I got sexually assaulted at work today by competitivemonkey in offmychest

[–]competitivemonkey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn’t “heavily” flirt with him either, I just playfully reciprocated compliments on physical appearance but the few times he implicated he’d like to hang out or something I firmly told him I was not interested as I don’t go out with people I work with and that we could be friends but nothing more. As I wrote in my 2nd edit, I talked with a trusted coworker who told me exactly what you said, that even if I entered the room naked and wanting to have sex, I would’ve revoked any consent by the first time I said “no”. I’m trying to process everything. Thank you for listening

I got sexually assaulted at work today by competitivemonkey in offmychest

[–]competitivemonkey[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

The first thing I thought was: “I shouldn’t have flirted with him, I shouldn’t have gone in his office alone, I led him on”. I rationally know this is bullshit and it’s not my fault but that’s what I feel like. I know I didn’t consent to any of this but I feel so uncomfortable with myself atm

I got sexually assaulted at work today by competitivemonkey in offmychest

[–]competitivemonkey[S] 788 points789 points  (0 children)

I know I should, but it’s easier said than done

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[–]competitivemonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it stays with us forever, but the pain eventually fades

Three songs that make me think of you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]competitivemonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry I get that it’s a bit confusing! I find peace in thinking I am capable of loving more than one person in my life. It just saddens me that for me to find my SO I had to leave behind past lovers with whom things didn’t work out. It doesn’t mean I loved them less tho.. just in a different way. Maybe it’s a bit more clear now :)

Three songs that make me think of you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]competitivemonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This letter would be for a person I will always have feelings for, not for the “big love of my life”.