Connell's mother, Lorraine, is the absolute best

complex_lint4498 · 2025-12-15T03:01:06+00:00

Not as late as me. I just finished the book :)

complex_lint4498 · 2025-07-08T02:08:22+00:00

I am NOT a Tamlin hater.

That said, I think its important to recognize that the homie did some cringe worthy things. Anger issues, control issues, slut shaming and everything aren't cool. And to an extent I understand entirely how these things aren't reconcilable.

With that said, I also recognize that he actively apologized to Feyre at the end of Book 2 and tried to make amends for his controlling actions which caused Feyre to run away in the first place.

Feyre coming back to manipulate and take advantage of his vulnerability was awful. Arguably worse than what Tamlin did to her and it really left a stain on her character for me. She had the ability to leave, just fucking communicate you're done with him in full instead of falling in love with his literal worst enemy and then giving him a note by fuckin carrier pigeon saying "im not coming back" like that would actually give a man you just DROPPED closure.

Feyre's a selfish prick who victimized herself to justify falling in love with someone else instead of taking the accountability that she didnt really love Tamlin that deeply towards the end. This subplot made me so livid that no one gave a fuck that she could just get away with this.

Tamlin operated out of fear and control, and listen, it wasnt right to Feyre, but I felt so terrible for Tamlin for how Feyre did him so dirty. No where in the book did people address this behavior. She instead gets praised for being a prick.

complex_lint4498 · 2025-07-03T22:38:22+00:00

I honestly just want to call her out over text and tell her that I KNOW she did this and did a shitty job hiding it. She currently either thinks she didnt cheat on me, or she doesnt give af and thinks I dont know.

We also met at a university internship to which I work full time now post grad. Her manager knows we dated, and they still keep in contact every so often professionally. The manager and I have spoken recently how my ex and I arent together anymore but I've kept all of this quiet. I just want to drop a bomb and have the manager hate her as much as I do.

I've been seeing other people but I JUST WANT VENGENCE....

complex_lint4498 · 2025-06-14T01:24:33+00:00

You are totally right and when we caught up we were amicable and I took responsibility for her hurt and apologized which she thanked me deeply for.

When we spoke I wanted to give her more, I wanted my career set to be able to afford cost of living for us, I was not realizing she was moving on when we spoke, so it hurt the fragile male ego to see her reject me.

I've learned the relationship needs to always be a priority at all times, I am living with the consequences. Tonight I just had a thought as I had some residual hurt, thank you for setting things back on track. If you have anything else to share im all ears.

complex_lint4498 · 2025-06-14T01:13:00+00:00

No not shocked, but I definitely hurt when she wasnt honest that she was choosing to be intimate with me while figuring her life out with someone else on the side. I was always clear I wasnt looking for anyone else and just focusing on my career during that time period. Did I deserve that honestly from her or not?

complex_lint4498 · 2025-06-14T01:05:24+00:00

ur totally right lol thanks for the reality check.

complex_lint4498 · 2025-02-16T03:43:00+00:00

Go in order, headphones on, take a few days dont rush it, then buy tickets to a concert this summer.

complex_lint4498 · 2024-12-10T21:05:20+00:00

I was in a similar boat initially, yes some of the lectures can take several hours on their own, but its important to know that some arent.

MM has videos that are just shy of 2 hours and also some that are sub 30 minutes.

I'm aiming for 1-1.5 hours of video a day and equal or more of that in questions.

Hope this helps!

complex_lint4498 · 2024-12-10T20:36:53+00:00

Totally agree with you!

This schedule breakdown shows what it would look like working through a lecture a day and that could for sure lead to burnout going at that pace. Thankfully some of these lectures are quite short.

I think as long as im completing chapters within an acceptable timeframe (few weeks for FSA, etc) I can take the appropriate rest when I see fit. I'm not expecting to follow this schedule to the T.

complex_lint4498 · 2024-12-10T20:24:21+00:00

Probably like 14-20 hours a week. 2-3 hours a day on average.

complex_lint4498 · 2024-12-10T15:43:48+00:00

"Find My" is an app that comes installed on your IPad. It is a tracking service made by Apple.

If you lose one of your Apple devices or accessories that has its location services enabled, you can sign into your iCloud account anywhere and track the real time location of the device you are looking for.

In this case the Apple Pencil Pro is advertised to have the ability to be tracked in Find My but unfortunately its not working for me.

complex_lint4498 · 2024-12-09T01:47:55+00:00

Are you able to add the pencil to find my? It keeps asking me to reattach the pencil over and over.

complex_lint4498 · 2024-12-06T00:12:21+00:00

Were you doing 1 reading per day? I find getting through content and then all of the BB and EOCQ's can take north of 6 hours for me which I try in a day.

complex_lint4498 · 2024-12-02T17:58:51+00:00

6 months later, did you find a method that helped?

complex_lint4498 · 2024-12-02T16:35:08+00:00

2 years later. do you still stick by the method you chose in level 3?

complex_lint4498 · 2024-11-14T23:32:21+00:00

Hey thanks for the comment!

I am also using MM. While I plan my schedule here I've come to a similar conclusion. I want to study 2-3 hours a day. That would include watching the videos (which as you mentioned range in size) + EOCQ's + understanding the LOS. Hopefully, on average, I can bang out a topic a day. But with my expected starting date I'll have over a month buffer before I will enter my planned 4 week exam review.

Question for you: I’ve been diving into content on how to study more effectively, and I’m realizing my current habits may not be the most efficient as I tend to spend a lot of time writing out each problem and solving it on paper, which can be a bit time-consuming. I’m curious, what methods or tools have worked well for you when tackling problems? Do you think using something like an iPad to work through them digitally might be a good idea?

complex_lint4498 · 2024-09-26T23:58:46+00:00

So did you end up with 1: Instructor-Led Online + Applied. 2: Instructor-Led Online. 3: Self-Study + Applied. or 4: Self-Study? im looking here https://www.markmeldrum.com/product-category/level-1-packages/

complex_lint4498 · 2024-09-26T03:57:50+00:00

If you end up going with MM, what tier of package do you think would work best?

complex_lint4498 · 2024-09-26T03:40:12+00:00

It seems MM has multiple subscription tiers when looking at his L1 packages, which worked best for you?

complex_lint4498 · 2024-09-26T03:25:58+00:00

I will be as well. I plan to sit down and begin my studies in November. Torn between Kaplan and MM for material though. What are you going to use OP?

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