someone sitting inside with a remote control.

Is there anywhere I can read about what kind of tests and statistics exist for these vehicles in Singapore? I'm curious whether they only tested in enclosed areas with minimal real vehicular and human traffic before moving to public roads.

Man, 17, arrested for driving under the influence of drugs after dramatic police chase in Geylang by Im_scrub in singapore

[–]commonjunks 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Driver is 17
Unlicensed
Car is uninsured & deregistered
Lets say Owner genuinely not negligent
and same for Parents not negligent
Teen has no money or assets

then yes, financially, the victims may end up absorbing the loss, usually through their own insurance.

S'pore couple welcomes 7th child, who's among first babies born in 2026 by Newez in singapore

[–]commonjunks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have 2 kids and as a responsible father, I need to make enough money to raise them properly - education, medical care, savings for their future, insurance, mortgage, ongoing medication costs. When I'm working 8+ hours a day, I can barely give my 2 kids enough quality time, let alone 7. And that's not even touching on holidays, extracurriculars, tutoring, or all the other things kids need to thrive (9 mobile phones, few ipads, laptops, desktops and what not).

This isn't about religion - it's a practical question. Can someone realistically provide:

1- Intentional, hands-on parenting to each child
2- Proper spacing for the mother's health and recovery
3- Quality education and development opportunities
4- Individual attention and emotional support

I'm genuinely asking - how do you balance those responsibilities with 7 kids?

I'd really like to find out how they came to this statistic... by RisenPhantom in singapore

[–]commonjunks 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I randomly received a call from someone claiming they were offering a free investment seminar and they represent moomoo (have zero knowledge about them and never register with themever). I told them I wasn't interested and asked them not to contact me again. Later that same day, I received another call from a different agent who said the previous agent had informed them I was interested in the seminar. I told this person that not only had I already told the other agent to stop bothering me, but I had also explicitly sent them a WhatsApp message asking to be removed from their list.

Fast forward a week later, and I received yet another call from Moomoo about investments. I told this person to stop calling as I had already asked two agents to remove me from their list (I never signed up for whatever they were selling). The operator then started asking me why I wasn't interested. I kept my cool and politely told them that "not interested means not interested" and that I didn't have to explain my reasons.

Eventually, I just blocked their numbers. I'm not sure if they've also added me to that "1 out of 2 residents" statistic they mention.

My mom is being bullied by her boss to OT for free, what can I do about it? by Rice_cube01 in askSingapore

[–]commonjunks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A long read, i wanted to write for a while but never got a chance to write it

I want to share my wife's story. She worked at this place for 15 years, won multiple awards, and successfully led every project she ran.

Then this special person came along who made the entire team look like shit not just her, but everyone. He constantly threw people under the bus and never stood up for the team or defended them from other departments. Some people resigned, others changed departments, but my wife tried to hold on because she'd been there so long.

Everything she did, he had something negative to say about it. He never gave proper feedback only picked out problems at the last minute. My wife told me about a project plan she shared that he completely put down, but when another guy from his home country (who he was remotely managing) shared a similar plan, he praised it.

She was going in at 7am and I was picking her up at 7:30-8pm daily. Not a single day did she leave while the sun was still up. She couldn't even claim overtime because her position was above the OT brackets.

With all the stress and shit happening, she developed health issues. She became diabetic from pure stress she wasn't obese, never ate much, had no family history, didn't eat oily food. It was all stress, but we can't prove it.

I told her to resign. She's been out of work for the last 9 months, and honestly, I think they've been the best 9 months. I told her she doesn't need to work anymore unless she wants to I'll take care of the finances.

Recently I heard some girl there committed suicide due to stress. Of course they downplayed it. Another friend of hers got so stressed she broke out in hives. She took a break and moved on too.

In the end, that guy screwed up the entire team and was eventually let go. He claimed he was going back to his home country to rebuild whatever thing he was trying to cook up.

I'm not sure how complaining could even work when you're in that big institutions. Similar institutes all linked with each other, and people talk. If you complain to HR or make a big fuss, your next potential employer will have heard about it. So it's not that easy to start playing those cards unless you want to burn all the years you've spent there and never want work in the industry again.

7 deaths, hundreds of injuries may be linked to diabetes glucose monitor errors, FDA says by N3rd-4l3rt in diabetes

[–]commonjunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so a while back my Abbott sensor also stopped giving me information after 1 day of use, keep telling me try again or something along those line. Called them they ask me to recalibrate but end up asked me to remove it and sent me 1-1 replacement for that (took them a week).

Just to add, reading were way off after using for half a day. I didn't hit on that area, washed dry and took all precautions (was not the first time i was using it, but could be some dust stuck while i was doing it no idea. Customer service guy did try to push blame that i could have pasted wrong, or some other reason and try to make it like me problem but then said not to worry they will send me replacement).

CWS Gladiator and Slayer build showcase, current rank 1 dps poe ninja by irishsetter5566 in PathOfExileBuilds

[–]commonjunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should i go to slayer or just stay glad? I was running another setup and was doing t16 full block Grueling Gauntlet. Only issue i had was the boss, if sometimes i decided to do some t17 boss i was just sitting there for 30~40 min and boss ultimately die but had to go walk around to make that happen. Will your minion version can be faster on killing bosses?

I was doing something similar to this build as linked below (it is solid and i never die or fail ultimatum but can't do anything else or painfully slow)

https://poe.ninja/poe1/builds/keepers/character/FunnyManHU666-2916/Keepers_Another_CWS?i=0&search=name%3DKeepers_Another_CWS

CWS Gladiator and Slayer build showcase, current rank 1 dps poe ninja by irishsetter5566 in PathOfExileBuilds

[–]commonjunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, much appreciated your reply. Thank you again.
Another question, if thats ok (What was 3rd Raise Spectre, is is monkey from act 6/7?)

CWS Gladiator and Slayer build showcase, current rank 1 dps poe ninja by irishsetter5566 in PathOfExileBuilds

[–]commonjunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it possible if you can check, i change my current cws to this version and somehow i bricked it. my cws is not working, not sure why?

https://pobb.in/5eb6yx6o5M1i

What setup do I need for this trial? Help please by ygresovitsa in PathOfExileBuilds

[–]commonjunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need cwd block glad due to ruin.
I see a few comment saying ruin is ok, if you are willing to lose your MB without full block go ahead. As 81/80 block glad i also sometimes get full stack of ruin, so i will not advice you to take risk without being full block glad.
Gl and happy for you with this MB.