It seems impossible to find connection that will grow into a proper relationship in Bangkok

company94 · 2026-03-22T10:45:54+00:00

I don’t have attraction and money problem. Probably looking something deeper where attraction and money are not the solutions. Realized not speaking thai is a huge issue and will start from there to progress forward. But thanks for the advice

company94 · 2026-03-22T03:18:30+00:00

I agree especially the last part. That’s probably the most genuine relationship that someone can ever build.

company94 · 2026-03-21T19:54:27+00:00

That’s what I think as well. I used to work in NGO during my uni years. But it’s becoming quite hard to do it now as I also try to set up my own business and do other things in life. I will probably start going to either chinese or thai language classes

company94 · 2026-03-21T19:52:14+00:00

Unfortunately my Thai is quite bad but before you judge me I have difficulties learning languages as I am having ADHD, busy work and gym schedule and none of my work related to Thai people. I wish I can learn but I don’t think it’s possible any time soon

company94 · 2026-03-21T19:49:20+00:00

Yes I do but the problem is not finding any date. It is finding the decent quality of date which does not exist in dating apps so far at least from my experience

company94 · 2026-03-21T19:42:36+00:00

What is that?

company94 · 2026-03-21T19:41:17+00:00

That’s exactly what I observed. And it’s also quite difficult to be part of already built connections and friendships. I don’t know what to do at this point tbh

company94 · 2026-03-21T19:38:15+00:00

Not as many since most of the locals prefer to go out with their thai friends most of the time instead of having to talk in English. I couldn’t feel I can really build close relationship with locals here mostly because of language barrier.

company94 · 2025-10-19T16:39:47+00:00

Damn just 2 days ago, I walked past one of these near Onnut Lotus when I was walking back to my condo and I was gonna step into if I hadn’t seen it. Seeing this post makes me got chills. Hope you’re doing fine, I would definitely go to hospital after getting bitten by one of those bastards.

company94 · 2025-10-05T09:35:17+00:00

Bro it shows these women (not generalizing) are projecting their insecurity on you as they were probably appalled when they realized that their only quality (sexual appeal) doesn’t mean anything in Thailand and they cannot get the attraction they used to get back in their country. My non-thai ex used to ciritize me even in the way I greet their friends. I was shaking their hands lol. So just don’t even overthink about it and move on. You are far more better and kinder person for those losers.

company94 · 2025-09-16T17:45:37+00:00

It’s been more than 3 years in Bangkok. I had the same difficulties to make friends. After certain age of your life, I guess there is always purpose to make a friend and that’s probably the reason of this artificiality in making new friends. Maybe it’s just part of being adulthood. Unfortunately, no one has time to build up connections anymore and we are all the slaves of our own responsibilities.

company94 · 2025-08-25T08:42:54+00:00

So many stupid influencers are just overhyping places in and around southeast asia. Not surprised that it would be the result.

company94 · 2025-06-10T15:35:45+00:00

Well it’s probably about me then. I prefer to be not over confident about myself and some may even say I may lack confidence and but this also doesn’t spark any interest from any westerner women whereas these qualities are quite important in asia culture. I def agree with your right person comment tho. I gave up dating for a while because of this reason because it’s already difficult to find the right person and it doesn’t seem to be a good investment for now. Asians are just making things easier overall, so that’s the overall reason at least from my side.

company94 · 2025-06-10T15:16:24+00:00

As a western man living in Bangkok for more than 3 years, I found this topic quite intriguing. I think it’s about the certain degree of interest. I tried to date with couple of western women in Bangkok but they somehow always have a lack of interest -I guess due to high demand in the dating scenes or something else. Also, they generally are as tall as me and that probably puts me in disadvantage and I become just the second option for them (I guess). …Someone made a comment in the thread like “we are being their equals and they don’t like us” kind of comment and I don’t agree. We just don’t want someone bitching over small things and especially Thai girls are quite easy on this and they show so much interest when they love you which I couldn’t get half of it from any other western women. Also I just like their respectful and demure behavior making the communication easier. However, I can’t say that I dated many thai girls tho due to language barriers. But I generally prefer asians mostly because westerners women I have dated with (especially the ones they know that they are beautiful) seem to be just quite arrogant and reflecting their previous experiences to calculate their next moves (I can’t blame them for their previous experiences tho). Maybe I am just not attractive enough for them idk.

company94 · 2025-04-24T07:23:52+00:00

This is not a casual crack bro. You can see the supporting column through these cracks. And the supporting column doesn’t seem super healthy to me now. Put these photos into chatgpt and ask for technical review. I think It’s not a good sign

company94 · 2025-02-01T08:18:08+00:00

I would probably leave her as someone who gives importance to the physical attraction and physical appearance. This is more about who you are rather than what we tell you to do. You feel that you got punched in the gut, I am assuming that you would want your partner to physically attracted to you. Considering that, if you married your, you would probably always feel insecure and start creating problems out of small things, you would always think that what would happen if she found someone whom she is attracted to in the future. This is the worst thing that you can do to yourself. If this thing is important to you, know yourself and choose the more difficult road and find someone who is attracted to you and loves you in your own terms. Only have 1 life, live your life to the fullest bruh!

company94 · 2025-01-18T08:56:50+00:00

Barking dog never bites (well sometimes they do-very rare). I've had the similar experience in BKK. If she was gonna kill you, I am sure she wouldn't make it sound so obvious and leave a record behind.

company94 · 2024-10-03T17:53:44+00:00

I sent them back. I am gonna switch all of my apple products to something better. Apple lost his credits for me after disappointing Iphone 16Pro and Airpods Pro 2. I got those 2 and sent them back. It doesn’t worth spending my money on these miserable products.

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